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Domestic Violence: Police rush in after man heard screaming I'm going to kill you'; discover noise caused by him attacking spider Sydney police say a man was left "quite embarrassed" after several neighbours mistook his efforts to kill a spider for a domestic violence incident. Around 2am on Sunday several police cars rushed to an apartment in the hysterically, a man yelling, "I'm going to kill you, you're dead", and furniture being thrown. A man police described as "out of breath and rather flushed" answered the door and the local area command's Facebook page documented the exchange that followed. "Where's your wife?" an officer asked. "I don't have one," the man replied "Where's your girlfriend?" he pressed. "I don't have one," he said. Police told the man neighbours had heard the screams, the threats to kill, the dull thud of flung furniture. "Come on mate, what have you done to her?" the officer asked. "It was a spider," the man replied sheepishly. "A really big one. "What about the woman screaming?" "Yeah sorry, that was me," he said. "I really, really hate spiders." was down to the man frantically chasing the spider around his apartment with a can of insect spray, police said. They spider," officers added inspected the unit just to be sure, finding nobody injured. "other than the <p><a href="http://stat3s.tumblr.com/post/134207988683/fadetouched-what-about-the-woman-screaming" class="tumblr_blog">stat3s</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://fadetouched.tumblr.com/post/134018376824">fadetouched</a>:</p> <blockquote> <blockquote> <p><i>“What about the woman screaming?”</i></p> <p><i>“Yeah sorry, that was me,” he said. “I really, really hate spiders<a href="http://www.theguardian.com/environment/2015/nov/26/youre-dead-police-thought-man-trying-to-kill-spider-was-attacking-wife?INTCMP=the-essential-read-curated">.</a>”</i></p> </blockquote> </blockquote> <p>At least he got the spider …</p></blockquote>
Domestic Violence: Police rush in after man heard
 screaming I'm going to kill you';
 discover noise caused by him attacking
 spider

 Sydney police say a man was left "quite embarrassed" after several neighbours
 mistook his efforts to kill a spider for a domestic violence incident.
 Around 2am on Sunday several police cars rushed to an apartment in the
 hysterically, a man yelling, "I'm going to kill you, you're dead", and furniture
 being thrown.
 A man police described as "out of breath and rather flushed" answered the door
 and the local area command's Facebook page documented the exchange that
 followed.
 "Where's your wife?" an officer asked.
 "I don't have one," the man replied
 "Where's your girlfriend?" he pressed.
 "I don't have one," he said.

 Police told the man neighbours had heard the screams, the threats to kill, the dull
 thud of flung furniture. "Come on mate, what have you done to her?" the officer
 asked.
 "It was a spider," the man replied sheepishly. "A really big one.
 "What about the woman screaming?"
 "Yeah sorry, that was me," he said. "I really, really hate spiders."
 was down to the man frantically chasing the spider around his
 apartment with a can of insect spray, police said.
 They
 spider," officers added
 inspected the unit just to be sure, finding nobody injured. "other than the
<p><a href="http://stat3s.tumblr.com/post/134207988683/fadetouched-what-about-the-woman-screaming" class="tumblr_blog">stat3s</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://fadetouched.tumblr.com/post/134018376824">fadetouched</a>:</p>
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<p><i>“What about the woman screaming?”</i></p>
<p><i>“Yeah sorry, that was me,” he said. “I really, really hate spiders<a href="http://www.theguardian.com/environment/2015/nov/26/youre-dead-police-thought-man-trying-to-kill-spider-was-attacking-wife?INTCMP=the-essential-read-curated">.</a>”</i></p>
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<p>At least he got the spider …</p></blockquote>

<p><a href="http://stat3s.tumblr.com/post/134207988683/fadetouched-what-about-the-woman-screaming" class="tumblr_blog">stat3s</a>:</p> <...

Domestic Violence: Bipartisan Report @Bipartisanism Oct1 "There have been more mass shootings this year than days. via @BostonGlobe #UCCShooting Number of mass shootings 4+ victims, including shooter in 2015) T6 2015: 274 294 DAYS MASS SHOOTINGS Learn more at Globe.com * at least Source: Mass Shooting Tracker RETWEETS FAVORITES 720 2:32 PM-1 Oct 2015 Details <p><a href="http://broccolirambles.tumblr.com/post/130782502495/spookyblackconservative-cyrodiil-burns" class="tumblr_blog">broccolirambles</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://spookyblackconservative.tumblr.com/post/130778956579">spookyblackconservative</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://cyrodiil-burns.tumblr.com/post/130778732286">cyrodiil-burns</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://spookyblackconservative.tumblr.com/post/130778527964">spookyblackconservative</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://info-mix.tumblr.com/post/130552206457">info-mix</a>:</p> <blockquote> <h2><i><b>this is scary</b></i></h2> </blockquote> <p>I need to severely question the way you’re defining “mass shooting” (by your definition, a guy who shoots three people and then himself counts as a mass shooting) and where you’re getting your data from.</p> </blockquote> <p>It’s done by MSNBC, nuff said. It’s like getting statistics from The Onion only worse.</p> </blockquote> <p>“Bipartisan report” riiiiiiiiigggghhhhttt.</p> </blockquote> <p>According to the FBI a mass shooting is when three or more people are injured or killed by a gun in one incident (this used to be four people). So, yes, there have been 294 shootings, but in 127 of those mass shootings no one died. <br/></p></blockquote> <p>Funny how they left that part out. These kind of &ldquo;stats&rdquo; also don&rsquo;t bother to account for the difference between an isolated incident where a person targets someone else specifically (i.e. cases of domestic violence or gang wars) and someone gunning down people at random.</p>
Domestic Violence: Bipartisan Report @Bipartisanism Oct1
 "There have been more mass shootings
 this year than days.
 via @BostonGlobe #UCCShooting
 Number of mass shootings
 4+ victims, including shooter in 2015)
 T6
 2015:
 274 294
 DAYS
 MASS SHOOTINGS
 Learn more at Globe.com
 * at least Source: Mass Shooting Tracker
 RETWEETS
 FAVORITES
 720
 2:32 PM-1 Oct 2015 Details
<p><a href="http://broccolirambles.tumblr.com/post/130782502495/spookyblackconservative-cyrodiil-burns" class="tumblr_blog">broccolirambles</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://spookyblackconservative.tumblr.com/post/130778956579">spookyblackconservative</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://cyrodiil-burns.tumblr.com/post/130778732286">cyrodiil-burns</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://spookyblackconservative.tumblr.com/post/130778527964">spookyblackconservative</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://info-mix.tumblr.com/post/130552206457">info-mix</a>:</p>
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<h2><i><b>this is scary</b></i></h2>
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<p>I need to severely question the way you’re defining “mass shooting” (by your definition, a guy who shoots three people and then himself counts as a mass shooting)  and where you’re getting your data from.</p>
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<p>It’s done by MSNBC, nuff said. It’s like getting statistics from The Onion only worse.</p>
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<p>“Bipartisan report” riiiiiiiiigggghhhhttt.</p>
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<p>According to the FBI a mass shooting is when three or more people are injured or killed by a gun in one incident (this used to be four people). So, yes, there have been 294 shootings, but in 127 of those mass shootings no one died. <br/></p></blockquote>

<p>Funny how they left that part out. These kind of &ldquo;stats&rdquo; also don&rsquo;t bother to account for the difference between an isolated incident where a person targets someone else specifically (i.e. cases of domestic violence or gang wars) and someone gunning down people at random.</p>

<p><a href="http://broccolirambles.tumblr.com/post/130782502495/spookyblackconservative-cyrodiil-burns" class="tumblr_blog">broccolirambl...

Domestic Violence: MELTERED HOMELESS: COLLEGE/UNIVERSITY ENROLLMENT MEN:240,000 IFE EXPECTANCY: WOMEN:11,658,000 MEN: 8,770,000 GENDER SPECIFIC SHELTERS: WOMEN: 80.8 YEAR MEN 75.7 YEARS 、WOMEN: 500 MEN: 12 DAMN PRIVILEGED MALES <p><a href="http://feministsaresexist.tumblr.com/post/76278027383/shavingryansprivates-percentage-of-rape-victims" class="tumblr_blog">feministsaresexist</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a href="http://shavingryansprivat.es/post/76193418434/percentage-of-rape-victims-source-women-90" class="tumblr_blog">shavingryansprivates</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>percentage of rape victims (<a href="https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims">source</a>):</p> <blockquote> <p>women: 90%</p> <p>men: 10% </p> </blockquote> <p>median salary (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_income_in_the_United_States#cite_note-14">source</a>):</p> <blockquote> <p>women: $17,629</p> <p>male: $30,514</p> </blockquote> <p>victims of domestic violence (<a href="http://www.statisticbrain.com/domestic-violence-abuse-stats/">source</a>):</p> <blockquote> <p>women: 85%</p> <p>men: 15%</p> </blockquote> <p>people murdered by their significant other (<a href="http://www.statisticbrain.com/domestic-violence-abuse-stats/">source</a>):</p> <blockquote> <p>women: 75%</p> <p>men: 25%</p> </blockquote> <p>those darn privileged females</p></blockquote> <p>I’m only going to address the statistics you’ve specified in this post, even though most of the other statistics in your links are way the fuck off as well.</p> <p><a href="http://feministsaresexist.tumblr.com/post/17009527511/manufacturing-female-victimhood-and-marginalizing">Women actually make up 40% of rapists</a>. It’s impossible to address this issue while feminist propaganda asserts that rape is a women’s issue, while society mostly couldn’t give a shit, and while the law doesn’t recognize forced envelopment as rape. <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10766112">60% of daycare molestation is committed by women</a>, <a href="http://bjs.ojp.usdoj.gov/index.cfm?ty=pbdetail&amp;iid=2113.">42% of sexual misconduct in juvenile facilities is committed by women</a>, <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15894146">22% of childhood sexual abuse is committed by females, 23% by both male &amp; female</a> (that’s 45% committed by females), <a href="http://www2.ed.gov/rschstat/research/pubs/misconductreview/report.pdf">43% of student sexual abuse is committed by females</a>. <a href="http://www.amsciepub.com/doi/abs/10.2466/pr0.1984.54.3.810">59% of rapists have been heterosexually molested between the ages of 4 and 16.</a> Men are not more likely to sexually abuse anyone, and to assume so only continues to produce more rapists.</p> <p><a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/02/01/no-women-don-t-make-less-money-than-men.html" class="tumblr_blog">Women make less than men due to personal choices and hours worked.</a> This is not oppression, it’s a privilege that they have more freedom to choose safer jobs and more flexible hours.</p> <p>You can’t possibly expect anyone to trust the Department of “Justice” when <a href="http://www.the-spearhead.com/2009/10/07/the-corruption-of-federal-funding-grants/">the Federal Government, under feminist pressure, still pays grants to police departments in proportion to the number of men jailed under VAWA legislation</a>, leading to an <a href="http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/09/04/domestic-violence-fairytales-threaten-constitutional-protections/">incentive for police to expand the defintion of ‘domestic violence’ to absurd extremes</a>, and when a man who calls the police to report domestic violence, <a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/Journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">he is three times more likely to be arrested than the woman who is abusing him</a>. Women actually commit <a href="http://www.unh.edu/news/cj_nr/2006/may/em_060519male.cfm?type=n">half of all partner violence</a> and are <a href="http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ID41E2.pdf">just as controlling as men</a>. <a href="http://ajph.aphapublications.org/doi/abs/10.2105/AJPH.2005.079020">Almost one out of four relationships are violent, half of which is reciprocal, with women as the perpetrators in 70% of nonreciprocal violence.</a> The same research which is used to say that a woman is severely assaulted by her husband/boyfriend every 15 second in this country, <a href="http://feministsaresexist.tumblr.com/post/30950141583/abusedmen-org-what-domestic-violence-presenters-wont">also indicated that a man is severely assaulted by his wife/girlfriend every 14.6 seconds</a>. <a href="http://news.ufl.edu/2006/07/13/women-attackers/">Women are more likely than men to “stalk, attack and abuse” their partners</a> (also <a href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/06/070625111433.htm">here</a>). While men are <a href="http://www.oregoncounseling.org/Handouts/DomesticViolenceMen.htm">less likely to report violence</a>, which distorts crime data, <a href="http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm">virtually all randomized sociological surveys show women initiate domestic violence as often as men and use weapons more than men, that men suffer one-third of injuries, and that self-defense explains only a small portion of domestic violence by either sex</a>.</p> <p>Considering that the majority of your statistics come from the Department of “Justice”, which seems to have a theme of not convicting women of the same crimes as men, I’m going to assume that your murder statistics have the same issue until the DOJ decides to pull its head out of its gender-biased ass and proves it really means to do society any real justice.</p> <p>Both you and the OP are part of the problem. Both men and women have privileges and disadvantages, often to equal degrees. None of you are fixing anything by playing oppression Olympics.</p></blockquote>
Domestic Violence: MELTERED HOMELESS: COLLEGE/UNIVERSITY ENROLLMENT
 MEN:240,000
 IFE EXPECTANCY:
 WOMEN:11,658,000
 MEN: 8,770,000
 GENDER SPECIFIC SHELTERS:
 WOMEN: 80.8 YEAR
 MEN 75.7 YEARS
 、WOMEN: 500
 MEN: 12
 DAMN PRIVILEGED MALES
<p><a href="http://feministsaresexist.tumblr.com/post/76278027383/shavingryansprivates-percentage-of-rape-victims" class="tumblr_blog">feministsaresexist</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a href="http://shavingryansprivat.es/post/76193418434/percentage-of-rape-victims-source-women-90" class="tumblr_blog">shavingryansprivates</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p>percentage of rape victims (<a href="https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-victims">source</a>):</p>
<blockquote>
<p>women: 90%</p>
<p>men: 10% </p>
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<p>median salary (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_income_in_the_United_States#cite_note-14">source</a>):</p>
<blockquote>
<p>women: $17,629</p>
<p>male: $30,514</p>
</blockquote>
<p>victims of domestic violence (<a href="http://www.statisticbrain.com/domestic-violence-abuse-stats/">source</a>):</p>
<blockquote>
<p>women: 85%</p>
<p>men: 15%</p>
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<p>people murdered by their significant other (<a href="http://www.statisticbrain.com/domestic-violence-abuse-stats/">source</a>):</p>
<blockquote>
<p>women: 75%</p>
<p>men: 25%</p>
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<p>those darn privileged females</p></blockquote>
<p>I’m only going to address the statistics you’ve specified in this post, even though most of the other statistics in your links are way the fuck off as well.</p>
<p><a href="http://feministsaresexist.tumblr.com/post/17009527511/manufacturing-female-victimhood-and-marginalizing">Women actually make up 40% of rapists</a>. It’s impossible to address this issue while feminist propaganda asserts that rape is a women’s issue, while society mostly couldn’t give a shit, and while the law doesn’t recognize forced envelopment as rape. <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10766112">60% of daycare molestation is committed by women</a>, <a href="http://bjs.ojp.usdoj.gov/index.cfm?ty=pbdetail&amp;iid=2113.">42% of sexual misconduct in juvenile facilities is committed by women</a>, <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15894146">22% of childhood sexual abuse is committed by females, 23% by both male &amp; female</a> (that’s 45% committed by females), <a href="http://www2.ed.gov/rschstat/research/pubs/misconductreview/report.pdf">43% of student sexual abuse is committed by females</a>. <a href="http://www.amsciepub.com/doi/abs/10.2466/pr0.1984.54.3.810">59% of rapists have been heterosexually molested between the ages of 4 and 16.</a> Men are not more likely to sexually abuse anyone, and to assume so only continues to produce more rapists.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/02/01/no-women-don-t-make-less-money-than-men.html" class="tumblr_blog">Women make less than men due to personal choices and hours worked.</a> This is not oppression, it’s a privilege that they have more freedom to choose safer jobs and more flexible hours.</p>
<p>You can’t possibly expect anyone to trust the Department of “Justice” when <a href="http://www.the-spearhead.com/2009/10/07/the-corruption-of-federal-funding-grants/">the Federal Government, under feminist pressure, still pays grants to police departments in proportion to the number of men jailed under VAWA legislation</a>, leading to an <a href="http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/09/04/domestic-violence-fairytales-threaten-constitutional-protections/">incentive for police to expand the defintion of ‘domestic violence’ to absurd extremes</a>, and when a man who calls the police to report domestic violence, <a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/Journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">he is three times more likely to be arrested than the woman who is abusing him</a>. Women actually commit <a href="http://www.unh.edu/news/cj_nr/2006/may/em_060519male.cfm?type=n">half of all partner violence</a> and are <a href="http://pubpages.unh.edu/~mas2/ID41E2.pdf">just as controlling as men</a>. <a href="http://ajph.aphapublications.org/doi/abs/10.2105/AJPH.2005.079020">Almost one out of four relationships are violent, half of which is reciprocal, with women as the perpetrators in 70% of nonreciprocal violence.</a> The same research which is used to say that a woman is severely assaulted by her husband/boyfriend every 15 second in this country, <a href="http://feministsaresexist.tumblr.com/post/30950141583/abusedmen-org-what-domestic-violence-presenters-wont">also indicated that a man is severely assaulted by his wife/girlfriend every 14.6 seconds</a>. <a href="http://news.ufl.edu/2006/07/13/women-attackers/">Women are more likely than men to “stalk, attack and abuse” their partners</a> (also <a href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/06/070625111433.htm">here</a>). While men are <a href="http://www.oregoncounseling.org/Handouts/DomesticViolenceMen.htm">less likely to report violence</a>, which distorts crime data, <a href="http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm">virtually all randomized sociological surveys show women initiate domestic violence as often as men and use weapons more than men, that men suffer one-third of injuries, and that self-defense explains only a small portion of domestic violence by either sex</a>.</p>
<p>Considering that the majority of your statistics come from the Department of “Justice”, which seems to have a theme of not convicting women of the same crimes as men, I’m going to assume that your murder statistics have the same issue until the DOJ decides to pull its head out of its gender-biased ass and proves it really means to do society any real justice.</p>
<p>Both you and the OP are part of the problem. Both men and women have privileges and disadvantages, often to equal degrees. None of you are fixing anything by playing oppression Olympics.</p></blockquote>

