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    Accident: what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


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Iā€™ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and ā€œrespect for other peopleā€™s things.ā€ If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always sayĀ ā€œI bought them that toyā€ orĀ ā€œmy sister gave that to them.ā€
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. Itā€™s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your childā€™s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but hereā€™s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because Iā€™d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didnā€™t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldnā€™t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someoneā€™s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, ā€œOh, my bad,ā€ and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someoneā€™s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God Iā€™ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

ā€œI say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.ā€YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandmaā€™s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: ā€œAre you hurt?ā€ and when I apologized profusely she said ā€œIā€™m just glad you werenā€™t hurt.ā€
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dadā€™s first response was ā€œDid you get cut?ā€ the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest ā€œpunishmentā€ from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friendsā€™ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didnā€™t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of ā€œIā€™m glad youā€™re safe and I want to help you learn from this.ā€ And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
Itā€™s likeā€¦ we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely. 

    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychological trauma in the making


THANK YOU

Iā€™ve asked parents about this and they always say they are teaching the child responsibility and ā€œrespect for other peopleā€™s things.ā€ If I point out that the child accidentally broke their own toy they always sayĀ ā€œI bought them that toyā€ orĀ ā€œmy sister gave that to them.ā€
The problem is that parents view all possessions as not really belonging to the child. A part of them always seems to think that the adult who provided the money is the real owner
If a parent breaks a dish they see it as breaking something that already belonged to them, but if a child breaks it they see it as the child breaking something that belonged to the parents 
People raising children need to realize that household possessions belong to the entire household. If everyone has to use that plate then it belongs to everyone and anyone can have a forgivable accident with it. Itā€™s okay to deem certain possessions as just yours and ask everyone in the house to respect that, but extend the same respect to your childā€™s belongings

Big mood. I know most of these are talking about little little kids, but hereā€™s a tale from middle school. I had forgotten to charge my phone one night, and this was back when cell phones used to beep loudly when they were low on battery. I kept hearing the noise throughout the afternoon and not recognizing what it was because Iā€™d never heard it before. When I finally did realize what it was, I was in science class and my fellow classmates were making presentations. I reached into my bag to try to turn off the phone, and then the low-battery sound went off, loud enough for the teacher to hear it. She confiscated my phone in front of everyone, and I didnā€™t get it back until after the weekend because it was a Friday. I was really embarrassed, especially to tell my parents.
When I got my phone back that Monday, my teacher said it was important for me to learn this lesson now since in college they wouldnā€™t tolerate phones going off. Fast forward to when I was in college, any time someoneā€™s phone went off, either the professor would tell them to turn it off, or they would say, ā€œOh, my bad,ā€ and turn it off themselves, and everyone would move on. I even had a professor who danced around while someoneā€™s phone went off, and it was a welcome moment of levity during the lecture. 
I say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.



God Iā€™ve been reading these posts for a while and each time I am struck with the realization that certainly not all parents were supposed to be a parent

ā€œI say all this to say, one of the worst aspects of being a child/teen was adults assuming my intentions were malicious.ā€YES this



The problem is, even if families are forgiving the culture around children still effects the child. I use myself as proof of that. 
A few times between the ages of 4 and 18 I broke things. I broke my grandmaā€™s favorite Christmas ornament. Her first question was: ā€œAre you hurt?ā€ and when I apologized profusely she said ā€œIā€™m just glad you werenā€™t hurt.ā€
I broke a few plates. I broke a couple glasses. Every time my dadā€™s first response was ā€œDid you get cut?ā€ the second step was cleaning up the broken bits, and the third was a discussion of what led to me breaking it and how I could avoid doing that in the future.
Same with spills. Same with stains. My biggest ā€œpunishmentā€ from my immediate family was being taught how to clean up the mess I made and being shown in detail how to avoid the same mistake in the future if it was avoidable. There were consequences for my actions, but they were the direct result of those actions and nothing much beyond that.
My family tried so hard to teach me how to deal with accidents in a healthy way. They were patient. They treated every slip-up as a learning opportunity. They showed me a lot of love. The other adults still got to me. Teachers still punished and publicly shamed me and other students for our mess-ups. Extended family members outside of my small supportive circle still yelled at me. My friendsā€™ parents still got mad.
To the point where whenever I messed up my first instinct was that my dad or grandparents were going to punish me, or yell at me, or hit me, even though they never did. They just didnā€™t. They always responded with patience and an attitude of ā€œIā€™m glad youā€™re safe and I want to help you learn from this.ā€ And I was still afraid of messing up. Mortified. Expecting the worst every time.
Itā€™s likeā€¦ we need to change the culture around this, man. Completely. 

