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Advice, Baller Alert, and Bones: Baller Mail: Ladies, What Would You Do If Your Man Laughed At Your Attempt To Be Sexy? @balleralert Baller Mail: Ladies, What Would You Do If Your Man Laughed At Your Attempt To Be Sexy? -blogged by @peachkyss ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you’re going through a tough time-whether its with your relationship, your career, or just life, Baller Alert is here to give you some advice. While it can be hard to talk to family and friends out of fear of being judged, we are to here to be that listening ear. If you want to remain anonymous or don’t mind putting your business on front street, we will always give you the real deal and tell you what you need to know. If you would like some ballerific advice, email your questions to Peachkyss@balleralert.com. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Baller Mail....Message! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “I need help. I decided to dress sexy for my husband to spice up the relationship. Rather than him appreciating the effort or complimenting me, he just laughed. Now, I feel embarrassed, hurt, and unappreciated. What should I do? Please Help!!!!” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Well, girrrrlllll! We told you that here at Baller Alert that we are going to be honest without sugarcoating the obvious. As quiet as it's kept, he may be cheating. A husband shouldn’t be laughing in the first place of his wife's initiative to dressing sexy, whether it is for the bedroom or a night out. He should be jumping your bones. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ My initial response to the laughter would be to ask him what the f*ck is so damn funny and then curse his a$$ out. Take it as a sign that he doesn't appreciate you. The first thing that you need to do is work on yourself and become comfortable with who you are. It seems that you are not confident with your body because the laugh shouldn't have bothered you. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If your spouse can't appreciate your efforts in spicing things up, then you need to express how you feel with confidence. Let him know how that sh*t affected you. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Remember, there is always someone out there that will appreciate every effort you put in. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What advice would you give our reader?
Advice, Baller Alert, and Bones: Baller Mail: Ladies, What Would You Do
 If Your Man Laughed At Your Attempt To
 Be Sexy?
 @balleralert
Baller Mail: Ladies, What Would You Do If Your Man Laughed At Your Attempt To Be Sexy? -blogged by @peachkyss ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you’re going through a tough time-whether its with your relationship, your career, or just life, Baller Alert is here to give you some advice. While it can be hard to talk to family and friends out of fear of being judged, we are to here to be that listening ear. If you want to remain anonymous or don’t mind putting your business on front street, we will always give you the real deal and tell you what you need to know. If you would like some ballerific advice, email your questions to Peachkyss@balleralert.com. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Baller Mail....Message! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “I need help. I decided to dress sexy for my husband to spice up the relationship. Rather than him appreciating the effort or complimenting me, he just laughed. Now, I feel embarrassed, hurt, and unappreciated. What should I do? Please Help!!!!” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Well, girrrrlllll! We told you that here at Baller Alert that we are going to be honest without sugarcoating the obvious. As quiet as it's kept, he may be cheating. A husband shouldn’t be laughing in the first place of his wife's initiative to dressing sexy, whether it is for the bedroom or a night out. He should be jumping your bones. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ My initial response to the laughter would be to ask him what the f*ck is so damn funny and then curse his a$$ out. Take it as a sign that he doesn't appreciate you. The first thing that you need to do is work on yourself and become comfortable with who you are. It seems that you are not confident with your body because the laugh shouldn't have bothered you. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If your spouse can't appreciate your efforts in spicing things up, then you need to express how you feel with confidence. Let him know how that sh*t affected you. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Remember, there is always someone out there that will appreciate every effort you put in. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What advice would you give our reader?

Baller Mail: Ladies, What Would You Do If Your Man Laughed At Your Attempt To Be Sexy? -blogged by @peachkyss ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you’re goin...