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Domestic Violence: Self-care masterpost lah-disputes: I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you!Reminder; You’re going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe. ————————————————————————————-Distractions; Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you aren’t too focused on your thoughts. -Draw something-This website translates the time into colours.-Create your own galaxy.-Play flowing.-Make a 3D line travel where ever you like. -Listen to music.-Calm.-Ocean mood, do nothing for two minutes.Sleep issues; - 8 hour sleep music.-Rainy mood. -Meditation.-Coping with nightmares.-How to cope with nightmares, 11 steps.-Calm-Foods that can affect your sleeping, both positive and negatively.  Uncomfortable with silence; -Rainy mood.-10 hours of rain and thunder.-3 hours of rain and thunder.-Human heartbeat.-Rainforest.-Sound of rain on a tin roof.-Autumn wind.-Rain on a tent-Traffic in the rain.-Soft traffic. -Fan.-Train.-Simply noise.-My noise.-Rainy cafe.Anxiety; -How to stop worrying. -Tips to manage anxiety and stress.-The 10 best ever anxiety management techniques. -Self-help strategies for anxiety. -Helping a friend with anxiety. -All about worrying.-8 myths about anxiety. Sad, angry and depressed/depression; -“I’m always sad”-Feeling sad.-Going through trauma.-“I’m always angry”.-Anger management. -All about anger.-National helplines and websites.-Self-help strategies for depression.-Dealing with depression at work.-Dealing with depression at school.Isolation and loneliness; -Pets and mental health.-All about loneliness. -“I feel so alone”-10 more ideas to help with loneliness. -How to deal with loneliness. Self-harm;-Alternatives to self-harm and distraction techniques.-146 things to do besides self-harm.-More alternatives to self-harm.-Self-harm alternatives.-How to take care of self-harm wounds/injuries.-Getting rid of scars.  Addiction; -How to help a friend with a drug addiction.-What is addiction?-All about alcohol and addiction.-The facts about drug addiction. Eating disorders; -Helping a friend with an eating disorder.-Eating disorder treatments. -Support services for eating disorders. -Self-help tips with eating disorders.-Eating disorder recovery. -Recovering from an eating disorder. -100+ reasons to recover. -Understanding and managing eating disorders.  Dealing with self-hatred;  -3 ways to ease self-loathing. -How to turn self-hatred into self-compassion.-Self-hatred resources.-10 step plan to deal with self-hate.  Suicidal; -International suicide hotlines (1)  (2)-Preventing suicide. -Reasons to stay alive.-Dealing with suicidal thoughts and feelings.-Coping with suicidal ideation.   Schizophrenia;-All about schizophrenia.  -Helping a person with schizophrenia.  -Understanding and dealing with schizophrenia.  -Delusions and hallucinations.  OCD;-Managing your OCD at home. -Overcoming OCD.-How to cope with OCD. -Strategies for dealing with the anxious moments. Borderline personality disorder; -Helping someone with BPD. -All about personality disorders.-Treatment for BPD.Abuse; -Healthy relationships VS abusive relationships. -Emotional abuse-Overcoming sexual abuse. -Hotlines services. -5 ways to escape an abusive relationship. -Domestic violence support. -Signs of an abusive relationship. -What do to if you’re in an abusive relationship. -Surviving abuse. -What you can do if you’re sexual harassed. -Sexual assault support.-What to do if you’ve been sexually assaulted or abused.  Bullying;-How to stand up against bullying.-How to protect yourself when it comes to cyber bullying.-How to help stop people bullying you.  Loss and grief; -How to cope with a suicide of a loved one.-Grieving for a stranger. -Common reactions to death. -Working through grief.(Other loss and grief)-Moving away from friends and family. -Coping with a breakup. Getting help; -Seeking help early. -All about psychological treatments. -Types of help.-All about age and confidentiality. Things you need to remember; - Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken.-Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not. - This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this. -You are not alone. -You are enough. -You are important. -You are worth it. -You are strong. -You are not a failure, -Good people exist. -Reaching out shows strength. -Breathe. -Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you. -Give yourself credit. -Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones. -Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend. -Focus on the things you can change. -Let go of toxic people. -You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do. -Try not to beat yourself up. -Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next. -You are not a bother.-Your existence is more than your appearance. -You are smart. -You are loved. -You are wanted. -You are needed. -Better days are coming. -Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright. -You have more potential than you think. - Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.Please remember to look after yourself and know that you are more than worth it and you deserve to be happy. Keep smiling butterflies x 
Domestic Violence: Self-care masterpost
lah-disputes:

I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you!Reminder; You’re going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe. ————————————————————————————-Distractions; Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you aren’t too focused on your thoughts. -Draw something-This website translates the time into colours.-Create your own galaxy.-Play flowing.-Make a 3D line travel where ever you like. -Listen to music.-Calm.-Ocean mood, do nothing for two minutes.Sleep issues; - 8 hour sleep music.-Rainy mood. -Meditation.-Coping with nightmares.-How to cope with nightmares, 11 steps.-Calm-Foods that can affect your sleeping, both positive and negatively.  Uncomfortable with silence; -Rainy mood.-10 hours of rain and thunder.-3 hours of rain and thunder.-Human heartbeat.-Rainforest.-Sound of rain on a tin roof.-Autumn wind.-Rain on a tent-Traffic in the rain.-Soft traffic. -Fan.-Train.-Simply noise.-My noise.-Rainy cafe.Anxiety; -How to stop worrying. -Tips to manage anxiety and stress.-The 10 best ever anxiety management techniques. -Self-help strategies for anxiety. -Helping a friend with anxiety. -All about worrying.-8 myths about anxiety. Sad, angry and depressed/depression; -“I’m always sad”-Feeling sad.-Going through trauma.-“I’m always angry”.-Anger management. -All about anger.-National helplines and websites.-Self-help strategies for depression.-Dealing with depression at work.-Dealing with depression at school.Isolation and loneliness; -Pets and mental health.-All about loneliness. -“I feel so alone”-10 more ideas to help with loneliness. -How to deal with loneliness. Self-harm;-Alternatives to self-harm and distraction techniques.-146 things to do besides self-harm.-More alternatives to self-harm.-Self-harm alternatives.-How to take care of self-harm wounds/injuries.-Getting rid of scars.  Addiction; -How to help a friend with a drug addiction.-What is addiction?-All about alcohol and addiction.-The facts about drug addiction. Eating disorders; -Helping a friend with an eating disorder.-Eating disorder treatments. -Support services for eating disorders. -Self-help tips with eating disorders.-Eating disorder recovery. -Recovering from an eating disorder. -100+ reasons to recover. -Understanding and managing eating disorders.  Dealing with self-hatred;  -3 ways to ease self-loathing. -How to turn self-hatred into self-compassion.-Self-hatred resources.-10 step plan to deal with self-hate.  Suicidal; -International suicide hotlines (1)  (2)-Preventing suicide. -Reasons to stay alive.-Dealing with suicidal thoughts and feelings.-Coping with suicidal ideation.   Schizophrenia;-All about schizophrenia.  -Helping a person with schizophrenia.  -Understanding and dealing with schizophrenia.  -Delusions and hallucinations.  OCD;-Managing your OCD at home. -Overcoming OCD.-How to cope with OCD. -Strategies for dealing with the anxious moments. Borderline personality disorder; -Helping someone with BPD. -All about personality disorders.-Treatment for BPD.Abuse; -Healthy relationships VS abusive relationships. -Emotional abuse-Overcoming sexual abuse. -Hotlines services. -5 ways to escape an abusive relationship. -Domestic violence support. -Signs of an abusive relationship. -What do to if you’re in an abusive relationship. -Surviving abuse. -What you can do if you’re sexual harassed. -Sexual assault support.-What to do if you’ve been sexually assaulted or abused.  Bullying;-How to stand up against bullying.-How to protect yourself when it comes to cyber bullying.-How to help stop people bullying you.  Loss and grief; -How to cope with a suicide of a loved one.-Grieving for a stranger. -Common reactions to death. -Working through grief.(Other loss and grief)-Moving away from friends and family. -Coping with a breakup. Getting help; -Seeking help early. -All about psychological treatments. -Types of help.-All about age and confidentiality. Things you need to remember; - Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken.-Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not. - This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this. -You are not alone. -You are enough. -You are important. -You are worth it. -You are strong. -You are not a failure, -Good people exist. -Reaching out shows strength. -Breathe. -Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you. -Give yourself credit. -Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones. -Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend. -Focus on the things you can change. -Let go of toxic people. -You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do. -Try not to beat yourself up. -Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next. -You are not a bother.-Your existence is more than your appearance. -You are smart. -You are loved. -You are wanted. -You are needed. -Better days are coming. -Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright. -You have more potential than you think. - Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.Please remember to look after yourself and know that you are more than worth it and you deserve to be happy. Keep smiling butterflies x 

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Domestic Violence: Self-care masterpost lah-disputes: I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you!Reminder; You’re going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe. ————————————————————————————-Distractions; Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you aren’t too focused on your thoughts. -Draw something-This website translates the time into colours.-Create your own galaxy.-Play flowing.-Make a 3D line travel where ever you like. -Listen to music.-Calm.-Ocean mood, do nothing for two minutes.Sleep issues; - 8 hour sleep music.-Rainy mood. -Meditation.-Coping with nightmares.-How to cope with nightmares, 11 steps.-Calm-Foods that can affect your sleeping, both positive and negatively.  Uncomfortable with silence; -Rainy mood.-10 hours of rain and thunder.-3 hours of rain and thunder.-Human heartbeat.-Rainforest.-Sound of rain on a tin roof.-Autumn wind.-Rain on a tent-Traffic in the rain.-Soft traffic. -Fan.-Train.-Simply noise.-My noise.-Rainy cafe.Anxiety; -How to stop worrying. -Tips to manage anxiety and stress.-The 10 best ever anxiety management techniques. -Self-help strategies for anxiety. -Helping a friend with anxiety. -All about worrying.-8 myths about anxiety. Sad, angry and depressed/depression; -“I’m always sad”-Feeling sad.-Going through trauma.-“I’m always angry”.-Anger management. -All about anger.-National helplines and websites.-Self-help strategies for depression.-Dealing with depression at work.-Dealing with depression at school.Isolation and loneliness; -Pets and mental health.-All about loneliness. -“I feel so alone”-10 more ideas to help with loneliness. -How to deal with loneliness. Self-harm;-Alternatives to self-harm and distraction techniques.-146 things to do besides self-harm.-More alternatives to self-harm.-Self-harm alternatives.-How to take care of self-harm wounds/injuries.-Getting rid of scars.  Addiction; -How to help a friend with a drug addiction.-What is addiction?-All about alcohol and addiction.-The facts about drug addiction. Eating disorders; -Helping a friend with an eating disorder.-Eating disorder treatments. -Support services for eating disorders. -Self-help tips with eating disorders.-Eating disorder recovery. -Recovering from an eating disorder. -100+ reasons to recover. -Understanding and managing eating disorders.  Dealing with self-hatred;  -3 ways to ease self-loathing. -How to turn self-hatred into self-compassion.-Self-hatred resources.-10 step plan to deal with self-hate.  Suicidal; -International suicide hotlines (1)  (2)-Preventing suicide. -Reasons to stay alive.-Dealing with suicidal thoughts and feelings.-Coping with suicidal ideation.   Schizophrenia;-All about schizophrenia.  -Helping a person with schizophrenia.  -Understanding and dealing with schizophrenia.  -Delusions and hallucinations.  OCD;-Managing your OCD at home. -Overcoming OCD.-How to cope with OCD. -Strategies for dealing with the anxious moments. Borderline personality disorder; -Helping someone with BPD. -All about personality disorders.-Treatment for BPD.Abuse; -Healthy relationships VS abusive relationships. -Emotional abuse-Overcoming sexual abuse. -Hotlines services. -5 ways to escape an abusive relationship. -Domestic violence support. -Signs of an abusive relationship. -What do to if you’re in an abusive relationship. -Surviving abuse. -What you can do if you’re sexual harassed. -Sexual assault support.-What to do if you’ve been sexually assaulted or abused.  Bullying;-How to stand up against bullying.-How to protect yourself when it comes to cyber bullying.-How to help stop people bullying you.  Loss and grief; -How to cope with a suicide of a loved one.-Grieving for a stranger. -Common reactions to death. -Working through grief.(Other loss and grief)-Moving away from friends and family. -Coping with a breakup. Getting help; -Seeking help early. -All about psychological treatments. -Types of help.-All about age and confidentiality. Things you need to remember; - Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken.-Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not. - This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this. -You are not alone. -You are enough. -You are important. -You are worth it. -You are strong. -You are not a failure, -Good people exist. -Reaching out shows strength. -Breathe. -Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you. -Give yourself credit. -Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones. -Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend. -Focus on the things you can change. -Let go of toxic people. -You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do. -Try not to beat yourself up. -Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next. -You are not a bother.-Your existence is more than your appearance. -You are smart. -You are loved. -You are wanted. -You are needed. -Better days are coming. -Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright. -You have more potential than you think. - Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.Please remember to look after yourself and know that you are more than worth it and you deserve to be happy. Keep smiling butterflies x
Domestic Violence: Self-care masterpost
lah-disputes:

