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    Abandonment: Humiliation, Abandonment, Rejection, and so many more.
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
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    Abandonment: oyal HighnesS
 Follow
 @FlawdazFinest86
 Really @DunkinDonuts?
 2:45 PM - 18 Nov 2017 from Dunkin' Donuts
 543 Retweets 2,626 Likes

 Raphael
 Follow
 @iam_raph
 Do you think this woman would prefer to
 carry around her child at work if she had
 another choice? You have no clue what the
 back story is behind this pic but here you are,
 snitching on what could probably be a single
 mother dedicated to making sure her son can
 eat. Wild
 Royal Highness@FlawdazFinest86
 Really @DunkinDonuts?
 11:25 AM 20 Nov 2017
 149,586 Retweets 366,288 Likes
captain-snark:

lonely-vault-boy:
lord-kitschener:

leggo-my-steggo:


agirlwithachakram:

labellabrianna:

gahdamnpunk:
women just can’t win..

I’ve had to bring my daughter into work with me a couple times. 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

How about: Really, Dunkin’ Donuts? You don’t pay enough for this woman to get childcare or paid maternity leave?

How about: Really, America? You don’t have childcare and maternity leave covered as a standard right?
but also fuck Dunkin’ Donuts too


I hope that bitch-ass snitch never has another good day again for a long time

Okay, yeah, sure, maternity leave and shit is understandable, but what I believe what the picture (correct me if I’m wrong) is implying is that it’s unsanitary as fuck to have a child behind the counter where the food is. (At least, at all the Dunkin’ Donuts I’ve been to, they openly display the donuts.)

Listen, I’ve gone to dunkin donuts where the men’s bathroom looked like the toilet threw up and watched several employees and a manager USE the bathroom and just leave without giving a fuck.Been to a dunkin donuts where a friend asked an employee to make sure her drink was half ice and the woman put something in her drink.Is it sanitary? No, obviously not. Do you think employees at Dunkin Donuts and other places get paid enough to give a shit about health and safety when they don’t make enough to take care about their own health and safety?No, probably not.I’d rather get this kid’s cold on my donut than go to fucking Chipotle and get e coli because i ate some lettuce.I’d also rather the kid give people his sickness than him getting accidentally scalded by hot water. Lets also talk about the times where people of color have had to leave their kids in mall food courts and the like in order to either go to work/job interview whatever and have been arrested for child abandonment.Capitalism is a fucking joke.
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Abandonment: oyal HighnesS
 Follow
 @FlawdazFinest86
 Really @DunkinDonuts?
 2:45 PM - 18 Nov 2017 from Dunkin' Donuts
 543 Retweets 2,626 Likes

 Raphael
 Follow
 @iam_raph
 Do you think this woman would prefer to
 carry around her child at work if she had
 another choice? You have no clue what the
 back story is behind this pic but here you are,
 snitching on what could probably be a single
 mother dedicated to making sure her son can
 eat. Wild
 Royal Highness@FlawdazFinest86
 Really @DunkinDonuts?
 11:25 AM 20 Nov 2017
 149,586 Retweets 366,288 Likes
captain-snark:

lonely-vault-boy:
lord-kitschener:

leggo-my-steggo:


agirlwithachakram:

labellabrianna:

gahdamnpunk:
women just can’t win..

I’ve had to bring my daughter into work with me a couple times. 🤷🏽‍♀️ 

How about: Really, Dunkin’ Donuts? You don’t pay enough for this woman to get childcare or paid maternity leave?

How about: Really, America? You don’t have childcare and maternity leave covered as a standard right?
but also fuck Dunkin’ Donuts too


I hope that bitch-ass snitch never has another good day again for a long time

Okay, yeah, sure, maternity leave and shit is understandable, but what I believe what the picture (correct me if I’m wrong) is implying is that it’s unsanitary as fuck to have a child behind the counter where the food is. (At least, at all the Dunkin’ Donuts I’ve been to, they openly display the donuts.)