                
            

            
            
what-even-is-thiss:

bobcatdump:

jaskiegg:

mellomaia:

aphony-cree:

beyoncescock:

gahdamnpunk:

Honestly!!! This is just psychologica...

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            







    Accident: They said it was an accident šŸ˜’ by hoodmonalisuh
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                Accident: They said it was an accident šŸ˜’ by hoodmonalisuh
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    Accident: They said it was an accident šŸ˜’
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
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    Accident: srsfunny:

Trust me it was an accident
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: srsfunny:

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    Accident: Maybe it was an accidentā€¦
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
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    Accident: Maybe it was an accidentā€¦ by snap_out_0f_it
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                Accident: Maybe it was an accidentā€¦ by snap_out_0f_it
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    Accident: Trust me it was an accident by Jakeymach06
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    Accident: This kid hit his bike against a car. In Taiwan, any traffic accident requires a breathalyzer test.
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: This kid hit his bike against a car. In Taiwan, any traffic accident requires a breathalyzer test.
                
            

            
            
This kid hit his bike against a car. In Taiwan, any traffic accident requires a breathalyzer test.

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            







    Accident: the-moon-is-my-butt:

@astromechovessĀ  this seems like something that would happen with your brood, accident or not?


Me when Jasper doesnā€™t get a happy end 
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: the-moon-is-my-butt:

@astromechovessĀ  this seems like something that would happen with your brood, accident or not?


Me when Jasper doesnā€™t get a happy end 
                
            

            
            
the-moon-is-my-butt:

@astromechovessĀ  this seems like something that would happen with your brood, accident or not?


Me when Jasper doe...

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            







    Accident: baking-accident:
when itā€™s time for your favorite character to show up
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: baking-accident:
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baking-accident:
when itā€™s time for your favorite character to show up

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            







    Accident: Pretty sure she swiped right by accident but I told her no takebacks :)
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: Pretty sure she swiped right by accident but I told her no takebacks :)
                
            

            
            
Pretty sure she swiped right by accident but I told her no takebacks :)

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            







    Accident: That is not an accident
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: That is not an accident
                
            

            
            
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    Accident: That is not an accident by FalconPhantom
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    Accident: A friendā€™s dog had an accident to her tail so they came up with a unique sling to keep the tail stabilized and I cannot stop laughing at it.
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: A friendā€™s dog had an accident to her tail so they came up with a unique sling to keep the tail stabilized and I cannot stop laughing at it.
                
            

            
            
A friendā€™s dog had an accident to her tail so they came up with a unique sling to keep the tail stabilized and I cannot stop laughing at it.

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            







    Accident: A friendā€™s dog had an accident to her tail so they came up with a unique sling to keep the tail stabilized and I cannot stop laughing at it.
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: A friendā€™s dog had an accident to her tail so they came up with a unique sling to keep the tail stabilized and I cannot stop laughing at it.
                
            

            
            
A friendā€™s dog had an accident to her tail so they came up with a unique sling to keep the tail stabilized and I cannot stop laughing at it.

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            







    Accident: The most british way to deal with an accident
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: The most british way to deal with an accident
                
            

            
            
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    Accident: atlinmerrick:
dancinggrimm:

truckyousasha:

thekaraokeninja:

fandomsandfeminism:

generalmaluga:

albinwonderland:

fandomsandfeminism:

betterthanabortion:

ā€œMy body, my choiceā€ only makes sense when someone elseā€™s life isnā€™t at stake.