I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you!Reminder; You’re going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe. ————————————————————————————-Distractions; Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you aren’t too focused on your thoughts. -Draw something-This website translates the time into colours.-Create your own galaxy.-Play flowing.-Make a 3D line travel where ever you like. -Listen to music.-Calm.-Ocean mood, do nothing for two minutes.Sleep issues; - 8 hour sleep music.-Rainy mood. -Meditation.-Coping with nightmares.-How to cope with nightmares, 11 steps.-Calm-Foods that can affect your sleeping, both positive and negatively.  Uncomfortable with silence; -Rainy mood.-10 hours of rain and thunder.-3 hours of rain and thunder.-Human heartbeat.-Rainforest.-Sound of rain on a tin roof.-Autumn wind.-Rain on a tent-Traffic in the rain.-Soft traffic. -Fan.-Train.-Simply noise.-My noise.-Rainy cafe.Anxiety; -How to stop worrying. -Tips to manage anxiety and stress.-The 10 best ever anxiety management techniques. -Self-help strategies for anxiety. -Helping a friend with anxiety. -All about worrying.-8 myths about anxiety. Sad, angry and depressed/depression; -“I’m always sad”-Feeling sad.-Going through trauma.-“I’m always angry”.-Anger management. -All about anger.-National helplines and websites.-Self-help strategies for depression.-Dealing with depression at work.-Dealing with depression at school.Isolation and loneliness; -Pets and mental health.-All about loneliness. -“I feel so alone”-10 more ideas to help with loneliness. -How to deal with loneliness. Self-harm;-Alternatives to self-harm and distraction techniques.-146 things to do besides self-harm.-More alternatives to self-harm.-Self-harm alternatives.-How to take care of self-harm wounds/injuries.-Getting rid of scars.  Addiction; -How to help a friend with a drug addiction.-What is addiction?-All about alcohol and addiction.-The facts about drug addiction. Eating disorders; -Helping a friend with an eating disorder.-Eating disorder treatments. -Support services for eating disorders. -Self-help tips with eating disorders.-Eating disorder recovery. -Recovering from an eating disorder. -100+ reasons to recover. -Understanding and managing eating disorders.  Dealing with self-hatred;  -3 ways to ease self-loathing. -How to turn self-hatred into self-compassion.-Self-hatred resources.-10 step plan to deal with self-hate.  Suicidal; -International suicide hotlines (1)  (2)-Preventing suicide. -Reasons to stay alive.-Dealing with suicidal thoughts and feelings.-Coping with suicidal ideation.   Schizophrenia;-All about schizophrenia.  -Helping a person with schizophrenia.  -Understanding and dealing with schizophrenia.  -Delusions and hallucinations.  OCD;-Managing your OCD at home. -Overcoming OCD.-How to cope with OCD. -Strategies for dealing with the anxious moments. Borderline personality disorder; -Helping someone with BPD. -All about personality disorders.-Treatment for BPD.Abuse; -Healthy relationships VS abusive relationships. -Emotional abuse-Overcoming sexual abuse. -Hotlines services. -5 ways to escape an abusive relationship. -Domestic violence support. -Signs of an abusive relationship. -What do to if you’re in an abusive relationship. -Surviving abuse. -What you can do if you’re sexual harassed. -Sexual assault support.-What to do if you’ve been sexually assaulted or abused.  Bullying;-How to stand up against bullying.-How to protect yourself when it comes to cyber bullying.-How to help stop people bullying you.  Loss and grief; -How to cope with a suicide of a loved one.-Grieving for a stranger. -Common reactions to death. -Working through grief.(Other loss and grief)-Moving away from friends and family. -Coping with a breakup. Getting help; -Seeking help early. -All about psychological treatments. -Types of help.-All about age and confidentiality. Things you need to remember; - Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken.-Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not. - This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this. -You are not alone. -You are enough. -You are important. -You are worth it. -You are strong. -You are not a failure, -Good people exist. -Reaching out shows strength. -Breathe. -Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you. -Give yourself credit. -Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones. -Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend. -Focus on the things you can change. -Let go of toxic people. -You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do. -Try not to beat yourself up. -Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next. -You are not a bother.-Your existence is more than your appearance. -You are smart. -You are loved. -You are wanted. -You are needed. -Better days are coming. -Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright. -You have more potential than you think. - Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.Please remember to look after yourself and know that you are more than worth it and you deserve to be happy. Keep smiling butterflies x

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Domestic Violence: Karen Ingala Smith OK_IngalaSmith Follow Anybody pushing a gender neutral approach to domestic - or sexual violence is just a male violence enabler. RETWEETS FAVORITES 12 翩承滯叟 SA EU 24 1:39 AM-15 Jan 2014 <p><a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/118655406648/poppypicklesticks-samaelcarver-fishmostly" class="tumblr_blog">siryouarebeingmocked</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://poppypicklesticks.tumblr.com/post/102341127774/samaelcarver-fishmostly-poppypicklesticks">poppypicklesticks</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://samaelcarver.tumblr.com/post/102341047579/fishmostly-poppypicklesticks-feminists-but">samaelcarver</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://fishmostly.tumblr.com/post/102315209628/poppypicklesticks-feminists-but-we-fight-for">fishmostly</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://poppypicklesticks.tumblr.com/post/102298084634/feminists-but-we-fight-for-men-too">poppypicklesticks</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Feminists: “But we fight for men too!!!!”</p> </blockquote> This person is the CEO of a (female-only) domestic violence shelter and winner of the 2014 National Diversity Awards for being a “positive role model”. ( <a href="http://kareningalasmith.com/about/">http://kareningalasmith.com/about/</a> ) </blockquote> <p>That’s both disturbing and fucking terrifying. </p> </blockquote> <p>it got worse </p> </blockquote> <p><a href="https://archive.is/YsgPy">No kidding</a>. In fact, <a href="https://archive.is/W6SKv">she has a little essay</a> directed at people who think she doesn’t care about men or are sexist. Allow me to excerpt;<br/></p><blockquote><p>I want to see an end to <b>men’s violence against women</b>.  I’m campaigning to raise awareness of <b>men’s fatal violence against women</b> and for action to increase our understanding of the reasons behind the differences in men and women’s use of violence and their victimisation, so that we can reduce <b>men’s violence against women</b>.</p><p>Women who are murdered are most likely to have been murdered by a man.  <b>Men who are murdered are most likely to have been murdered by a man</b>.  Men are more likely to be violent than women.  Not all men are murderers, not all men are violent. Some women are murderers, some women are violent.</p></blockquote><p>And yet, men are more likely to be murdered by other men than women, a fact which you have almost certainly come across while getting the statistics above. Or would acknowledging that hurt your threat narrative?</p><blockquote><p>Gender and gender differences – the ways that many of us behave in ways that are seen as being like a ‘typical man’ or a ‘typical woman’ – are socially constructed.  They are not biological, they are not inevitable.</p></blockquote><p>You heard it here first, everyone. <b>Gender is not influenced by biology in any way whatsoever</b>.</p><blockquote><p><b>All men benefit from inequality between women and men</b>.  This doesn’t mean that <b>some women are</b> not <b>in more advantageous positions than some men</b>. It doesn’t mean all men are the same.  It doesn’t mean that all women are the same.   It doesn’t mean that sex is the only important basis for inequality.  It doesn’t mean that everyone wants it to be that way.</p></blockquote><p>You may be waiting for the “but it does mean-”. It never comes.</p><blockquote><p>When men – and it usually is men, but not always – attack me for caring about women killed though men’s violence, by suggesting that this means <b>I don’t care about men who are victims of violence</b> (whether from women, or as more likely, other men), they’re using a straw man argument.   They saying that because I care about men killing women, I can’t care about men who are killed, to attack the fact that I care about women who are killed. <b>This may or may not be</b>, as suggested by a friend of mine, <a href="http://louisepennington.org/">Louise Pennington</a>, <b>because they do not care when men kill women</b>. </p></blockquote><p><i>&gt;says people who criticize her are using a straw man</i></p><p><i>&gt;tries to poison the well based on absolutely no evidence whatsoever</i></p><p><i>&gt;uses the exact same illogic she claims her critics are using.</i></p><p>Of course, the fact that <b>she has expressed not the slightest bit of actual concern for men who are killed through violence</b> in this entire article might be why people think she doesn’t care about men killed though violence.</p><p>Not to mention <a href="https://archive.is/Z2Q2L">her website’s actual section on men</a>, which comes across as callous, at best. In fact, s<a href="https://archive.is/4lxvF#selection-325.0-325.69">he claims that there’s no taboo against men reporting when they’re DV victims</a>, and, I quote;</p><ul></ul><blockquote><p>men are more – not less – likely to call the police</p><p>men are more likely – not less – to support a prosecution</p><p>men are less likely – not more – to drop charges.<sup>1</sup></p></blockquote><ul></ul><p>She also uses a 2002 study by <a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/51596361233/i-think-the-biggest-telling-point-is-this">known</a> <a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/51106877685/michael-kimmels-guyland-is-a-masterpiece-of">misandrist</a> <a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/tagged/michael-kimmel">Michael Kimmel</a> to support the claims. I want to point out that the title of what seems to be the paper is <a href="http://www.xyonline.net/sites/default/files/Kimmel,%20Gender%20symmetry%20in%20dom.pdf">““Gender Symmetry” in Domestic Violence”<br/></a></p><p>This is the first time in my memory I’ve seen a paper with <b>air-quotes in the title</b>. Scanning through the paper, he claims that MRAs aren’t motivated by a desire to actually improve things for male victims, but to derail and “disrupt” initiatives for female victims. Oddly enough, he neglects to provide any evidence or support for this claim. <b>Listen and Believe</b>, I guess.<br/></p><p>Leaving all that aside, on the PDF’s page 14, last paragraph, Kimmel claims that other studies support the claims he makes with Smith quoted, and that it’s the intuitive conclusion, because women are taught to just accept being abused. Which is weird, because last time I checked, in Western society, <b>men are still generally told not to hit women, even in self-defense</b>. Women are allowed to slap men around in public without people batting an eye. In fact, <a href="http://web.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm">there are <b>hundreds of studies</b> indicating men and women are <b>equally as likely</b> to be <b>abusers</b></a>. Thing is, if abuse is severe enough to get the police to believe the man the victim, he’s more likely to follow through. A lot of <b>male</b> abuse <b>victims call the cops</b> and get booked for <b>forcing the woman</b> to <b>“defend herself”</b>. At which point they probably stop calling the cops.<br/></p><p> Among other things, Karen Ingala Smith repeatedly brings up the fact that women are more likely to be killed by a partner or ex-partner as evidence that they’re less likely to be abusers. <br/></p><p>Of course, the obvious flaw in this logic is that <b>sampling (ex-)partner murders isn’t going to be representative of DV</b>. Or even an example of DV; what if some dude comes home and finds his GF having sex with the <strike>mailman</strike> postman and just <b>goes nuts</b>, like that one dude in the first act of Minority Report? He was a loving husband right up until that moment. What if someone kills their partner for insurance money?</p><p>She <a href="https://archive.is/4lxvF#selection-367.0-367.129">claims elsewhere that there’s no systemic bias in women’s favor</a>. Why? Because women are, allegedly, more likely to be arrested on DV calls when identified as the perpetrator (1/10 for men vs 1/3 for women). Note that Smith switches between studies about the UK (like this one) and US at the drop of a hat, despite her main area of concern being the UK. Note also that <a href="http://www.nr-foundation.org.uk/downloads/Who-Does-What-to-Whom.pdf">the study in question</a> relies, again, <a href="https://archive.is/9PG9i">on who the <i>police</i> think are perps</a>. You know, <b>the very people whose bias is under question</b>. I apologize for what seems like <a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gamedropping&amp;defid=8261028">gamedropping</a>, but this is really the first thing I think of;<br/></p><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="462" data-orig-width="600"><img data-orig-height="462" data-orig-width="600" alt="image" src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/525551372cd1ee61930440f3be7afcfa/tumblr_inline_nnzwawMAUs1sps4wz_540.png"/></figure><p>As <a href="https://archive.is/9VIn7#selection-4817.0-4817.5">Ally Fogg points out</a> (<a href="https://archive.is/9VIn7#selection-5255.15-5267.10">and someone who claims to have worked at a shelter backs him up about this being the party line</a>) the study Smith is referencing also repeatedly downplays male victimization, describing mutual abuse in terms of male aggression and female self-defense, and generally goes “well, it’s worse for women”. And did I mention that the study was apparently done in the name of the Violence Against Women Studies Group at U of Bristol? No bias here, no sir.<br/></p><p>Oh, and <b>she’s the type of feminist who says men shouldn’t be feminists</b>, and that feminism isn’t about men, and that <a href="https://archive.is/9f4I1#selection-197.0-197.574">men just mess up feminism with their pesky concerns about men’s issues as well as women</a>, but can’t quite seem to grasp why people think she doesn’t care about men.<br/></p><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="351" data-orig-width="629"><img data-orig-height="351" data-orig-width="629" alt="image" src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/9ea6e9a69d6e7f1d18bed02a1be2a6d4/tumblr_inline_nnymn1OyTI1sps4wz_540.jpg"/></figure><p>For some reason.<br/></p></blockquote>
Domestic Violence: Karen Ingala Smith
 OK_IngalaSmith
 Follow
 Anybody pushing a gender neutral approach
 to domestic - or sexual violence is just a
 male violence enabler.
 RETWEETS
 FAVORITES
 12
 翩承滯叟 SA
 EU
 24
 1:39 AM-15 Jan 2014
<p><a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/118655406648/poppypicklesticks-samaelcarver-fishmostly" class="tumblr_blog">siryouarebeingmocked</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://poppypicklesticks.tumblr.com/post/102341127774/samaelcarver-fishmostly-poppypicklesticks">poppypicklesticks</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://samaelcarver.tumblr.com/post/102341047579/fishmostly-poppypicklesticks-feminists-but">samaelcarver</a>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://fishmostly.tumblr.com/post/102315209628/poppypicklesticks-feminists-but-we-fight-for">fishmostly</a>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://poppypicklesticks.tumblr.com/post/102298084634/feminists-but-we-fight-for-men-too">poppypicklesticks</a>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>Feminists: “But we fight for men too!!!!”</p>
</blockquote>
This person is the CEO of a (female-only) domestic violence shelter and winner of the 2014 National Diversity Awards for being a “positive role model”. (
<a href="http://kareningalasmith.com/about/">http://kareningalasmith.com/about/</a>
)
</blockquote>
<p>That’s both disturbing and fucking terrifying. </p>
</blockquote>
<p>it got worse </p>
</blockquote>