Listen, I’ve gone to dunkin donuts where the men’s bathroom looked like the toilet threw up and watched several employees and a manager USE the bathroom and just leave without giving a fuck.Been to a dunkin donuts where a friend asked an employee to make sure her drink was half ice and the woman put something in her drink.Is it sanitary? No, obviously not. Do you think employees at Dunkin Donuts and other places get paid enough to give a shit about health and safety when they don’t make enough to take care about their own health and safety?No, probably not.I’d rather get this kid’s cold on my donut than go to fucking Chipotle and get e coli because i ate some lettuce.I’d also rather the kid give people his sickness than him getting accidentally scalded by hot water. Lets also talk about the times where people of color have had to leave their kids in mall food courts and the like in order to either go to work/job interview whatever and have been arrested for child abandonment.Capitalism is a fucking joke.
                
            

            
            
captain-snark:

lonely-vault-boy:
lord-kitschener:

leggo-my-steggo:


agirlwithachakram:

labellabrianna:

gahdamnpunk:
women just can’t...

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            







    Abandonment: "You will continue to suffer if you have an
 emotional reaction to everything that is
 said to you. True power is sitting back and
 observing everything with logic. If words
 control you that means everyone else
 can control you. Breathe and allow
 things to pass."
 - Bruce Lee
Every thought we have activates a cluster of neurons, they send an action potential down the axons to cross synapse that releases neurotransmitters. If we keep reactivating this network, it becomes stronger because surrounding glial cell feed the cluster and it becomes thicker and stronger. We are literally talking ourselves out of success. If something goes wrong in your life and you make the mistake of making it personal telling yourself a shit story about "how it is", you’re dirtying up your mind with dangerous shit. All of our fears are self-created. They form in the brain's default mode network and are greatly amplified when the brain's alarm and avoidance network is on. This drives our decisions because emotion supersedes thought. We fear rejection, embarrassment, loss, and abandonment, powerful emotions that override positive thought. For most people they are focused on what could go wrong and feel embarrassed; this is EXACTLY what creates these emotions that are holding us back. There's a 90-second rule which states that, if one can redirect their focus off the bullshit story, the network will stop firing neurotransmitters down the action potential; that kills the emotion. Negative Emotion is just like too much alcohol, we need to sober up! Most people cannot do this; 15 months ago I couldn't either when it counted the most because there is an underlying cause of stress, cellular stress, which puts the brain in the SAME CHAOS, alarm and avoidance. I call this red stress, and it's in the food supply in the form of AGE's, ALE's, aldehydes, estrogen mimics, microplastics, mitotoxins etc. Your body is at war, and it needs cofactors to fight each battle, and most people lack there too. This war must be financed, it diverts energy to fight battle after battle. You will experience this as being tired, lose focus, become moody and stressed. Wouldn't this energy be better-spent financing focus, passion, and success? Take out red stress💫 I'm building a free course on doing just that, it's opening us soon. TAG SOMEONE YOU BELIEVE IN WHO NEEDS THIS . lawofattraction nevergiveup brucelee emotionalintelligence onelife nutrigenomics
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Abandonment: "You will continue to suffer if you have an
 emotional reaction to everything that is
 said to you. True power is sitting back and
 observing everything with logic. If words
 control you that means everyone else
 can control you. Breathe and allow
 things to pass."
 - Bruce Lee
Every thought we have activates a cluster of neurons, they send an action potential down the axons to cross synapse that releases neurotransmitters. If we keep reactivating this network, it becomes stronger because surrounding glial cell feed the cluster and it becomes thicker and stronger. We are literally talking ourselves out of success. If something goes wrong in your life and you make the mistake of making it personal telling yourself a shit story about "how it is", you’re dirtying up your mind with dangerous shit. All of our fears are self-created. They form in the brain's default mode network and are greatly amplified when the brain's alarm and avoidance network is on. This drives our decisions because emotion supersedes thought. We fear rejection, embarrassment, loss, and abandonment, powerful emotions that override positive thought. For most people they are focused on what could go wrong and feel embarrassed; this is EXACTLY what creates these emotions that are holding us back. There's a 90-second rule which states that, if one can redirect their focus off the bullshit story, the network will stop firing neurotransmitters down the action potential; that kills the emotion. Negative Emotion is just like too much alcohol, we need to sober up! Most people cannot do this; 15 months ago I couldn't either when it counted the most because there is an underlying cause of stress, cellular stress, which puts the brain in the SAME CHAOS, alarm and avoidance. I call this red stress, and it's in the food supply in the form of AGE's, ALE's, aldehydes, estrogen mimics, microplastics, mitotoxins etc. Your body is at war, and it needs cofactors to fight each battle, and most people lack there too. This war must be financed, it diverts energy to fight battle after battle. You will experience this as being tired, lose focus, become moody and stressed. Wouldn't this energy be better-spent financing focus, passion, and success? Take out red stress💫 I'm building a free course on doing just that, it's opening us soon. TAG SOMEONE YOU BELIEVE IN WHO NEEDS THIS . lawofattraction nevergiveup brucelee emotionalintelligence onelife nutrigenomics
                