Fun fact: If my younger sister was in a car accident and desperately needed a blood transfusion to live, and I was the only person on Earth who could donate blood to save her, and even though donating blood is a relatively easy, safe, and quick procedure no one can force me to give blood.Ā Yes, even to save the life of a fully grown person, it would be ILLEGAL to FORCE me to donate blood if I didnā€™t want to.
See, we have this concept called ā€œbodily autonomy.ā€ Itā€™s thisā€¦.cultural notion that a personā€™s control over their own body is above all important and must not be infringed upon.Ā 
Like, we canā€™t even take LIFE SAVING organs from CORPSES unless the person whose corpse it is gave consent before their death. Even corpses get bodily autonomy.Ā 
To tell people that they MUST sacrifice their bodily autonomy for 9 months against their will in an incredibly expensive, invasive, difficult process to save what YOU view as another human life (a debatable claim in the early stages of pregnancy when the VAST majority of abortions are performed) is desperately unethical. You canā€™t even ask people to sacrifice bodily autonomy to give up organs they arenā€™t using anymore after they have died.Ā 
Youā€™re asking people who can become pregnant to accept less bodily autonomy than we grant to dead bodies.Ā 

reblogging for commentaryĀ 

But, assuming the mother wasnā€™t raped, the choice to HAVE a baby and risk sacrificing their ā€œbodily autonomyā€ is a choice that the mother made. YOu donā€™t have to have sex with someone. Cases of rape aside, it isnā€™t ethical to say abortion is justified. The unborn baby has rights, too.Ā 

First point: Bodily autonomy can be preserved, even if another life is dependent on it. See again the example about the blood donation.Ā 
And hereā€™s another point: When you say that ā€œrape is the exceptionā€ you betray something FUNDAMENTALLY BROKEN about your own argument.
Because a fetus produced from sexual assault is biologically NO DIFFERENT than a fetus produced from consensual sex. No difference at all.
If one is alive, so is the other. If one is a person, so is the other. If one has a soul, then so does the other. If one is a little blessing that happened for a reason and must be protected, then so is the other.Ā 
When you say that ā€œRape is the exceptionā€ what you betray is this: It isnā€™t about a life. This isnā€™t about the little soul sitting inside some personā€™s womb, because if it was you wouldnā€™t care about HOW it got there, only that it is a little life that needs protecting.
When you say ā€œrape is the exceptionā€ what you say is this: You are treating pregnancy as a punishment. You are PUNISHING people who have had CONSENSUAL SEX but donā€™t want to go through a pregnancy. People who DARED to have consensual sex without the goal of procreation in mind, and this is their ā€œconsequence.ā€Ā 
And that is gross.Ā 

^ THIS. This is this this THIS THIS THIS. THIS!!!!!

This is probablyĀ the strongest and well worded/supported argument for abortion that I have ever read.

WHY THE FUCK HAS TUMBLR FLAGGED THIS?! iā€™M FUCKING FURIOUS!!!

Yep, this was flagged for me too. Which is why Iā€™m going to reblog it several time until Tumblr implodes.

    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: atlinmerrick:
dancinggrimm:

truckyousasha:

thekaraokeninja:

fandomsandfeminism:

generalmaluga:

albinwonderland:

fandomsandfeminism:

betterthanabortion:

ā€œMy body, my choiceā€ only makes sense when someone elseā€™s life isnā€™t at stake.

Fun fact: If my younger sister was in a car accident and desperately needed a blood transfusion to live, and I was the only person on Earth who could donate blood to save her, and even though donating blood is a relatively easy, safe, and quick procedure no one can force me to give blood.Ā Yes, even to save the life of a fully grown person, it would be ILLEGAL to FORCE me to donate blood if I didnā€™t want to.
See, we have this concept called ā€œbodily autonomy.ā€ Itā€™s thisā€¦.cultural notion that a personā€™s control over their own body is above all important and must not be infringed upon.Ā 
Like, we canā€™t even take LIFE SAVING organs from CORPSES unless the person whose corpse it is gave consent before their death. Even corpses get bodily autonomy.Ā 
To tell people that they MUST sacrifice their bodily autonomy for 9 months against their will in an incredibly expensive, invasive, difficult process to save what YOU view as another human life (a debatable claim in the early stages of pregnancy when the VAST majority of abortions are performed) is desperately unethical. You canā€™t even ask people to sacrifice bodily autonomy to give up organs they arenā€™t using anymore after they have died.Ā 
Youā€™re asking people who can become pregnant to accept less bodily autonomy than we grant to dead bodies.Ā 