<p><a href="https://archive.is/YsgPy">No kidding</a>. In fact, <a href="https://archive.is/W6SKv">she has a little essay</a> directed at people who think she doesn’t care about men or are sexist. Allow me to excerpt;<br/></p><blockquote><p>I want to see an end to <b>men’s violence against women</b>.  I’m 
campaigning to raise awareness of <b>men’s fatal violence against women</b> and
 for action to increase our understanding of the reasons behind the 
differences in men and women’s use of violence and their victimisation, 
so that we can reduce <b>men’s violence against women</b>.</p><p>Women who are murdered are most likely to have been murdered by a 
man.  <b>Men who are murdered are most likely to have been murdered by a 
man</b>.  Men are more likely to be violent than women.  Not all men are 
murderers, not all men are violent. Some women are murderers, some women
 are violent.</p></blockquote><p>And yet, men are more likely to be murdered by other men than women, a fact which you have almost certainly come across while getting the statistics above. Or would acknowledging that hurt your threat narrative?</p><blockquote><p>Gender and gender differences – the ways that many of us behave in ways 
that are seen as being like a ‘typical man’ or a ‘typical woman’ – are 
socially constructed.  They are not biological, they are not inevitable.</p></blockquote><p>You heard it here first, everyone. <b>Gender is not influenced by biology in any way whatsoever</b>.</p><blockquote><p><b>All men benefit from inequality between women and men</b>.  This doesn’t 
mean that <b>some women are</b> not <b>in more advantageous positions than some 
men</b>. It doesn’t mean all men are the same.  It doesn’t mean that all 
women are the same.   It doesn’t mean that sex is the only important 
basis for inequality.  It doesn’t mean that everyone wants it to be that
 way.</p></blockquote><p>You may be waiting for the “but it does mean-”. It never comes.</p><blockquote><p>When men – and it usually is men, but not always – attack me for caring
 about women killed though men’s violence, by suggesting that this means
 <b>I don’t care about men who are victims of violence</b> (whether from women,
 or as more likely, other men), they’re using a straw man argument.  
They saying that because I care about men killing women, I can’t care 
about men who are killed, to attack the fact that I care about women who
 are killed. <b>This may or may not be</b>, as suggested by a friend of mine, <a href="http://louisepennington.org/">Louise Pennington</a>, <b>because they do not care when men kill women</b>. </p></blockquote><p><i>&gt;says people who criticize her are using a straw man</i></p><p><i>&gt;tries to poison the well based on absolutely no evidence whatsoever</i></p><p><i>&gt;uses the exact same illogic she claims her critics are using.</i></p><p>Of course, the fact that <b>she has expressed not the slightest bit of actual concern for men who are killed through violence</b> in this entire article might be why people think she doesn’t care about men killed though violence.</p><p>Not to mention <a href="https://archive.is/Z2Q2L">her website’s actual section on men</a>, which comes across as callous, at best. In fact, s<a href="https://archive.is/4lxvF#selection-325.0-325.69">he claims that there’s no taboo against men reporting when they’re DV victims</a>, and, I quote;</p><ul></ul><blockquote><p>men are more – not less – likely to call the police</p><p>men are more likely – not less – to support a prosecution</p><p>men are less likely – not more – to drop charges.<sup>1</sup></p></blockquote><ul></ul><p>She also uses a 2002 study by <a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/51596361233/i-think-the-biggest-telling-point-is-this">known</a> <a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/51106877685/michael-kimmels-guyland-is-a-masterpiece-of">misandrist</a> <a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/tagged/michael-kimmel">Michael Kimmel</a> to support the claims. I want to point out that the title of what seems to be the paper is <a href="http://www.xyonline.net/sites/default/files/Kimmel,%20Gender%20symmetry%20in%20dom.pdf">““Gender Symmetry” in Domestic Violence”<br/></a></p><p>This is the first time in my memory I’ve seen a paper with <b>air-quotes in the title</b>. Scanning through the paper, he claims that MRAs aren’t motivated by a desire to actually improve things for male victims, but to derail and “disrupt” initiatives for female victims. Oddly enough, he neglects to provide any evidence or support for this claim. <b>Listen and Believe</b>, I guess.<br/></p><p>Leaving all that aside, on the PDF’s page 14, last paragraph, Kimmel claims that other studies support the claims he makes with Smith quoted, and that it’s the intuitive conclusion, because women are taught to just accept being abused. Which is weird, because last time I checked, in Western society, <b>men are still generally told not to hit women, even in self-defense</b>. Women are allowed to slap men around in public without people batting an eye. In fact, <a href="http://web.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm">there are <b>hundreds of studies</b> indicating men and women are <b>equally as likely</b> to be <b>abusers</b></a>. Thing is, if abuse is severe enough to get the police to believe the man the victim, he’s more likely to follow through. A lot of <b>male</b> abuse <b>victims call the cops</b> and get booked for <b>forcing the woman</b> to <b>“defend herself”</b>. At which point they probably stop calling the cops.<br/></p><p> Among other things, Karen Ingala Smith repeatedly brings up the 
fact that women are more likely to be killed by a partner or ex-partner 
as evidence that they’re less likely to be abusers. <br/></p><p>Of course, the obvious flaw in this logic is that <b>sampling (ex-)partner murders isn’t going to be representative of DV</b>. Or even an example of DV; what if some dude comes home and finds his GF having sex with the <strike>mailman</strike> postman and just <b>goes nuts</b>,
 like that one dude in the first act of Minority Report? He was a loving
 husband right up until that moment. What if someone kills their partner
 for insurance money?</p><p>She <a href="https://archive.is/4lxvF#selection-367.0-367.129">claims elsewhere that there’s no systemic bias in women’s favor</a>. Why? Because women are, allegedly, more likely to be arrested on DV calls when identified as the perpetrator (1/10 for men vs 1/3 for women). Note that Smith switches between studies about the UK (like this one) and US at the drop of a hat, despite her main area of concern being the UK. Note also that <a href="http://www.nr-foundation.org.uk/downloads/Who-Does-What-to-Whom.pdf">the study in question</a> relies, again, <a href="https://archive.is/9PG9i">on who the <i>police</i> think are perps</a>. You know, <b>the very people whose bias is under question</b>. I apologize for what seems like <a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gamedropping&amp;defid=8261028">gamedropping</a>, but this is really the first thing I think of;<br/></p><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="462" data-orig-width="600"><img data-orig-height="462" data-orig-width="600" alt="image" src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/525551372cd1ee61930440f3be7afcfa/tumblr_inline_nnzwawMAUs1sps4wz_540.png"/></figure><p>As <a href="https://archive.is/9VIn7#selection-4817.0-4817.5">Ally Fogg points out</a> (<a href="https://archive.is/9VIn7#selection-5255.15-5267.10">and someone who claims to have worked at a shelter backs him up about this being the party line</a>) the study Smith is referencing also repeatedly downplays male victimization, describing mutual abuse in terms of male aggression and female self-defense, and generally goes “well, it’s worse for women”. And did I mention that the study was apparently done in the name of the Violence Against Women Studies Group at U of Bristol? No bias here, no sir.<br/></p><p>Oh, and <b>she’s the type of feminist who says men shouldn’t be feminists</b>, and that feminism isn’t about men, and that <a href="https://archive.is/9f4I1#selection-197.0-197.574">men just mess up feminism with their pesky concerns about men’s issues as well as women</a>, but can’t quite seem to grasp why people think she doesn’t care about men.<br/></p><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="351" data-orig-width="629"><img data-orig-height="351" data-orig-width="629" alt="image" src="https://78.media.tumblr.com/9ea6e9a69d6e7f1d18bed02a1be2a6d4/tumblr_inline_nnymn1OyTI1sps4wz_540.jpg"/></figure><p>For some reason.<br/></p></blockquote>