Cheating, Child Support, and Facebook: Cuffing Season ls Postponed Thanks To Facebook Groups Designed To Catch Cheating Men @balleralert Sis Is This Your Man Closed Group 10,229 Members Cuffing Season Is Postponed Thanks To Facebook Groups Designed To Catch Cheating Men- blogged by @niksofly ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Right now many ain't sh*t men would be laying in warmth and luxury thanks to the cold weather, but that won't be the case. Cuffing Season has been postponed until further notice and we owe it to the rather catty yet ingenious creators of the Facebook group, “Sis Is This Your Man" and its variations across various cities throughout the country. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The Facebook group took “getting caught up” to an entirely new level. Various women go through a mini interview to be added to the private group where they post pictures of their "men" in hopes that another woman cannot identify them. But, not only do other women identify them, the other women go into explicit details about these men, including screenshots of messages and pictures of the men in compromising situations. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The group from the Memphis, Tennessee branch was shut down recently and could face legal action for doing the aforementioned. Each local chapter and-or branch of the group has had great success in exposing various men so much so, a spin-off for men that owe child support has been created. Bitter baby mothers post their baby fathers' photos along with the amount owed. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I guess it's safe to say, the internet is with the sh!ts; but if you have to go through these extreme measures, then it’s time to move on.
Cheating, Child Support, and Facebook: Cuffing Season ls Postponed Thanks
 To Facebook Groups Designed To
 Catch Cheating Men
 @balleralert
 Sis Is This Your Man
 Closed Group 10,229 Members
Cuffing Season Is Postponed Thanks To Facebook Groups Designed To Catch Cheating Men- blogged by @niksofly ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Right now many ain't sh*t men would be laying in warmth and luxury thanks to the cold weather, but that won't be the case. Cuffing Season has been postponed until further notice and we owe it to the rather catty yet ingenious creators of the Facebook group, “Sis Is This Your Man" and its variations across various cities throughout the country. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The Facebook group took “getting caught up” to an entirely new level. Various women go through a mini interview to be added to the private group where they post pictures of their "men" in hopes that another woman cannot identify them. But, not only do other women identify them, the other women go into explicit details about these men, including screenshots of messages and pictures of the men in compromising situations. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The group from the Memphis, Tennessee branch was shut down recently and could face legal action for doing the aforementioned. Each local chapter and-or branch of the group has had great success in exposing various men so much so, a spin-off for men that owe child support has been created. Bitter baby mothers post their baby fathers' photos along with the amount owed. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I guess it's safe to say, the internet is with the sh!ts; but if you have to go through these extreme measures, then it’s time to move on.

Cuffing Season Is Postponed Thanks To Facebook Groups Designed To Catch Cheating Men- blogged by @niksofly ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ...

Bad, Cheating, and Energy: Stop Giving Your Energy to Any and Everything @balleralert Stop Giving Your Energy to Any and Everything -blogged by @peachkyss ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We go through so many trials and tribulations on a daily basis that can alter our thinking and the way we respond. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The situations that we go through can get the best of us whether it’s debt, our mate cheating, or just managing everyday life. We put so much energy into these situations that it ends up consuming us. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We have to learn that every action doesn’t deserve a reaction. It’s time to start letting go of bad vibes and find peace. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If your mate isn’t treating you the way you deserve, it’s time to tell them to f*ck off. Do you have a friend that never supports you but they want your support? If so, don’t give them any more of your time and energy. Just tell them to f*ck off. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As we get older, we have to learn to let things go and stop letting things get the best of us. Life is too short to be worrying about anything that’s not going to help you progress in life. Life is about growth and if you aren’t doing so, then it’s time to change your surroundings. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ No need to fuss about anything. Just let go and watch your visions come to life.
Bad, Cheating, and Energy: Stop Giving Your Energy to Any
 and Everything
 @balleralert
Stop Giving Your Energy to Any and Everything -blogged by @peachkyss ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We go through so many trials and tribulations on a daily basis that can alter our thinking and the way we respond. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The situations that we go through can get the best of us whether it’s debt, our mate cheating, or just managing everyday life. We put so much energy into these situations that it ends up consuming us. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We have to learn that every action doesn’t deserve a reaction. It’s time to start letting go of bad vibes and find peace. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If your mate isn’t treating you the way you deserve, it’s time to tell them to f*ck off. Do you have a friend that never supports you but they want your support? If so, don’t give them any more of your time and energy. Just tell them to f*ck off. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ As we get older, we have to learn to let things go and stop letting things get the best of us. Life is too short to be worrying about anything that’s not going to help you progress in life. Life is about growth and if you aren’t doing so, then it’s time to change your surroundings. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ No need to fuss about anything. Just let go and watch your visions come to life.

Stop Giving Your Energy to Any and Everything -blogged by @peachkyss ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We go through so many trials and tribulations on a dail...