            

            
            
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    Abandonment: Celeste Wohl
 Pantsuit Nation
 39 mins
 Talked to my husband about this being the time to
 share my story. He agreed it is time. In 1985 1 wasn't
 feeling well and the doctor did a battery of tests/
 bloodwork. It turned out I was pregnant. I had always
 wanted a large family (8 kids). I had a two year old at
 home and had suffered miscarriages before she was
 born. I was sent to a specialist because it was felt
 there was something wrong. Off I went to the
 specialist; he was even a fertility doctor and surgeon
 Basically he said yes your pregnant, yes something is
 very wrong and We don't believe you and the baby will
 survive the pregnancy. The recommendation was an
 abortion. I was traumatized. One part of me thought if
 I had enough faith l should just risk it all and stay
 pregnant. Then there was the mental discussion of
 okay- so my choices are stay pregnant and possibly
 die and leave my daughter without a mother or stay
 pregnant and both the baby and I die or what if by
 some miracle the baby survived I could end up leaving
 two children motherless

 Thinking through scenarios was and is its own form
 of torture. Then one evening I looked into my 2 yr old
 daughter's eyes and she giggled at me and I knew the
 answer. How could l possibly consider not watching
 her grow up? How could I intentionally leave her
 without a mother. She had not asked to be brought
 into this world so abandoning her was not an option. I
 equate death with abandonment in this situatiorn
 I am from a religion that believes the soul enters the
 body with the first breath. It did not make my decision
 any easier. A part of me still felt like I was turning my
 back on
 G-d by not trvina to stav pregnant
 I had the abortion. The week before protestors had
 broken into the clinic rooms while the doctor and
 nurses were with patients, The protesters wreaked
 medical havoc. I honestly don't remember if they
 interrupted fertilization procedures or something else
 lt was terrifying going to the clinic. The abortions that
 were scheduled that day were insanely early in the
 morning and each patient had a special code word. I
 had to knock at a specified time. The other women
 there (all three of us) looked equally terrified
 During the abortion the doctor told me I had made the
 right decision because the baby had stopped

 developing. Once all the rest of the tests came back
 we found out why the baby was not developing. I had
 uterine cancer. To weeks later I had a hysterectomy to
 save my life. A few years ago, after sharing my story
 with a close friend and lay minister, she pointed
 something out to me I had never thought of. She told
 me that maybe G-d had sent the pregnancy(baby) to
 me to save my life. Without the pregnancy we never
 would have found the cancer
 Here is what I know. I have told this story maybe 1/2 a
 dozen times. The telling does not make it easier.
 Knowing that both the baby and I would have been
 dead doesn't make it any easie
 How much worse would the process have been if
 abortion was illegal?
 Anytime someone tells me no abortion under any
 circumstances I want to yell in their face they are
 advocating that my daughter grow up motherless
 My name is Celeste Wohl. This is my story. If it helps
 anyone please share it. As women we have
 inalienable rights and the right to be a person
 Il'm sorry about the typos but I'm not proofreading this
 it was hard enough to write
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Abandonment: Celeste Wohl
 Pantsuit Nation
 39 mins
 Talked to my husband about this being the time to
 share my story. He agreed it is time. In 1985 1 wasn't
 feeling well and the doctor did a battery of tests/
 bloodwork. It turned out I was pregnant. I had always
 wanted a large family (8 kids). I had a two year old at
 home and had suffered miscarriages before she was
 born. I was sent to a specialist because it was felt
 there was something wrong. Off I went to the
 specialist; he was even a fertility doctor and surgeon
 Basically he said yes your pregnant, yes something is
 very wrong and We don't believe you and the baby will
 survive the pregnancy. The recommendation was an
 abortion. I was traumatized. One part of me thought if
 I had enough faith l should just risk it all and stay
 pregnant. Then there was the mental discussion of
 okay- so my choices are stay pregnant and possibly
 die and leave my daughter without a mother or stay
 pregnant and both the baby and I die or what if by
 some miracle the baby survived I could end up leaving
 two children motherless