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Domestic Violence: Misogynist Misandrist Feminist <p><a href="http://conservativeveteranpatriot.tumblr.com/post/109654168599/punk-con-poppypicklesticks" class="tumblr_blog">conservativeveteranpatriot</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a href="http://punk-con.tumblr.com/post/109593071552/poppypicklesticks-magnificent-oreo-otter" class="tumblr_blog">punk-con</a>:</p><blockquote><p><a href="http://poppypicklesticks.tumblr.com/post/109576138889/magnificent-oreo-otter" class="tumblr_blog">poppypicklesticks</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a href="http://magnificent-oreo-otter.tumblr.com/post/109576026565/anti-feminism-pro-equality" class="tumblr_blog">magnificent-oreo-otter</a>:</p><blockquote><p><a href="http://anti-feminism-pro-equality.tumblr.com/post/109526176176/dil-howlters-uncreative-username-why-is-this-so" class="tumblr_blog">anti-feminism-pro-equality</a>:</p><blockquote><p><a href="http://dil-howlters-uncreative-username.tumblr.com/post/109122323707/why-is-this-so-hard-to-understand" class="tumblr_blog">dil-howlters-uncreative-username</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>WHY IS THIS SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND</p> </blockquote> <p>Probably because feminists arent doing anything to promote equality, but rather, misandry. <br/></p><p>Father’s rights group want shared parenting (equal custody) to be the default if both parents want custody and neither parent is unfit. They feel that men should not be punished for being men, and that women should not be awarded custody to their kids simply for being women. Currently women are awarded primary custody almost all the time, even if the husband was the stay-at-home Dad and the woman was the breadwinner.</p><p>Feminists <a href="http://www.glennsacks.com/enewsletters/enews_11_28_06.htm">fought against this</a>. You can read NOW’s own statement <a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20070708213232/http://michnow.org/jointcustody507.htm">here</a>. Also note their usage of anti-male lies, i.e. “<a href="http://www.now.org/nnt/03-97/father.html">fathers are abusive, don’t give them custody</a>.” That is from 1997, but still remains valid today.</p><p>Men want protection against false rape allegations. They feel that a man’s life should not be ruined simply on the allegation of a woman who may be a vindictive liar. Currently, a woman can accuse a man of rape for no reason, and the man’s name is splashed in the paper and his life is ruined. So, they fought for laws granting men anonymity until charged with the crime of rape—not convicted, just charged.</p><p>Feminists <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-10760239">fought against this</a>, causing it to fail. Also see <a href="http://londonfeministnetwork.org.uk/what-weve-done/letter-writing-campaigns/we-object-to-plans-to-grant-anonymity-to-rape-defendants">here</a>, the London Feminist Network campaigning to defeat the proposal.</p><p>“The London Feminist Network is a campaigning organisation uniting London based feminist groups and individuals in activism.”</p><p>Men want an end to the justice system favouring women simply because they are women, and giving men harsher sentences simply because they are men.</p><p>Feminists <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-13666066">fought against this</a>, arguing that no woman should be sent to jail, <a href="http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/news/article-23388859-womens-prisons-should-all-close-within-a-decade.do">even women who had murdered multiple people</a>.</p><p>Men want equal treatment when victims of domestic violence, and to not be arrested for the crime of “being male” under primary aggressor policies.</p><p>Feminists <a href="http://pubpages.unh.edu/%7Emas2/V74-gender-symmetry-with-gramham-Kevan-Method%208-.pdf">fought against this</a> by trying to suppress evidence showing that half of domestic violence is done by women, by threatening the researchers with bomb threats, death threats, etc. Modern, younger feminists <a href="http://i.imgur.com/aob5k.jpg">are doing it as well</a>.</p><p>And sadly, they were successful in this effort of propaganda. For decades, and continuing today, violent men are (rightfully) convicted and punished by the state, while violent women are left to freely terrorize and harm their partners.</p><p><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">The feminist definition of domestic violence has skewed arrest and prosecution philosophies, resulting primarily in having only male batterers criminally pursued.</a></p><p>Men want female rapists to be arrested, charged, and convicted with rape. In Western countries, women are rarely punished when raping men, due to the biased legal system. In some countries, women cannot be punished when raping men, since rape is defined as a male-perpetrated crime.</p><p>Feminists fought against this in <a href="http://www.firstpost.com/india/rape-law-amendment-where-are-the-cases-of-sexual-violence-against-men-384227.html">India</a>, arguing that “there is a physicality [in] rape” and that it would make things “more complicated for judges.”</p><p>Feminists fought against this in <a href="http://www.jpost.com/Israel/Article.aspx?id=169522">Israel</a>, claiming that changing the law would result in men filing false rape claims.</p><p>Men don’t want to be thrown in jail because they lost their jobs and temporarily cannot pay child support.</p><p>Feminists fought against this, <a href="http://rinow.org/legislative-agenda/2011-legislative-agenda-draft-as-of-21411/">trying to lower the amount to $5000</a> before a man is guilty of a felony for not paying child support. If a man loses a decent-paying job, he will now be a felon, go to jail, lose his right to vote, AND be unable to find future jobs—if he cannot regain an equal-paying job within a few months.</p><p>Men want equal economic support and help from the government. When the recession hit, male-dominated fields like construction lost millions of jobs, while female-fields like education and healthcare gained jobs. So the government proposed an economic stimulus for those fields.</p><p><a href="http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/016/659dkrod.asp">Feminists successfully fought against this, arguing that it was discrimination to support men, and caused the government to give money to women who didn’t deserve it.</a> Hundreds of professional feminists complained against the “sexism” of helping men (who had lost jobs) and not women (who had gained jobs).</p><p><a href="http://www.legislature.mi.gov/documents/2011-2012/billanalysis/house/htm/2011-HLA-5328-3.HTM">A representative of the Michigan National Organization for Women testified in opposition to the Revocation of Paternity Act</a>, which stopped the old law which stated that if a woman was married and cheated on her husband, the resulting child is considered to be legally the husband’s and the biological father had no legal rights to fight for custody or parenting time with his biological child.</p><p>As you can see, the claim that feminism fight for men’s rights is a blatant lie. Don’t believe any feminists that say that. Feminists fight for women’s rights. That is a good thing. Feminists also are happy to harm men’s rights, as shown above. That is a bad thing. Feminism is about female privilege, not equality.</p><p>Some may argue that these cases of feminists harming men is not “representative” of feminism. I ask you: Are there any cases of feminists helping men? No. Yet, there are many cases of feminists harming men.</p><p>It is reasonable to conclude from these facts that feminism fights to harm men.</p><p>This info is from <a href="http://draumbouy.tumblr.com/post/90722993234/why-are-you-so-anti-feminism-if-you-dont-support-it">draumbouy</a></p><p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erin_Pizzey">Feminists threaten to kill woman for saying men need abuse shelters.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">Feminists prevent a meeting about male suicide.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.whyileftsweden.com/?p=311">Feminists stage mock murders to scare men. </a></p><p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valerie_Solanas#The_shooting">Feminist attacks male cartoonist and is hailed a hero of feminism.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qodygTkTUYM">Feminists shut down forum for battered husbands.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.now.org/nnt/03-97/father.html">Propaganda campaign against male fathers wanting custody.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-10760239">Feminists wish to slander accused names before convicted. </a></p><p><a href="http://www.standard.co.uk/news/womens-prisons-should-all-close-within-a-decade-7240659.html">Try to shut down female prisons.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.firstpost.com/india/rape-law-amendment-where-are-the-cases-of-sexual-violence-against-men-384227.html">Create rape laws that exclude female rapists.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.jpost.com/Israel/Womens-groups-Cancel-law-charging-women-with-rape">Make it impossible to charge women with rape.</a></p><p><a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20070708213232/http://michnow.org/jointcustody507.htm">Feminists against equal custody.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/molloy-program-moms-serve-sentences-home-article-1.1337817">Female felons should serve home sentences.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/7995844/Judges-told-be-more-lenient-to-women-criminals.html">Told judges to be lenient on women.</a></p><p><a href="http://pubpages.unh.edu/%7Emas2/V74-gender-symmetry-with-gramham-Kevan-Method%208-.pdf">Feminists cover up female domestic violence.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/016/659dkrod.asp">Feminists don’t want the gov to help unemployed men.</a></p><p><a href="http://douchebagdork.tumblr.com/post/83373265311/bastardlybrendan-sjhetalia">Feminists launch campaigns to help girls only while boys are doing worse in every facet of education.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.ageofconsent.com/comments/numberthirtysix.htm">Males who were raped as a child still have to pay child support.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2006/03/19/national/19fathers.html?pagewanted=all&amp;_r=2&amp;">Women should have the right to put a child up for adoption before the father gets custody</a>.</p><p><a href="http://studentactivism.net/2011/07/21/preponderance-of-the-evidence/">Feminists against beyond reasonable doubt when it’s male rapists.</a></p><p><a href="http://judgybitch.com/2014/01/22/five-rights-feminism-delivered-for-women-but-doesnt-want-to-share-with-anyone-else/">5 rights feminism ignores for men.</a></p><p><a href="http://i.imgur.com/aob5k.jpg">Feminists blame males for their abuse.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">The primary aggressor clause where only men get charged with abuse.</a></p><p><a href="http://the-white-feather-movement-worldwarone.wikispaces.com/">Shame men into going to war.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.genderratic.com/p/4207/its-shit-like-this-feminist-professor-apparently-argues-child-sexual-abuse-does-not-exist/">Feminists dismiss female child rapists.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.aifs.gov.au/acssa/docs/costello.pdf">Feminists say men can’t talk about domestic abuse.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/is0af/send_complaint_to_cbs_against_the_talk_hosts_for/">Feminists mock a man who has his dick cut off.</a></p><p><a href="http://imminentdeathsyndrome.tumblr.com/post/79183377644/in-another-awkward-and-humorless-moment-in-snl">Strawmanning MRA members.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOCD_T9Qqpc">feminists attack church.</a></p><p><a href="http://eliminativism.tumblr.com/post/79347088777/valeriekeefe-the-feminist-fangirl-i-care">Feminists transphobia</a></p><p><a href="http://imminentdeathsyndrome.tumblr.com/post/79183377644/in-another-awkward-and-humorless-moment-in-snl">Feminists slander the MRM</a></p><p><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/anne-theriault-/mens-rights-movement_b_5049999.html">Again, </a></p><p><a href="http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/05/24/1301671/-Elliot-Roger-Gunman-in-California-Mass-Shooting-was-influenced-by-the-Men-s-Rights-Movement">And again, </a></p><p><a href="https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/classify-mens-rights-movement-terrorist-group/W5018W63">Call them terrorists.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.hindustantimes.com/India-news/NewDelhi/only-men-can-be-booked-for-rape/Article1-1021702.aspx">Feminists say Men can’t be raped. </a></p><p><a href="http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2009/nov/29/barbara-ellen-madeleine-martin-comment">Feminists defend female raping minor.</a></p><p><a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/81918411593/you-do-realize-that-8-year-olds-cannot-give-any-kind-of">Feminist defends why fucking an 8 year old boy isn’t rape.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.saveservices.org/pdf/SAVE-VAWA-Discriminates-Against-Males.pdf">Feminists primary aggressor clause discriminates against males.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">Feminists cover up female domestic abuse stats.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlHVANXh-yg">Woman smashing bottle in mans face in public. Nobody gives a fuck.</a></p><p><a href="http://jezebel.com/294383/have-you-ever-beat-up-a-boyfriend-cause-uh-we-have">Jezebel mocks men who are abused.</a></p><p><a href="http://anescapedconviction.tumblr.com/post/82950097707/imminentdeathsyndrome-read-the-full-paper-here">Feminists make sure the gov doesn’t spend money on male shelters or male research.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlFAd4YdQks">Female on male abuse in public is at best ignored, and at worst celebrated.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u3PgH86OyEM">Public stops a man from abusing a woman in public, same crowd laughs when the roles are reversed. </a></p><p><a href="https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/geo-safe-house">No funding for male shelter. </a></p><p><a href="http://news.nationalpost.com/2013/04/28/earl-silverman-who-ran-mens-safe-house-dies-in-apparent-suicide/">Founder of Canadas only male shelter for abuse forced to close due to lack of funding before committing suicide. </a></p><p>Violent crimes? Only a few examples. One of which is their violent protest against Warren Farrell when he spoke in Toronto: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0</a></p><p>Another would be this mob of pro-abortion Feminists in Argentina: <a href="http://www.lifesitenews.com/horror-mob-of-topless-pro-abort-feminists-attacks-rosary-praying-men-defend.html">http://www.lifesitenews.com/horror-mob-of-topless-pro-abort-feminists-attacks-rosary-praying-men-defend.html</a></p><p>Feminists disrupt a forum for battered men: <a href="http://youtu.be/qodygTkTUYM">http://youtu.be/qodygTkTUYM</a></p><p>Tumblr users sarah-bunny and feminism-is-your-friend harass and DOXX an Asexual rape victim: <a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/78589971327/abbeyxmae-serebrii">http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/78589971327/abbeyxmae-serebrii</a></p><p>Tumblr user manhatingfeminist tells a user to kill themselves: <a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/78734991790/you-need-to-kill-yourself-lol">http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/78734991790/you-need-to-kill-yourself-lol</a></p><p>Tumblr user musemorplsunerd defends a woman who raped an 8 year old boy: <a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/81918411593/you-do-realize-that-8-year-olds-cannot-give-any-kind-of">http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/81918411593/you-do-realize-that-8-year-olds-cannot-give-any-kind-of</a></p><p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erin_Pizzey#Overview">Feminists threaten to kill woman for saying men need abuse shelters.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">Feminists prevent a meeting about male suicide.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.whyileftsweden.com/?p=311">Feminists stage mock murders to scare men. </a></p><p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valerie_Solanas#The_shooting">Feminist attacks male cartoonist and is hailed a hero of feminism.</a></p><p><a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/71296384847/oratorasaurus-lzbth-im-not-a-feminist">many feminist leaders were borderline genercidal</a>. In fact Valerie Solanas, who helped to shape modern patriarchy theory, and who’s writing is still taught today in womens studies classes, not only attempted to assassinate Andy Warhol, <a href="http://www.feministpress.org/books/breanne-fahs/valerie-solanas">but also wrote a book called the S.C.U.M. Manifesto (or feminist Mein Kompf), which was about gendercide, and she is still hailed as a feminist hero to this day.</a> this book is still used in womens studies classes despite the fact that it proposes reducing the male population to 10% and using them for breeding purposes.</p><p><a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/73394892179/just-to-let-them-know-lets-hear-those-rights-men-dont">men actually have less rights than women.</a> men are also demonized as rapists due to unequal rape laws that favor women. <a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/71294252715/40-of-rapists-are-women-yes-get-over-it">when you analyze the situation you’ll find that women rape almost as often as men (about 40% of rapists are women) and men are raped just as often if not more than women</a>.</p><p>In 2008, a law was passed in England and Wales that allowed long-term domestic violence victims who killed their abuser to be charged with the lesser charge of manslaughter, but this only applies to women. </p><p>In California and Montana, a woman can name any man she likes as the father, he gets a letter in the mail, if he does not prove he isn’t the father within 30 days he is now the father and must pay. He cannot contest it. And DNA tests to prove paternity are not considered proof by the courts.</p><p>Women who falsely accuse a man of rape, who would be sent to prison for 10+ years if convicted, only gets fined or a slap on the wrist.</p><p>There is also the gender bias in the Probation Departments:</p><p>A higher score on the Probation Assessment Tool (PAT) means a recommendation that could lead to eventual dismissal of charges. A lower score means probation or lockup, not to mention the juvenile delinquent tag. [Judge] Hunt claims PAT routinely rewards girls with 14 extra points for gender alone, while boys get 0. </p><p>Then there are studies that show women who fail to pay child support are incarcerated only 1/8th as often as men with similar violations.</p><p><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">The feminist definition of domestic violence has skewed arrest and prosecution philosophies, resulting in having mostly male batterers criminally pursued, and female batterers left alone.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2011-04-01/duke-lacrosse-players-suit-over-false-rape-claim-may-proceed-judge-says.html">Men who are falsely accused of rape can have their names published and their lives ruined even if they are not convicted or charged - their accuser is protected and is likely to face no punishment, or a light one.</a></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">Feminists skewed the Definition of Domestic Abuse, resulting in only male abusers being arrested and female abusers not.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.dvmen.org/dv-55.htm#femfoolish">Feminists’s DV training hurts Police training</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.genderratic.com/p/2551/male-privilege-defining-male-victims-out-of-existence/">Feminist Mary</a> <a href="http://www.leaderu.com/real/ri9502/sommers.html">Koss denies male</a> <a href="http://www.feministcritics.org/blog/2008/02/29/has-anyone-here-besides-me-actually-read-koss-paper/">rape victims.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">Feminists violently protesting against Warren Farrell at U of Toronto</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.lifesitenews.com/horror-mob-of-topless-pro-abort-feminists-attacks-rosary-praying-men-defend.html">A mob of feminists at a recent protest attacking and sexually molesting a group of Rosary-praying Catholic men who were peacefully protecting the cathedral in the city of San Juan from threats of vandalism.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qodygTkTUYM&amp;feature=youtu.be">Feminists disrupt a forum for battered men</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.glennsacks.com/enewsletters/enews_11_28_06.htm">Feminists fought a law for equal custody to be the default if both parents want custody and neither parent is unfit.</a> <a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20070708213232/http://michnow.org/jointcustody507.htm">Multiple times.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.now.org/nnt/03-97/father.html">Feminists started a campaign against Father’s rights groups</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-10760239">Feminists fought against laws granting men anonymity until charged with the crime of rape—not convicted, just charged.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-13666066">Feminists fought against a law to end to the justice system favoring women simply because they are women, and giving men harsher sentences simply because they are men.</a></li> <li><a href="http://i.imgur.com/aob5k.jpg">Feminist fought against men want equal treatment when victims of domestic violence, and to not be arrested for the crime of “being male” under primary aggressor policies.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.firstpost.com/india/rape-law-amendment-where-are-the-cases-of-sexual-violence-against-men-384227.html">Feminists in India and Israel fought against female</a><a href="http://www.jpost.com/Israel/Womens-groups-Cancel-law-charging-women-with-rape"> rapists being arrested, charged and convicted of rape.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/016/659dkrod.asp#">Feminists fought against a economic stimulus for male-dominated job such as construction, etc</a>.<br/></li> <li><a href="http://www.legislature.mi.gov/documents/2011-2012/billanalysis/house/htm/2011-HLA-5328-3.HTM">Feminist fought a law against Paternity Fraud.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/harman-defends-positive-discrimination-plans-854475.html">Feminist Harriet Harman has publicly requested employers to hire women in preference to White men if both job candidates are equally</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/female-champion-hewitt-discriminated-against-man-510584.html%20">Equality Minister,feminist Patricia Hewitt, was found guilty of breaching the Sex Discrimination Act by “overlooking a strong male candidate for a job in favour of a weaker female applicant”</a>.</li> <li><a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/europe/article5679378.ece">Elected in 2009, the lesbian feminist prime minister Johanna Sigurdardottir has vowed to “end of the Age of Testosterone</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/13/sweden-left-party-toilet-stand_n_1590572.html">Feminists want to peeing while standing illegal</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.fathersforlife.org/pizzey/failfamt.htm">Erin Pizzey had to flee the UK because she and her family received death threats and her dog murdered all because feminists didn’t like that she discovered women were equally as violent as men.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.ifeminists.net/introduction/editorials/2005/0525roberts.html">Also Suzanne Steinmetz and her children received death threats and bomb threats she discovered that the rate at which men were victimized by domestic violence was similar to the rate for women.</a></li> <li><a href="http://breakingthescience.org/RichardGelles_MissingPersonsOfDV.php">Richard Gelles and Murray Straus have all received death threats from feminists, simply for publishing their findings (that female-to-male family violence</a> <a href="http://www.ejfi.org/DV/dv-7.htm">was equal to the rate of male-to-female violence).</a></li> <li> </li> <li><a href="http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2009/nov/29/barbara-ellen-madeleine-martin-comment">Feminists defend female raping minor.</a></li> <li><a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/81918411593/you-do-realize-that-8-year-olds-cannot-give-any-kind-of">Feminist defends why fucking an 8 year old boy isn’t rape.</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPtiO8HG0MA">Most feminists backed studies are bullshit.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/stephen-henrick/reform-college-sexual-assault-policy_b_2885773.html">Beyond reasonable doubt doesn’t apply to rape.</a>For men only</li> <li><a href="https://nationalparentsorganization.org/blog/20403-what-happens-when-a-feminist-s-son-is-accused-of-rape">Feminist changes mind on rape culture when her son is falsely accused.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.saveservices.org/pdf/SAVE-VAWA-Discriminates-Against-Males.pdf">Feminists primary aggressor clause discriminates against males.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">Feminists cover up female domestic abuse stats.</a></li> <li><a href="http://jezebel.com/294383/have-you-ever-beat-up-a-boyfriend-cause-uh-we-have">Jezebel mocks men who are abused.</a></li> <li><a href="http://anescapedconviction.tumblr.com/post/82950097707/imminentdeathsyndrome-read-the-full-paper-here">Feminists make sure the gov doesn’t spend money on male shelters or male research.</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">Feminists prevent a meeting about male suicide.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.whyileftsweden.com/?p=311">Feminists stage mock murders to scare men. </a></li> <li><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valerie_Solanas#The_shooting">Feminist attacks male cartoonist and is hailed a hero of feminism.</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qodygTkTUYM">Feminists shut down forum for battered husbands.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.now.org/nnt/03-97/father.html">Propaganda campaign against male fathers wanting custody.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-10760239">Feminists wish to slander accused names before convicted. </a></li> <li><a href="http://www.standard.co.uk/news/womens-prisons-should-all-close-within-a-decade-7240659.html">Try to shut down female prisons.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.firstpost.com/india/rape-law-amendment-where-are-the-cases-of-sexual-violence-against-men-384227.html">Create rape laws that exclude female rapists.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.jpost.com/Israel/Womens-groups-Cancel-law-charging-women-with-rape">Make it impossible to charge women with rape.</a></li> <li><a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20070708213232/http://michnow.org/jointcustody507.htm">Feminists against equal custody.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/molloy-program-moms-serve-sentences-home-article-1.1337817">Female felons should serve home sentences.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/7995844/Judges-told-be-more-lenient-to-women-criminals.html">Told judges to be lenient on women.</a></li> <li><a href="http://pubpages.unh.edu/%7Emas2/V74-gender-symmetry-with-gramham-Kevan-Method%208-.pdf">Feminists cover up female domestic violence.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/016/659dkrod.asp">Feminists don’t want the gov to help unemployed men.</a></li> <li><a href="http://douchebagdork.tumblr.com/post/83373265311/bastardlybrendan-sjhetalia">Feminists launch campaigns to help girls only while boys are doing worse in every facet of education.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.ageofconsent.com/comments/numberthirtysix.htm">Males who were raped as a child still have to pay child support.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2006/03/19/national/19fathers.html?pagewanted=all&amp;_r=2&amp;">Women should have the right to put a child up for adoption before the father gets custody</a>.</li> <li><a href="http://studentactivism.net/2011/07/21/preponderance-of-the-evidence/">Feminists against beyond reasonable doubt when it’s male rapists.</a></li> <li><a href="http://judgybitch.com/2014/01/22/five-rights-feminism-delivered-for-women-but-doesnt-want-to-share-with-anyone-else/">5 rights feminism ignores for men.</a></li> <li><a href="http://i.imgur.com/aob5k.jpg">Feminists blame males for their abuse.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">The primary aggressor clause where only men get charged with abuse.</a></li> <li><a href="http://the-white-feather-movement-worldwarone.wikispaces.com/">Shame men into going to war.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.genderratic.com/p/4207/its-shit-like-this-feminist-professor-apparently-argues-child-sexual-abuse-does-not-exist/">Feminists dismiss female child rapists.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.aifs.gov.au/acssa/docs/costello.pdf">Feminists say men can’t talk about domestic abuse.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/is0af/send_complaint_to_cbs_against_the_talk_hosts_for/">Feminists mock a man who has his dick cut off.</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOCD_T9Qqpc">feminists attack church.</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.vice.com/read/what-happens-when-a-mens-rights-music-festival-comes-to-town-it-gets-cancelled?utm_source=vicetwitterus">Feminists shut down a festival about gender equality for including men.</a></li> <li><a href="http://feminismisimportantlove.tumblr.com/post/87789053818/i-hope-someone-bombs-that-hotel-where-the-mras-are">Feminists hope MRA’s die.</a></li> <li><a href="http://ectoplasmrainbow.tumblr.com/post/88669763984/colorsofsocialjustice-rtrixie-d1reese">Feminists against fathers day.</a></li> <li><a href="http://judy-judy-bo-booty.tumblr.com/post/87286381692/socialjusticefail-archmasterjazzy">Feminist makes up fake assault stories. </a></li> <li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MEYDUnwmG4U">Female reporter bullied by feminists at the National Young Feminist Leadership Conference</a></li> </ul><p><a href="http://www.hindustantimes.com/India-news/NewDelhi/only-men-can-be-booked-for-rape/Article1-1021702.aspx">Feminists say Men can’t be raped. </a></p></blockquote> <p>Oh snap.</p></blockquote> <p>&ldquo;WHY DO PEOPLE THINK FEMINISTS HATE MEN?!?!&rdquo; tweeted the feminist with misandry in her user name, multiple reblogs of male tears gifs, a male tears mug and a misandry tattoo inbetween posts about how male rape victims aren’t really rape victims and how male victims of domestic violence are not only liars but likely abusers of women themselves </p></blockquote> <a href="http://tmblr.co/m-JDP5eEv5VZzPumG0KtqVw" class="tumblelog">vidovnjak</a> here’s a masterpost. Use at your discretion</blockquote> <p>Use its powers only for good.</p></blockquote>
Domestic Violence: Misogynist
 Misandrist
 Feminist
<p><a href="http://conservativeveteranpatriot.tumblr.com/post/109654168599/punk-con-poppypicklesticks" class="tumblr_blog">conservativeveteranpatriot</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a href="http://punk-con.tumblr.com/post/109593071552/poppypicklesticks-magnificent-oreo-otter" class="tumblr_blog">punk-con</a>:</p><blockquote><p><a href="http://poppypicklesticks.tumblr.com/post/109576138889/magnificent-oreo-otter" class="tumblr_blog">poppypicklesticks</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a href="http://magnificent-oreo-otter.tumblr.com/post/109576026565/anti-feminism-pro-equality" class="tumblr_blog">magnificent-oreo-otter</a>:</p><blockquote><p><a href="http://anti-feminism-pro-equality.tumblr.com/post/109526176176/dil-howlters-uncreative-username-why-is-this-so" class="tumblr_blog">anti-feminism-pro-equality</a>:</p><blockquote><p><a href="http://dil-howlters-uncreative-username.tumblr.com/post/109122323707/why-is-this-so-hard-to-understand" class="tumblr_blog">dil-howlters-uncreative-username</a>:</p><blockquote>
<p>WHY IS THIS SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND</p>
</blockquote>