Cheating, Doctor, and Friends: You Shared Your Life With Me On Social Media, How Dare You Skip Details @balleralert You Shared Your Life With Me On Social Media, How Dare You Skip Details -blogged by @peachkyss ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Social Media seems like the go to place to vent your personal issues or share some of your favorite moments in your life. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ People share the moment they found out they were pregnant, doctor appointments, and gender reveals. Then once the baby is born, you show your followers or friends a picture of a foot. What the hell? That’s our baby now, show us the baby’s face. How dare you skip the important details? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Some people go as far as posting that their man or woman was cheating, they caught them with someone else, or sharing details about how wack the penis was. Then as soon as someone asks them a question about the situation, they want to get in their feelings and tell to you to mind your business. Why should we mind our business when you have shared every detail with us? Like, it’s our business now not just yours. We need closure too. He broke your heart. Hell, our heart is aching as well. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you don’t want people in your business, then stop posting your business for the world to see. We will ask questions since you like to share every aspect of your life. Either answer the questions or don’t post your personal business. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Simple right?
Cheating, Doctor, and Friends: You Shared Your Life With Me On Social
 Media, How Dare You Skip Details
 @balleralert
You Shared Your Life With Me On Social Media, How Dare You Skip Details -blogged by @peachkyss ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Social Media seems like the go to place to vent your personal issues or share some of your favorite moments in your life. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ People share the moment they found out they were pregnant, doctor appointments, and gender reveals. Then once the baby is born, you show your followers or friends a picture of a foot. What the hell? That’s our baby now, show us the baby’s face. How dare you skip the important details? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Some people go as far as posting that their man or woman was cheating, they caught them with someone else, or sharing details about how wack the penis was. Then as soon as someone asks them a question about the situation, they want to get in their feelings and tell to you to mind your business. Why should we mind our business when you have shared every detail with us? Like, it’s our business now not just yours. We need closure too. He broke your heart. Hell, our heart is aching as well. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you don’t want people in your business, then stop posting your business for the world to see. We will ask questions since you like to share every aspect of your life. Either answer the questions or don’t post your personal business. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Simple right?

You Shared Your Life With Me On Social Media, How Dare You Skip Details -blogged by @peachkyss ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Social Media seems like the go ...

Ass, Cheating, and Clothes: Part 1: Your Man Cheats; Who Do You Go After: The Woman Or Your Man? @balleralert Read more: www.balleralert.com Your Man Cheats; Who Do You Go After: The Woman Or Your Man? - blogged by @niksofly ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It's late at night and normally you would be sleep, but for some reason sleep escapes you. Your room is pitch black and you notice the glow of your guy's phone. An unsaved number appears as notifications show several missed calls from said number. The phone rings again. You answer it. It's a woman. What do you do? Do you A) go off, B) Inquire about her or C) Pack your guy's clothes up and send him on his way? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Nothing curdles my blood more than me hearing or seeing the girlfriend-wife go after the other woman when she finds out her man is cheating. Now if the woman was aware, I can understand (I do not encourage) the aggression; however, at the end of the day, the only person that is obligated to respect you and the relationship is your partner. And if he respects you and the relationship, the "other women" will have no choice, but to respect you and the relationship hence there would be no other women. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I've witnessed women unleash online attacks on the other woman as well as stalk and show up to the woman's job. All while, they forgive their dog-ass men. It's so easy to go after the other woman. I get it if she knew and still disrespected the relationship, but the fact still remains YOUR dude is who owes you respect. You can't fight or harass every chick your man entertains because THEY ARE NOT the problem. The problem is YOU and YOUR MAN... to read more log onto balleralert.com (clickable link on profile).
Ass, Cheating, and Clothes: Part 1: Your Man Cheats; Who Do You Go
 After: The Woman Or Your Man?
 @balleralert
 Read more: www.balleralert.com
Your Man Cheats; Who Do You Go After: The Woman Or Your Man? - blogged by @niksofly ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It's late at night and normally you would be sleep, but for some reason sleep escapes you. Your room is pitch black and you notice the glow of your guy's phone. An unsaved number appears as notifications show several missed calls from said number. The phone rings again. You answer it. It's a woman. What do you do? Do you A) go off, B) Inquire about her or C) Pack your guy's clothes up and send him on his way? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Nothing curdles my blood more than me hearing or seeing the girlfriend-wife go after the other woman when she finds out her man is cheating. Now if the woman was aware, I can understand (I do not encourage) the aggression; however, at the end of the day, the only person that is obligated to respect you and the relationship is your partner. And if he respects you and the relationship, the "other women" will have no choice, but to respect you and the relationship hence there would be no other women. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I've witnessed women unleash online attacks on the other woman as well as stalk and show up to the woman's job. All while, they forgive their dog-ass men. It's so easy to go after the other woman. I get it if she knew and still disrespected the relationship, but the fact still remains YOUR dude is who owes you respect. You can't fight or harass every chick your man entertains because THEY ARE NOT the problem. The problem is YOU and YOUR MAN... to read more log onto balleralert.com (clickable link on profile).

Your Man Cheats; Who Do You Go After: The Woman Or Your Man? - blogged by @niksofly ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It's late at night and...