 Thinking through scenarios was and is its own form
 of torture. Then one evening I looked into my 2 yr old
 daughter's eyes and she giggled at me and I knew the
 answer. How could l possibly consider not watching
 her grow up? How could I intentionally leave her
 without a mother. She had not asked to be brought
 into this world so abandoning her was not an option. I
 equate death with abandonment in this situatiorn
 I am from a religion that believes the soul enters the
 body with the first breath. It did not make my decision
 any easier. A part of me still felt like I was turning my
 back on
 G-d by not trvina to stav pregnant
 I had the abortion. The week before protestors had
 broken into the clinic rooms while the doctor and
 nurses were with patients, The protesters wreaked
 medical havoc. I honestly don't remember if they
 interrupted fertilization procedures or something else
 lt was terrifying going to the clinic. The abortions that
 were scheduled that day were insanely early in the
 morning and each patient had a special code word. I
 had to knock at a specified time. The other women
 there (all three of us) looked equally terrified
 During the abortion the doctor told me I had made the
 right decision because the baby had stopped

 developing. Once all the rest of the tests came back
 we found out why the baby was not developing. I had
 uterine cancer. To weeks later I had a hysterectomy to
 save my life. A few years ago, after sharing my story
 with a close friend and lay minister, she pointed
 something out to me I had never thought of. She told
 me that maybe G-d had sent the pregnancy(baby) to
 me to save my life. Without the pregnancy we never
 would have found the cancer
 Here is what I know. I have told this story maybe 1/2 a
 dozen times. The telling does not make it easier.
 Knowing that both the baby and I would have been
 dead doesn't make it any easie
 How much worse would the process have been if
 abortion was illegal?
 Anytime someone tells me no abortion under any
 circumstances I want to yell in their face they are
 advocating that my daughter grow up motherless
 My name is Celeste Wohl. This is my story. If it helps
 anyone please share it. As women we have
 inalienable rights and the right to be a person
 Il'm sorry about the typos but I'm not proofreading this
 it was hard enough to write
                
            

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            







    Abandonment: "TMI!"
 INTENSE!"
 "TOO EMOTIONAL!"
 OVER
 SHARING
 AND
 BP D
 TEXTSFROMTHEBORDERLINE.TUMBLR.COM

 WHAT IS IT?
 TEXTSFROMTHEBORDERLINE.TUMBLR.COM
 THE PROCESS
 People with BPD are emotionally intense, emotionally
 sensitive, and emotionally intelligent
 We need to feel like our thoughts, feelings, and
 experiences are received (and hopefully, reciprocated!)
 Oversharing is the process of us revealing these things
 in extreme detail, about every possible topic, in a effort
 to demonstrate the intricacies and depths of our inner
 processes
 e want you to understand + appreciate us
 WHY IT HAPPENS
 If we're (over)sharing anything with you, it means you
 make us feel comfortable, safe, loved+accepted. We
 are free to be ourselves, and we want you to know that!
 It's our attempt at building intimacy, trust, and care
 POSITIVE OUTCOMES
 Helps develop clear+strong communicat
 ion skills.
 Honestly conveys what's on our minod
 Can nurture amazingly close, fulfilling relationships.
 DIFFICULTIES
 The other person may feel overwhelmed
 Oversharing is not a substitute for healthy intimacy
 Can unintentionally disregard boundaries
 THINGS TO WORK ON
 Communicating with the appropriate time, place, and
 person; it's good to share, just make sure it's okay!
 It doesn't have to be an outburst; take your time.
 Be patient; give the other person time to respond