<p>Probably because feminists arent doing anything to promote equality, but rather, misandry. <br/></p><p>Father’s rights group want shared parenting (equal custody) to be the default if both parents want custody and neither parent is unfit. They 
feel that men should not be punished for being men, and that women 
should not be awarded custody to their kids simply for being women. 
Currently women are awarded primary custody almost all the time, even if
 the husband was the stay-at-home Dad and the woman was the breadwinner.</p><p>Feminists <a href="http://www.glennsacks.com/enewsletters/enews_11_28_06.htm">fought against this</a>. You can read NOW’s own statement <a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20070708213232/http://michnow.org/jointcustody507.htm">here</a>. Also note their usage of anti-male lies, i.e. “<a href="http://www.now.org/nnt/03-97/father.html">fathers are abusive, don’t give them custody</a>.” That is from 1997, but still remains valid today.</p><p>Men want protection against false rape allegations. They feel that a 
man’s life should not be ruined simply on the allegation of a woman who 
may be a vindictive liar. Currently, a woman can accuse a man of rape 
for no reason, and the man’s name is splashed in the paper and his life 
is ruined. So, they fought for laws granting men anonymity until charged
 with the crime of rape—not convicted, just charged.</p><p>Feminists <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-10760239">fought against this</a>, causing it to fail. Also see <a href="http://londonfeministnetwork.org.uk/what-weve-done/letter-writing-campaigns/we-object-to-plans-to-grant-anonymity-to-rape-defendants">here</a>, the London Feminist Network campaigning to defeat the proposal.</p><p>“The London Feminist Network is a campaigning organisation uniting London based feminist groups and individuals in activism.”</p><p>Men want an end to the justice system favouring women simply because 
they are women, and giving men harsher sentences simply because they are
 men.</p><p>Feminists <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-13666066">fought against this</a>, arguing that no woman should be sent to jail, <a href="http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/news/article-23388859-womens-prisons-should-all-close-within-a-decade.do">even women who had murdered multiple people</a>.</p><p>Men want equal treatment when victims of domestic violence, and to 
not be arrested for the crime of “being male” under primary aggressor 
policies.</p><p>Feminists <a href="http://pubpages.unh.edu/%7Emas2/V74-gender-symmetry-with-gramham-Kevan-Method%208-.pdf">fought against this</a> by
 trying to suppress evidence showing that half of domestic violence is 
done by women, by threatening the researchers with bomb threats, death 
threats, etc. Modern, younger feminists <a href="http://i.imgur.com/aob5k.jpg">are doing it as well</a>.</p><p>And sadly, they were successful in this effort of propaganda. For 
decades, and continuing today, violent men are (rightfully) convicted 
and punished by the state, while violent women are left to freely 
terrorize and harm their partners.</p><p><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">The
 feminist definition of domestic violence has skewed arrest and 
prosecution philosophies, resulting primarily in having only male 
batterers criminally pursued.</a></p><p>Men want female rapists to be arrested, charged, and convicted with 
rape. In Western countries, women are rarely punished when raping men, 
due to the biased legal system. In some countries, women cannot be punished when raping men, since rape is defined as a male-perpetrated crime.</p><p>Feminists fought against this in <a href="http://www.firstpost.com/india/rape-law-amendment-where-are-the-cases-of-sexual-violence-against-men-384227.html">India</a>, arguing that “there is a physicality [in] rape” and that it would make things “more complicated for judges.”</p><p>Feminists fought against this in <a href="http://www.jpost.com/Israel/Article.aspx?id=169522">Israel</a>, claiming that changing the law would result in men filing false rape claims.</p><p>Men don’t want to be thrown in jail because they lost their jobs and temporarily cannot pay child support.</p><p>Feminists fought against this, <a href="http://rinow.org/legislative-agenda/2011-legislative-agenda-draft-as-of-21411/">trying to lower the amount to $5000</a> before
 a man is guilty of a felony for not paying child support. If a man 
loses a decent-paying job, he will now be a felon, go to jail, lose his 
right to vote, AND be unable to find future jobs—if he cannot regain an 
equal-paying job within a few months.</p><p>Men want equal economic support and help from the government. When 
the recession hit, male-dominated fields like construction lost millions
 of jobs, while female-fields like education and healthcare gained jobs.
 So the government proposed an economic stimulus for those fields.</p><p><a href="http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/016/659dkrod.asp">Feminists
 successfully fought against this, arguing that it was discrimination to
 support men, and caused the government to give money to women who 
didn’t deserve it.</a> Hundreds of professional 
feminists complained against the “sexism” of helping men (who had lost 
jobs) and not women (who had gained jobs).</p><p><a href="http://www.legislature.mi.gov/documents/2011-2012/billanalysis/house/htm/2011-HLA-5328-3.HTM">A representative of the Michigan National Organization for Women testified in opposition to the Revocation of Paternity Act</a>,
 which stopped the old law which stated that if a woman was married and 
cheated on her husband, the resulting child is considered to be legally 
the husband’s and the biological father had no legal rights to fight for
 custody or parenting time with his biological child.</p><p>As you can see, the claim that feminism fight for men’s rights is a 
blatant lie. Don’t believe any feminists that say that. Feminists fight 
for women’s rights. That is a good thing. Feminists also are happy to 
harm men’s rights, as shown above. That is a bad thing. Feminism is 
about female privilege, not equality.</p><p>Some may argue that these cases of feminists harming men is not 
“representative” of feminism. I ask you: Are there any cases of 
feminists helping men? No. Yet, there are many cases of feminists 
harming men.</p><p>It is reasonable to conclude from these facts that feminism fights to harm men.</p><p>This info is from <a href="http://draumbouy.tumblr.com/post/90722993234/why-are-you-so-anti-feminism-if-you-dont-support-it">draumbouy</a></p><p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erin_Pizzey">Feminists threaten to kill woman for saying men need abuse shelters.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">Feminists prevent a meeting about male suicide.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.whyileftsweden.com/?p=311">Feminists stage mock murders to scare men. </a></p><p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valerie_Solanas#The_shooting">Feminist attacks male cartoonist and is hailed a hero of feminism.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qodygTkTUYM">Feminists shut down forum for battered husbands.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.now.org/nnt/03-97/father.html">Propaganda campaign against male fathers wanting custody.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-10760239">Feminists wish to slander accused names before convicted. </a></p><p><a href="http://www.standard.co.uk/news/womens-prisons-should-all-close-within-a-decade-7240659.html">Try to shut down female prisons.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.firstpost.com/india/rape-law-amendment-where-are-the-cases-of-sexual-violence-against-men-384227.html">Create rape laws that exclude female rapists.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.jpost.com/Israel/Womens-groups-Cancel-law-charging-women-with-rape">Make it impossible to charge women with rape.</a></p><p><a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20070708213232/http://michnow.org/jointcustody507.htm">Feminists against equal custody.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/molloy-program-moms-serve-sentences-home-article-1.1337817">Female felons should serve home sentences.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/7995844/Judges-told-be-more-lenient-to-women-criminals.html">Told judges to be lenient on women.</a></p><p><a href="http://pubpages.unh.edu/%7Emas2/V74-gender-symmetry-with-gramham-Kevan-Method%208-.pdf">Feminists cover up female domestic violence.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/016/659dkrod.asp">Feminists don’t want the gov to help unemployed men.</a></p><p><a href="http://douchebagdork.tumblr.com/post/83373265311/bastardlybrendan-sjhetalia">Feminists launch campaigns to help girls only while boys are doing worse in every facet of education.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.ageofconsent.com/comments/numberthirtysix.htm">Males who were raped as a child still have to pay child support.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2006/03/19/national/19fathers.html?pagewanted=all&amp;_r=2&amp;">Women should have the right to put a child up for adoption before the father gets custody</a>.</p><p><a href="http://studentactivism.net/2011/07/21/preponderance-of-the-evidence/">Feminists against beyond reasonable doubt when it’s male rapists.</a></p><p><a href="http://judgybitch.com/2014/01/22/five-rights-feminism-delivered-for-women-but-doesnt-want-to-share-with-anyone-else/">5 rights feminism ignores for men.</a></p><p><a href="http://i.imgur.com/aob5k.jpg">Feminists blame males for their abuse.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">The primary aggressor clause where only men get charged with abuse.</a></p><p><a href="http://the-white-feather-movement-worldwarone.wikispaces.com/">Shame men into going to war.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.genderratic.com/p/4207/its-shit-like-this-feminist-professor-apparently-argues-child-sexual-abuse-does-not-exist/">Feminists dismiss female child rapists.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.aifs.gov.au/acssa/docs/costello.pdf">Feminists say men can’t talk about domestic abuse.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/is0af/send_complaint_to_cbs_against_the_talk_hosts_for/">Feminists mock a man who has his dick cut off.</a></p><p><a href="http://imminentdeathsyndrome.tumblr.com/post/79183377644/in-another-awkward-and-humorless-moment-in-snl">Strawmanning MRA members.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOCD_T9Qqpc">feminists attack church.</a></p><p><a href="http://eliminativism.tumblr.com/post/79347088777/valeriekeefe-the-feminist-fangirl-i-care">Feminists transphobia</a></p><p><a href="http://imminentdeathsyndrome.tumblr.com/post/79183377644/in-another-awkward-and-humorless-moment-in-snl">Feminists slander the MRM</a></p><p><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/anne-theriault-/mens-rights-movement_b_5049999.html">Again, </a></p><p><a href="http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/05/24/1301671/-Elliot-Roger-Gunman-in-California-Mass-Shooting-was-influenced-by-the-Men-s-Rights-Movement">And again, </a></p><p><a href="https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/classify-mens-rights-movement-terrorist-group/W5018W63">Call them terrorists.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.hindustantimes.com/India-news/NewDelhi/only-men-can-be-booked-for-rape/Article1-1021702.aspx">Feminists say Men can’t be raped. </a></p><p><a href="http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2009/nov/29/barbara-ellen-madeleine-martin-comment">Feminists defend female raping minor.</a></p><p><a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/81918411593/you-do-realize-that-8-year-olds-cannot-give-any-kind-of">Feminist defends why fucking an 8 year old boy isn’t rape.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.saveservices.org/pdf/SAVE-VAWA-Discriminates-Against-Males.pdf">Feminists primary aggressor clause discriminates against males.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">Feminists cover up female domestic abuse stats.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlHVANXh-yg">Woman smashing bottle in mans face in public. Nobody gives a fuck.</a></p><p><a href="http://jezebel.com/294383/have-you-ever-beat-up-a-boyfriend-cause-uh-we-have">Jezebel mocks men who are abused.</a></p><p><a href="http://anescapedconviction.tumblr.com/post/82950097707/imminentdeathsyndrome-read-the-full-paper-here">Feminists make sure the gov doesn’t spend money on male shelters or male research.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlFAd4YdQks">Female on male abuse in public is at best ignored, and at worst celebrated.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u3PgH86OyEM">Public stops a man from abusing a woman in public, same crowd laughs when the roles are reversed. </a></p><p><a href="https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/geo-safe-house">No funding for male shelter. </a></p><p><a href="http://news.nationalpost.com/2013/04/28/earl-silverman-who-ran-mens-safe-house-dies-in-apparent-suicide/">Founder of Canadas only male shelter for abuse forced to close due to lack of funding before committing suicide. </a></p><p>Violent crimes? Only a few examples. One of which is their violent protest against Warren Farrell when he spoke in Toronto: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0</a></p><p>Another would be this mob of pro-abortion Feminists in Argentina: <a href="http://www.lifesitenews.com/horror-mob-of-topless-pro-abort-feminists-attacks-rosary-praying-men-defend.html">http://www.lifesitenews.com/horror-mob-of-topless-pro-abort-feminists-attacks-rosary-praying-men-defend.html</a></p><p>Feminists disrupt a forum for battered men: <a href="http://youtu.be/qodygTkTUYM">http://youtu.be/qodygTkTUYM</a></p><p>Tumblr users sarah-bunny and feminism-is-your-friend harass and DOXX an Asexual rape victim: <a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/78589971327/abbeyxmae-serebrii">http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/78589971327/abbeyxmae-serebrii</a></p><p>Tumblr user manhatingfeminist tells a user to kill themselves: <a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/78734991790/you-need-to-kill-yourself-lol">http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/78734991790/you-need-to-kill-yourself-lol</a></p><p>Tumblr user musemorplsunerd defends a woman who raped an 8 year old boy: <a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/81918411593/you-do-realize-that-8-year-olds-cannot-give-any-kind-of">http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/81918411593/you-do-realize-that-8-year-olds-cannot-give-any-kind-of</a></p><p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erin_Pizzey#Overview">Feminists threaten to kill woman for saying men need abuse shelters.</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">Feminists prevent a meeting about male suicide.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.whyileftsweden.com/?p=311">Feminists stage mock murders to scare men. </a></p><p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valerie_Solanas#The_shooting">Feminist attacks male cartoonist and is hailed a hero of feminism.</a></p><p><a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/71296384847/oratorasaurus-lzbth-im-not-a-feminist">many feminist leaders were borderline genercidal</a>.
 In fact Valerie Solanas, who helped to shape modern patriarchy theory, 
and who’s writing is still taught today in womens studies classes, not 
only attempted to assassinate Andy Warhol, <a href="http://www.feministpress.org/books/breanne-fahs/valerie-solanas">but also wrote a book called the S.C.U.M. Manifesto (or feminist Mein Kompf), which was about gendercide, and she is still hailed as a feminist hero to this day.</a> this
 book is still used in womens studies classes despite the fact that it 
proposes reducing the male population to 10% and using them for breeding
 purposes.</p><p><a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/73394892179/just-to-let-them-know-lets-hear-those-rights-men-dont">men actually have less rights than women.</a> men are also demonized as rapists due to unequal rape laws that favor women. <a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/71294252715/40-of-rapists-are-women-yes-get-over-it">when
 you analyze the situation you’ll find that women rape almost as often 
as men (about 40% of rapists are women) and men are raped just as often 
if not more than women</a>.</p><p>In 2008, a law was passed in England and Wales that allowed long-term
 domestic violence victims who killed their abuser to be charged with 
the lesser charge of manslaughter, but this only applies to women. </p><p>In California and Montana, a woman can name any man she likes as the father, he gets a letter in the mail, if he does not prove he isn’t the father within 30 days he is now the father and must pay. He cannot contest it. And DNA tests to prove paternity are not considered proof by the courts.</p><p>Women who falsely accuse a man of rape, who would be sent to 
prison for 10+ years if convicted, only gets fined or a slap on the 
wrist.</p><p>There is also the gender bias in the Probation Departments:</p><p>A higher score on the Probation Assessment Tool (PAT) means a 
recommendation that could lead to eventual dismissal of charges. A lower
 score means probation or lockup, not to mention the juvenile delinquent
 tag. [Judge] Hunt claims PAT routinely rewards girls with 14 extra points for gender alone, while boys get 0. </p><p>Then there are studies that show women who fail to pay child support are incarcerated only 1/8th as often as men with similar violations.</p><p><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">The
 feminist definition of domestic violence has skewed arrest and 
prosecution philosophies, resulting in having mostly male batterers 
criminally pursued, and female batterers left alone.</a></p><p><a href="http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2011-04-01/duke-lacrosse-players-suit-over-false-rape-claim-may-proceed-judge-says.html">Men
 who are falsely accused of rape can have their names published and 
their lives ruined even if they are not convicted or charged - their 
accuser is protected and is likely to face no punishment, or a light 
one.</a></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">Feminists skewed the Definition of Domestic Abuse, resulting in only male abusers being arrested and female abusers not.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.dvmen.org/dv-55.htm#femfoolish">Feminists’s DV training hurts Police training</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.genderratic.com/p/2551/male-privilege-defining-male-victims-out-of-existence/">Feminist Mary</a> <a href="http://www.leaderu.com/real/ri9502/sommers.html">Koss denies male</a> <a href="http://www.feministcritics.org/blog/2008/02/29/has-anyone-here-besides-me-actually-read-koss-paper/">rape victims.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">Feminists violently protesting against Warren Farrell at U of Toronto</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.lifesitenews.com/horror-mob-of-topless-pro-abort-feminists-attacks-rosary-praying-men-defend.html">A
 mob of feminists at a recent protest attacking and sexually molesting a
 group of Rosary-praying Catholic men who were peacefully protecting the
 cathedral in the city of San Juan from threats of vandalism.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qodygTkTUYM&amp;feature=youtu.be">Feminists disrupt a forum for battered men</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.glennsacks.com/enewsletters/enews_11_28_06.htm">Feminists fought a law for equal custody to be the default if both parents want custody and neither parent is unfit.</a> <a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20070708213232/http://michnow.org/jointcustody507.htm">Multiple times.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.now.org/nnt/03-97/father.html">Feminists started a campaign against Father’s rights groups</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-10760239">Feminists fought against laws granting men anonymity until charged with the crime of rape—not convicted, just charged.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-13666066">Feminists fought 
against a law to end to the justice system favoring women simply because
 they are women, and giving men harsher sentences simply because they 
are men.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://i.imgur.com/aob5k.jpg">Feminist fought against men 
want equal treatment when victims of domestic violence, and to not be 
arrested for the crime of “being male” under primary aggressor policies.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.firstpost.com/india/rape-law-amendment-where-are-the-cases-of-sexual-violence-against-men-384227.html">Feminists in India and Israel fought against female</a><a href="http://www.jpost.com/Israel/Womens-groups-Cancel-law-charging-women-with-rape"> rapists being arrested, charged and convicted of rape.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/016/659dkrod.asp#">Feminists fought against a economic stimulus for male-dominated job such as construction, etc</a>.<br/></li>
<li><a href="http://www.legislature.mi.gov/documents/2011-2012/billanalysis/house/htm/2011-HLA-5328-3.HTM">Feminist fought a law against  Paternity Fraud.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/harman-defends-positive-discrimination-plans-854475.html">Feminist
 Harriet Harman has publicly requested employers to hire women in 
preference to White men if both job candidates are equally</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/female-champion-hewitt-discriminated-against-man-510584.html%20">Equality
 Minister,feminist Patricia Hewitt, was found guilty of breaching the 
Sex Discrimination Act by “overlooking a strong male candidate for a job
 in favour of a weaker female applicant”</a>.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/europe/article5679378.ece">Elected in 2009, the lesbian feminist prime minister Johanna Sigurdardottir has vowed to “end of the Age of Testosterone</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/13/sweden-left-party-toilet-stand_n_1590572.html">Feminists want to peeing while standing illegal</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.fathersforlife.org/pizzey/failfamt.htm">Erin 
Pizzey had to flee the UK because she and her family received death 
threats and her dog murdered all because feminists didn’t like that she 
discovered women were equally as violent as men.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.ifeminists.net/introduction/editorials/2005/0525roberts.html">Also
 Suzanne Steinmetz and her children received death threats and bomb 
threats she discovered that  the rate at which men were victimized by 
domestic violence was similar to the rate for women.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://breakingthescience.org/RichardGelles_MissingPersonsOfDV.php">Richard
 Gelles and Murray Straus  have all received death threats from 
feminists, simply for publishing their findings (that female-to-male 
family violence</a> <a href="http://www.ejfi.org/DV/dv-7.htm">was equal to the rate of male-to-female violence).</a></li>
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<li><a href="http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2009/nov/29/barbara-ellen-madeleine-martin-comment">Feminists defend female raping minor.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/81918411593/you-do-realize-that-8-year-olds-cannot-give-any-kind-of">Feminist defends why fucking an 8 year old boy isn’t rape.</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPtiO8HG0MA">Most feminists backed studies are bullshit.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/stephen-henrick/reform-college-sexual-assault-policy_b_2885773.html">Beyond reasonable doubt doesn’t apply to rape.</a>For men only</li>
<li><a href="https://nationalparentsorganization.org/blog/20403-what-happens-when-a-feminist-s-son-is-accused-of-rape">Feminist changes mind on rape culture when her son is falsely accused.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.saveservices.org/pdf/SAVE-VAWA-Discriminates-Against-Males.pdf">Feminists primary aggressor clause discriminates against males.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">Feminists cover up female domestic abuse stats.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://jezebel.com/294383/have-you-ever-beat-up-a-boyfriend-cause-uh-we-have">Jezebel mocks men who are abused.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://anescapedconviction.tumblr.com/post/82950097707/imminentdeathsyndrome-read-the-full-paper-here">Feminists make sure the gov doesn’t spend money on male shelters or male research.</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0">Feminists prevent a meeting about male suicide.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.whyileftsweden.com/?p=311">Feminists stage mock murders to scare men. </a></li>
<li><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valerie_Solanas#The_shooting">Feminist attacks male cartoonist and is hailed a hero of feminism.</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qodygTkTUYM">Feminists shut down forum for battered husbands.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.now.org/nnt/03-97/father.html">Propaganda campaign against male fathers wanting custody.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-10760239">Feminists wish to slander accused names before convicted. </a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.standard.co.uk/news/womens-prisons-should-all-close-within-a-decade-7240659.html">Try to shut down female prisons.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.firstpost.com/india/rape-law-amendment-where-are-the-cases-of-sexual-violence-against-men-384227.html">Create rape laws that exclude female rapists.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.jpost.com/Israel/Womens-groups-Cancel-law-charging-women-with-rape">Make it impossible to charge women with rape.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20070708213232/http://michnow.org/jointcustody507.htm">Feminists against equal custody.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/molloy-program-moms-serve-sentences-home-article-1.1337817">Female felons should serve home sentences.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/7995844/Judges-told-be-more-lenient-to-women-criminals.html">Told judges to be lenient on women.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://pubpages.unh.edu/%7Emas2/V74-gender-symmetry-with-gramham-Kevan-Method%208-.pdf">Feminists cover up female domestic violence.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/016/659dkrod.asp">Feminists don’t want the gov to help unemployed men.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://douchebagdork.tumblr.com/post/83373265311/bastardlybrendan-sjhetalia">Feminists launch campaigns to help girls only while boys are doing worse in every facet of education.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.ageofconsent.com/comments/numberthirtysix.htm">Males who were raped as a child still have to pay child support.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2006/03/19/national/19fathers.html?pagewanted=all&amp;_r=2&amp;">Women should have the right to put a child up for adoption before the father gets custody</a>.</li>
<li><a href="http://studentactivism.net/2011/07/21/preponderance-of-the-evidence/">Feminists against beyond reasonable doubt when it’s male rapists.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://judgybitch.com/2014/01/22/five-rights-feminism-delivered-for-women-but-doesnt-want-to-share-with-anyone-else/">5 rights feminism ignores for men.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://i.imgur.com/aob5k.jpg">Feminists blame males for their abuse.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.law.fsu.edu/journals/lawreview/downloads/304/kelly.pdf">The primary aggressor clause where only men get charged with abuse.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://the-white-feather-movement-worldwarone.wikispaces.com/">Shame men into going to war.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.genderratic.com/p/4207/its-shit-like-this-feminist-professor-apparently-argues-child-sexual-abuse-does-not-exist/">Feminists dismiss female child rapists.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.aifs.gov.au/acssa/docs/costello.pdf">Feminists say men can’t talk about domestic abuse.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/is0af/send_complaint_to_cbs_against_the_talk_hosts_for/">Feminists mock a man who has his dick cut off.</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOCD_T9Qqpc">feminists attack church.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.vice.com/read/what-happens-when-a-mens-rights-music-festival-comes-to-town-it-gets-cancelled?utm_source=vicetwitterus">Feminists shut down a festival about gender equality for including men.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://feminismisimportantlove.tumblr.com/post/87789053818/i-hope-someone-bombs-that-hotel-where-the-mras-are">Feminists hope MRA’s die.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://ectoplasmrainbow.tumblr.com/post/88669763984/colorsofsocialjustice-rtrixie-d1reese">Feminists against fathers day.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://judy-judy-bo-booty.tumblr.com/post/87286381692/socialjusticefail-archmasterjazzy">Feminist makes up fake assault stories. </a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MEYDUnwmG4U">Female reporter bullied by feminists at the National Young Feminist Leadership Conference</a></li>
</ul><p><a href="http://www.hindustantimes.com/India-news/NewDelhi/only-men-can-be-booked-for-rape/Article1-1021702.aspx">Feminists say Men can’t be raped. </a></p></blockquote>

