Being Alone, Cheating, and Community: If you see a woman that has everything going for herself and you're not ready to add value to her life... just admire her from afar Please don't interrupt her greatness. chakabars Brothers I know your insecurities, I used to share them, I still do share some of them. I know that you not being able to provide for your family is one of them, that's why you hit the block... It's not your block though, a bank owns it. That bank takes money out of your community, it doesn't want to build it up for you. But let's talk about your relationships with women. Are they mutually beneficial, or are you just as sexist as the next man? Do you build her up or do you tear her down? Are you creating or are you destroying. Are you scared you will lose her, because you haven't stepped your game up like you promised? Do her a favour, please don't try to get her pregnant, so your child can keep her because you couldn't. Do you expect her to be a brilliant lover in bed, but have never slept with someone before you? Are you telling her what to wear, what not to wear... where to be and who to talk to? Don't project your insecurities on to her because you are cheating, but won't admit that you sleep with other women, because you are scared of what she might say. Be a man, stick up for her, be a role model to her as she is for you. Be the type of man you would want your daughter to be with. She receives enough oppression from other men and sexist systems. Don't be another oppressor, uplift her, fight for her, build with her if you are ready to, but if you aren't leave her alone and watch her grow from a distance, don't mess up her life because you aren't happy with yours. You shouldn't be a distraction, appreciate her and bless her, be her solution not her problem... chakabars

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