 SHARING +CARING
 HEALTHY INTIMACY
 Intimacy involves feelings of emotional closeness and
 connectedness with another person, along with the
 desire to share each other's innermost thoughts and
 feelings. There are different types of intimacy:
 emotional, intellectual, physical (sexual), experiential,
 and spiritual. Oversharing can encompass all five, but
 most commonly it involves emotional + intellectual
 ed
 A healthy level of intimacy is achieved when both the
 communicator and the receiver feel safe +comfortable
 to voice their inner processes, when they are respected
 + encouraged to do so, and when there is active
 listening, empathy (cognitive, at the very least) and
 enuine interest involved
 HEART TO HEART
 Having a discussion that is meaningful can leave you
 both feeling closer than ever before. You can build
 appreciation of each other's emotional life, interests,
 goals, fears, sorrows, and victories. Beautiful moments
 happen when they are free, spontaneous, and motivated
 by care instead of pressure. The exchange of energy+
 perspectives can help Borderlines lessen anxiousness,
 fear of abandonment, feeling like they are a burden +
 help them learn how to communicate better
 OVERSHARING IS REALLY ABOUT LEARNING HOW TO
 COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY, NOT ABOUT BOTTLING
 YOURSELF UP AND THEN EXPLODING
 TEXTSFROMTHEBORDERLINE.TUMBLR.COM
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Abandonment: "TMI!"
 INTENSE!"
 "TOO EMOTIONAL!"
 OVER
 SHARING
 AND
 BP D
 TEXTSFROMTHEBORDERLINE.TUMBLR.COM

 WHAT IS IT?
 TEXTSFROMTHEBORDERLINE.TUMBLR.COM
 THE PROCESS
 People with BPD are emotionally intense, emotionally
 sensitive, and emotionally intelligent
 We need to feel like our thoughts, feelings, and
 experiences are received (and hopefully, reciprocated!)
 Oversharing is the process of us revealing these things
 in extreme detail, about every possible topic, in a effort
 to demonstrate the intricacies and depths of our inner
 processes
 e want you to understand + appreciate us
 WHY IT HAPPENS
 If we're (over)sharing anything with you, it means you
 make us feel comfortable, safe, loved+accepted. We
 are free to be ourselves, and we want you to know that!
 It's our attempt at building intimacy, trust, and care
 POSITIVE OUTCOMES
 Helps develop clear+strong communicat
 ion skills.
 Honestly conveys what's on our minod
 Can nurture amazingly close, fulfilling relationships.
 DIFFICULTIES
 The other person may feel overwhelmed
 Oversharing is not a substitute for healthy intimacy
 Can unintentionally disregard boundaries
 THINGS TO WORK ON
 Communicating with the appropriate time, place, and
 person; it's good to share, just make sure it's okay!
 It doesn't have to be an outburst; take your time.
 Be patient; give the other person time to respond

 SHARING +CARING
 HEALTHY INTIMACY
 Intimacy involves feelings of emotional closeness and
 connectedness with another person, along with the
 desire to share each other's innermost thoughts and
 feelings. There are different types of intimacy:
 emotional, intellectual, physical (sexual), experiential,
 and spiritual. Oversharing can encompass all five, but
 most commonly it involves emotional + intellectual
 ed
 A healthy level of intimacy is achieved when both the
 communicator and the receiver feel safe +comfortable
 to voice their inner processes, when they are respected
 + encouraged to do so, and when there is active
 listening, empathy (cognitive, at the very least) and
 enuine interest involved
 HEART TO HEART
 Having a discussion that is meaningful can leave you
 both feeling closer than ever before. You can build
 appreciation of each other's emotional life, interests,
 goals, fears, sorrows, and victories. Beautiful moments
 happen when they are free, spontaneous, and motivated
 by care instead of pressure. The exchange of energy+
 perspectives can help Borderlines lessen anxiousness,
 fear of abandonment, feeling like they are a burden +
 help them learn how to communicate better
 OVERSHARING IS REALLY ABOUT LEARNING HOW TO
 COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY, NOT ABOUT BOTTLING
 YOURSELF UP AND THEN EXPLODING
 TEXTSFROMTHEBORDERLINE.TUMBLR.COM
                