<p>Oh snap.</p></blockquote>

<p>&ldquo;WHY DO PEOPLE THINK FEMINISTS HATE MEN?!?!&rdquo; tweeted the feminist with misandry in her user name, multiple reblogs of male tears gifs, a male tears mug and a misandry tattoo inbetween posts about how male rape victims aren’t really rape victims and how male victims of domestic violence are not only liars but likely abusers of women themselves </p></blockquote>

<a href="http://tmblr.co/m-JDP5eEv5VZzPumG0KtqVw" class="tumblelog">vidovnjak</a> here’s a masterpost. Use at your discretion</blockquote>

<p>Use its powers only for good.</p></blockquote>

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Domestic Violence: He takes me shopping then takes my money He takes me to the doctor then denies me medication He helps me to bed then rapes me He tells me he loves me and that no-one else would Disabled women and domestic violence – it's time to take action Leaving an abusive relationship is difficult enough – it's even harder if you are a disabled woman – especially your abuser is also your carer. There is help and support available: Go to www.womensaid.org.uk for the Women's Aid Survivor's Handbook, available in || languages and audio version, as well as the UK Domestic if Abuse Directory. women's aid www.womensaid.org.uk/disability until women & children are safe www.womensaid.org.uk Published by Women's Aid Federation of England 2009. Registered Charity No: 1054154. VAT Registration No: 850 5437 31. Freephone 24 Hour National Domestic Violence Helpline 0808 2000 247 Run in partnership between Women's Aid and Refuge. "People pity him because he is taking care of you... people are reluctant to criticise this saint or to think he could be doing these terrible things." Disabled survivor of domestic violence Disabled women and domestic violence – it's time to take action Leaving an abusive relationship is difficult enough – it's even harder if you are a disabled woman – especially if your abuser is also your carer. There is help and support available: Go to www.womensaid.org.uk for the Women's Aid Survivor's Handbook, available in || languages and audio version, as well as the UK Domestic Abuse Directory. women's aid www.womensaid.org.uk/disability until women & children are safe www.womensaid.org.uk Published by Women's Aid Federation of England 2009. Registered Charity No: 1054154. VAT Registration No: 850 5437 31. Freephone 24 Hour National Domestic Violence Helpline 0808 2000 247. Run in partnership between Women's Aid and Refuge. stophatingyourbody: Disabled women and domestic violence - it’s time to take action.
Domestic Violence: He takes me shopping
 then takes my money
 He takes me to the doctor
 then denies me medication
 He helps me to bed
 then rapes me
 He tells me he loves me
 and that no-one else would
 Disabled women and domestic violence – it's time to take action
 Leaving an abusive relationship is
 difficult enough – it's even harder if
 you are a disabled woman – especially
 your abuser is also your carer.
 There is help and support available:
 Go to www.womensaid.org.uk for the Women's
 Aid Survivor's Handbook, available in || languages
 and audio version, as well as the UK Domestic
 if
 Abuse Directory.
 women's aid
 www.womensaid.org.uk/disability
 until women & children are safe
 www.womensaid.org.uk
 Published by Women's Aid Federation of England 2009. Registered Charity No: 1054154. VAT Registration No: 850 5437 31.
 Freephone 24 Hour National Domestic Violence Helpline 0808 2000 247
 Run in partnership between Women's Aid and Refuge.