reblogging for commentaryĀ 

But, assuming the mother wasnā€™t raped, the choice to HAVE a baby and risk sacrificing their ā€œbodily autonomyā€ is a choice that the mother made. YOu donā€™t have to have sex with someone. Cases of rape aside, it isnā€™t ethical to say abortion is justified. The unborn baby has rights, too.Ā 

First point: Bodily autonomy can be preserved, even if another life is dependent on it. See again the example about the blood donation.Ā 
And hereā€™s another point: When you say that ā€œrape is the exceptionā€ you betray something FUNDAMENTALLY BROKEN about your own argument.
Because a fetus produced from sexual assault is biologically NO DIFFERENT than a fetus produced from consensual sex. No difference at all.
If one is alive, so is the other. If one is a person, so is the other. If one has a soul, then so does the other. If one is a little blessing that happened for a reason and must be protected, then so is the other.Ā 
When you say that ā€œRape is the exceptionā€ what you betray is this: It isnā€™t about a life. This isnā€™t about the little soul sitting inside some personā€™s womb, because if it was you wouldnā€™t care about HOW it got there, only that it is a little life that needs protecting.
When you say ā€œrape is the exceptionā€ what you say is this: You are treating pregnancy as a punishment. You are PUNISHING people who have had CONSENSUAL SEX but donā€™t want to go through a pregnancy. People who DARED to have consensual sex without the goal of procreation in mind, and this is their ā€œconsequence.ā€Ā 
And that is gross.Ā 

^ THIS. This is this this THIS THIS THIS. THIS!!!!!

This is probablyĀ the strongest and well worded/supported argument for abortion that I have ever read.

WHY THE FUCK HAS TUMBLR FLAGGED THIS?! iā€™M FUCKING FURIOUS!!!

Yep, this was flagged for me too. Which is why Iā€™m going to reblog it several time until Tumblr implodes.

                
            

            
            
atlinmerrick:
dancinggrimm:

truckyousasha:

thekaraokeninja:

fandomsandfeminism:

generalmaluga:

albinwonderland:

fandomsandfeminism:...

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            







    Accident: land-of-maps:

Every road traffic accident in Great Britain, split by vehicle type (OC) (x-post r/DataArt) [3045 Ɨ 1781]
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: land-of-maps:

Every road traffic accident in Great Britain, split by vehicle type (OC) (x-post r/DataArt) [3045 Ɨ 1781]
                
            

            
            
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Every road traffic accident in Great Britain, split by vehicle type (OC) (x-post r/DataArt) [3045 Ɨ 1781]

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            







    Accident: land-of-maps:

Every road traffic accident in Great Britain, split by vehicle type (OC) (x-post r/DataArt) [3045 Ɨ 1781]
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: land-of-maps:

Every road traffic accident in Great Britain, split by vehicle type (OC) (x-post r/DataArt) [3045 Ɨ 1781]
                
            

            
            
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Every road traffic accident in Great Britain, split by vehicle type (OC) (x-post r/DataArt) [3045 Ɨ 1781]

            
            
        

    



        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            






        

        
        

            







    Accident: +)
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So y'all remember when SpongeBob killed at least several dozen people in a helicopter accident or just me?
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: +)
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So y'all remember when SpongeBob killed at least several dozen people in a helicopter accident or just me?
                
            

            
            
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    Accident: This was an accident,
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
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    Accident: lisamoony:

It was an accidentBig buff lady šŸ§”šŸ§”šŸ§”
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Accident: lisamoony:

It was an accidentBig buff lady šŸ§”šŸ§”šŸ§”
                
            

            
            
lisamoony:

It was an accidentBig buff lady šŸ§”šŸ§”šŸ§”