            

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            







    Abandonment: Man Sets Ex-Girlfriend on Fire and
 Abandons Her Baby on the Side of The
 Road After She Asks For a Paternity Test
 @balleralert
Man Sets Ex-Girlfriend on Fire and Abandons Her Baby on the Side of The Road After She Asks For a Paternity Test - blogged by @MsJennyb ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A Phoenix man has been arrested and charged with murder after setting his ex-girlfriend on fire for asking him to take a paternity test. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ According to CBS News, officials cracked open the case on March 3, when police found a baby girl in a car seat on the road in 49-degree weather. Upon further investigation, officials found an adult shoe, a diaper bag and a wallet with an ID that belonged to 21-year-old Jasmine Dunbar. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As a result, officials contacted Dunbar’s family, who had confirmed the baby belonged to the 21-year-old. But, where was the young woman? Dunbar’s godmother told police that her goddaughter had organized a meeting with Antwaun Ware to discuss establishing paternity for her 7-month-old daughter. But, she never returned. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When officials finally got in contact with Ware, he said he picked Dunbar and her daughter up and dropped her back off after they got into an argument over the paternity test. But, he later changed his story, allegedly telling officials that he physically assaulted the woman and left her in a field. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As for the baby, he reportedly told officials that he dropped the baby near his girlfriend’s house because he thought someone would retrieve her and take care of her. However, after leaving the baby on the side of the road, he told officials that he returned to Dunbar’s body and set her on fire with gasoline and watched her body burn. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As a result, Ware was charged with one count of first-degree murder, one count of kidnapping and one count of abandonment of a body, and child abuse. He is currently being held on a $1 million bond.
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Abandonment: Man Sets Ex-Girlfriend on Fire and
 Abandons Her Baby on the Side of The
 Road After She Asks For a Paternity Test
 @balleralert
Man Sets Ex-Girlfriend on Fire and Abandons Her Baby on the Side of The Road After She Asks For a Paternity Test - blogged by @MsJennyb ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A Phoenix man has been arrested and charged with murder after setting his ex-girlfriend on fire for asking him to take a paternity test. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ According to CBS News, officials cracked open the case on March 3, when police found a baby girl in a car seat on the road in 49-degree weather. Upon further investigation, officials found an adult shoe, a diaper bag and a wallet with an ID that belonged to 21-year-old Jasmine Dunbar. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As a result, officials contacted Dunbar’s family, who had confirmed the baby belonged to the 21-year-old. But, where was the young woman? Dunbar’s godmother told police that her goddaughter had organized a meeting with Antwaun Ware to discuss establishing paternity for her 7-month-old daughter. But, she never returned. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When officials finally got in contact with Ware, he said he picked Dunbar and her daughter up and dropped her back off after they got into an argument over the paternity test. But, he later changed his story, allegedly telling officials that he physically assaulted the woman and left her in a field. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As for the baby, he reportedly told officials that he dropped the baby near his girlfriend’s house because he thought someone would retrieve her and take care of her. However, after leaving the baby on the side of the road, he told officials that he returned to Dunbar’s body and set her on fire with gasoline and watched her body burn. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As a result, Ware was charged with one count of first-degree murder, one count of kidnapping and one count of abandonment of a body, and child abuse. He is currently being held on a $1 million bond.
                
            

            
            
Man Sets Ex-Girlfriend on Fire and Abandons Her Baby on the Side of The Road After She Asks For a Paternity Test - blogged by @MsJennyb ⠀...