 "People pity him because he is taking
 care of you... people are reluctant
 to criticise this saint or to think he
 could be doing these terrible things."
 Disabled survivor of domestic violence
 Disabled women and domestic violence – it's time to take action
 Leaving an abusive relationship is
 difficult enough – it's even harder if
 you are a disabled woman – especially
 if your abuser is also your carer.
 There is help and support available:
 Go to www.womensaid.org.uk for the Women's
 Aid Survivor's Handbook, available in || languages
 and audio version, as well as the UK Domestic
 Abuse Directory.
 women's aid
 www.womensaid.org.uk/disability
 until women & children are safe
 www.womensaid.org.uk
 Published by Women's Aid Federation of England 2009. Registered Charity No: 1054154. VAT Registration No: 850 5437 31.
 Freephone 24 Hour National Domestic Violence Helpline 0808 2000 247.
 Run in partnership between Women's Aid and Refuge.
stophatingyourbody:

Disabled women and domestic violence - it’s time to take action.

stophatingyourbody: Disabled women and domestic violence - it’s time to take action.

Domestic Violence: Zerlina Maxwell @ZerlinaMaxwell He shot his ex-girlfriend first. Like so many other shootings it starts with domestic violence 12/20/14, 6:48 PM Trudy @thetrudz Cop killer killed his GF (which will be ignored), isn't an activist (which will be ignored) & had issues w/ women (which will be ignored) 12/20/14, 6:20 PM 500 RETWEETS 265 FAVORITES Bearded Brown Man @DecolonisedSoul An idiot in the US killed 2 cops. Watch the media wrongly pin this on #BlackLivesMatter movement just as they attribute terrorism to Islam 12/20/14, 4:24 PM Wil Gafney @WilGafney The domestic violence perpetrator who targeted cops secondarily doesn't represent any protest or movement. 12/20/14, 5:45 PM <p><a href="http://hominishostilis.tumblr.com/post/105748905093/calvinsraccoon-joooooooonijoooonom-yup" class="tumblr_blog">hominishostilis</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://calvinsraccoon.tumblr.com/post/105735396946/joooooooonijoooonom-yup-was-literally-just">calvinsraccoon</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://joooooooonijoooonom.tumblr.com/post/105731606825/yup">joooooooonijoooonom</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>yup.</p> </blockquote> <p>was literally just watching an ex-nypd detective on cnn saying this is the fault of the protesters and “their voices must be silenced”<br/><br/>this is honestly a shame in general. but apart from some taking the fuck the police sentiment too far into violence and generalizing it too far this isn’t indicative of much other than sometimes people shoot other people and that’s a horrible thing, same with most murders. the blame must be purely on the individual in this case.</p> </blockquote> <p>&gt;Black kid gets shot because he tried to steal a cop’s gun</p><p>RACISM! Black lives matter!</p><p>&gt;Black guy kills white cop, specifically targets him, tweets about it before he does</p><p>NOTHING TO SEE HERE, FOLKS! Totally unrelated to the anti-white, anti-cop message being pushed by the Ferguson movement. Just another shooting, no reason to panic!</p> <p>&gt; Not a peep from the anti-gunners either. WACKY. Un-fucking-believable. </p></blockquote>
Domestic Violence: Zerlina Maxwell
 @ZerlinaMaxwell
 He shot his ex-girlfriend first. Like so
 many other shootings it starts with
 domestic violence
 12/20/14, 6:48 PM

 Trudy
 @thetrudz
 Cop killer killed his GF (which will be
 ignored), isn't an activist (which will
 be ignored) & had issues w/ women
 (which will be ignored)
 12/20/14, 6:20 PM
 500 RETWEETS 265 FAVORITES

 Bearded Brown Man
 @DecolonisedSoul
 An idiot in the US killed 2 cops.
 Watch the media wrongly pin this
 on #BlackLivesMatter movement
 just as they attribute terrorism to
 Islam
 12/20/14, 4:24 PM

 Wil Gafney
 @WilGafney
 The domestic violence perpetrator
 who targeted cops secondarily
 doesn't represent any protest or
 movement.
 12/20/14, 5:45 PM
<p><a href="http://hominishostilis.tumblr.com/post/105748905093/calvinsraccoon-joooooooonijoooonom-yup" class="tumblr_blog">hominishostilis</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://calvinsraccoon.tumblr.com/post/105735396946/joooooooonijoooonom-yup-was-literally-just">calvinsraccoon</a>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://joooooooonijoooonom.tumblr.com/post/105731606825/yup">joooooooonijoooonom</a>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>yup.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>was literally just watching an ex-nypd detective on cnn saying this is the fault of the protesters and “their voices must be silenced”<br/><br/>this is honestly a shame in general. but apart from some taking the fuck the police sentiment too far into violence and generalizing it too far this isn’t indicative of much other than sometimes people shoot other people and that’s a horrible thing, same with most murders. the blame must be purely on the individual in this case.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>&gt;Black kid gets shot because he tried to steal a cop’s gun</p><p>RACISM! Black lives matter!</p><p>&gt;Black guy kills white cop, specifically targets him, tweets about it before he does</p><p>NOTHING TO SEE HERE, FOLKS! Totally unrelated to the anti-white, anti-cop message being pushed by the Ferguson movement. Just another shooting, no reason to panic!</p>
<p>&gt; Not a peep from the anti-gunners either. WACKY.  

Un-fucking-believable. </p></blockquote>

<p><a href="http://hominishostilis.tumblr.com/post/105748905093/calvinsraccoon-joooooooonijoooonom-yup" class="tumblr_blog">hominishostil...

Domestic Violence: Fox News Blondes OF We're Clones, essentially IL IN CUTS MEANS STEEP AUTOMATIC CUTS WILL BE TRIGGERED, BE <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thecrankyconservative.tumblr.com/post/96519068190/i-am-really-sick-of-hearing-the-misogynistic">thecrankyconservative</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>I am really sick of hearing the misogynistic drivel leftists spit about Fox News and it’s female anchors and contributors. Just today I overheard a conversation between two liberals discussing how all of the women at Fox were just ‘blonde, white, bimbos’.</p> <p>You’d think feminists would have a problem with these people being classified as sexual objects undeserving of their jobs and success simply because they are women, but interestingly enough, it’s often the feminists making the comments to begin with.</p> <p>So in response, here’s a sample list of some of the women of Fox, and why they are so extraordinary.</p> <ul><li><strong>Brenda Buttner</strong> — Harvard Honours Graduate.</li> <li><strong>Uma Pemmaraju</strong> — First Indian-American woman to appear as a regular news presenter in the USA, 7-time Emmy Winner, Big Sisters of America ‘Woman of Achievement’ Award Recipient.</li> <li><strong>Gretchen Carlson —</strong> Stanford Graduate, Chamber Music Soloist</li> <li><strong>Jamie Colby</strong> — Lawyer, was admitted to University at <strong>14.</strong></li> <li><strong>Kimberly Guilfoyle —</strong> Former Assistant District Attorney, Children’s Rights Advocate.</li> <li><strong>Susan Estrich</strong> — First Female Campaign Manager of a Presidential Campaign, Lawyer, Sexual Assault Survivor and Victim’s Advocate.</li> <li><strong>Megyn Kelly —</strong> One of Time’s 100 Most Influential People, Lawyer, Former Law Review Editor.  <em>(The woman in the photo above being mocked)</em></li> <li><strong>Anna Kooiman —</strong> Ran a fitness and care instruction to financially disadvantaged inner-city kids.</li> <li><strong>Kate Obenshain</strong> — First woman to serve as Chair of the Republican Party.</li> <li><strong>Christine Clayburg</strong> — Iraq War Veteran, Air Force Pilot.</li> <li><strong>Judith Miller</strong> — Pulitzer-Prize Winning Journalist and Author, while working at the New York Times, spent 85 days in Jail to defend a reporter’s right to protect confidential sources. Received a ‘First Amendment Award’ for this effort.</li> <li><strong>Dana Perino —</strong> Former White House Press Secretary, Global Maternal Health Advocate, PTSD advocate.</li> <li><strong>Hon. Jeanine Pirro —</strong> Judge, Attorney General Candidate, Founded the first ever Domestic Violence Unit in a Prosecutor’s office.</li> <li><strong>Michelle Malkin —</strong> Earned a full scholarship to Oxford, Economist.</li> <li><strong>Kathleen McFarland —</strong> National Defense and Nuclear Weapons Specialist.</li> <li><strong>Julie Banderas —</strong> Emmy Award winning Anchor.</li> <li><strong>Maria Bartiromo</strong> — Former Professor, Founder of The National Italian American Foundation, revolutionized Economics reporting.</li> <li><strong>Jedediah Bila</strong> — Valedictorian of the Wagner College.</li> <li><strong>Shannon Bream —</strong> Lawyer, became the first female commencement speaker at Liberty University.</li> <li><strong>Linda Chavez —</strong> Hispanic Politics Pioneer, named a ‘Living Legend’ by The Library of Congress.</li> <li><strong>Jennifer Griffin</strong> — Harvard University Graduate, Cancer Survivor and Advocate.</li> <li><strong>Lea Gabrielle</strong> — Fighter Pilot, Combat-Deployed Intelligence Operator.</li> <li><strong>Greta Van Susteren</strong> — Lawyer, one of Forbe’s 100 Most Powerful Women, Multi-Award and Honorary Degree Recipient, Professor.</li> </ul><p>Like I said, this is just a sample… But it paints a picture of phenomenal women who possess beauty, brains, and morals.</p> <p>While writing this, however, I ended up looking in to some different figures on diversity in Media that proved very interesting.</p> <p>As it turns out, in terms of overall diversity, CNN and Fox are near matched in many respects, while the overtly-liberal MSNBC lagged behind in many measures, such as proportional gender representation.</p> <p>FAIR.org also weighed in on this issue, and found that the least ethnically diverse news program was in fact The Rachel Maddow Show, where 94% of the guests were white. FAIR also found that the lowest representation for women was on CNN’s OutFront where 81% of guests were men, and the highest gender representation was on Fox’s O’Reily Factor, which FAIR reports had a 64/36 gender split, but MediaMatters said was split equally. Fox also had the highest representation of Latino persons.</p> <p><img alt="Gender by network graph" border="0" src="http://mediamatters.org/static/images/diversity_report/diversity-gender-network-500.jpg" width="500"/></p> <p><img alt="Ethnicity by network graph" border="0" src="http://mediamatters.org/static/images/diversity_report/diversity-ethnicity-network-500.jpg" width="500"/>(Charts from MediaMatters) </p> <p>Oh, and for the record, yes I think there needs to be more diversity in broadcasting.</p> <p>Do I think quality should take a backseat to meeting quotas? No. </p> <p>I am all for having folks from all life experiences and perspectives participating in media — That’s the way it should be, really. But I am more than a little bit sick of people bashing good anchors and people because they feel morally and ideologically superior because they believe in those simple aforementioned principles.</p> </blockquote>
Domestic Violence: Fox News Blondes
 OF
 We're Clones, essentially
 IL IN CUTS MEANS STEEP AUTOMATIC CUTS WILL BE TRIGGERED, BE
<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thecrankyconservative.tumblr.com/post/96519068190/i-am-really-sick-of-hearing-the-misogynistic">thecrankyconservative</a>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>I am really sick of hearing the misogynistic drivel leftists spit about Fox News and it’s female anchors and contributors. Just today I overheard a conversation between two liberals discussing how all of the women at Fox were just ‘blonde, white, bimbos’.</p>
<p>You’d think feminists would have a problem with these people being classified as sexual objects undeserving of their jobs and success simply because they are women, but interestingly enough, it’s often the feminists making the comments to begin with.</p>
<p>So in response, here’s a sample list of some of the women of Fox, and why they are so extraordinary.</p>
<ul><li><strong>Brenda Buttner</strong> — Harvard Honours Graduate.</li>
<li><strong>Uma Pemmaraju</strong> — First Indian-American woman to appear as a regular news presenter in the USA, 7-time Emmy Winner, Big Sisters of America ‘Woman of Achievement’ Award Recipient.</li>
<li><strong>Gretchen Carlson —</strong> Stanford Graduate, Chamber Music Soloist</li>
<li><strong>Jamie Colby</strong> — Lawyer, was admitted to University at <strong>14.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Kimberly Guilfoyle —</strong> Former Assistant District Attorney, Children’s Rights Advocate.</li>
<li><strong>Susan Estrich</strong> — First Female Campaign Manager of a Presidential Campaign, Lawyer, Sexual Assault Survivor and Victim’s Advocate.</li>
<li><strong>Megyn Kelly —</strong> One of Time’s 100 Most Influential People, Lawyer, Former Law Review Editor.  <em>(The woman in the photo above being mocked)</em></li>
<li><strong>Anna Kooiman —</strong> Ran a fitness and care instruction to financially disadvantaged inner-city kids.</li>
<li><strong>Kate Obenshain</strong> — First woman to serve as Chair of the Republican Party.</li>
<li><strong>Christine Clayburg</strong> — Iraq War Veteran, Air Force Pilot.</li>
<li><strong>Judith Miller</strong> — Pulitzer-Prize Winning Journalist and Author, while working at the New York Times, spent 85 days in Jail to defend a reporter’s right to protect confidential sources. Received a ‘First Amendment Award’ for this effort.</li>
<li><strong>Dana Perino —</strong> Former White House Press Secretary, Global Maternal Health Advocate, PTSD advocate.</li>
<li><strong>Hon. Jeanine Pirro —</strong> Judge, Attorney General Candidate, Founded the first ever Domestic Violence Unit in a Prosecutor’s office.</li>
<li><strong>Michelle Malkin —</strong> Earned a full scholarship to Oxford, Economist.</li>
<li><strong>Kathleen McFarland —</strong> National Defense and Nuclear Weapons Specialist.</li>
<li><strong>Julie Banderas —</strong> Emmy Award winning Anchor.</li>
<li><strong>Maria Bartiromo</strong> — Former Professor, Founder of The National Italian American Foundation, revolutionized Economics reporting.</li>
<li><strong>Jedediah Bila</strong> — Valedictorian of the Wagner College.</li>
<li><strong>Shannon Bream —</strong> Lawyer, became the first female commencement speaker at Liberty University.</li>
<li><strong>Linda Chavez —</strong> Hispanic Politics Pioneer, named a ‘Living Legend’ by The Library of Congress.</li>
<li><strong>Jennifer Griffin</strong> — Harvard University Graduate, Cancer Survivor and Advocate.</li>
<li><strong>Lea Gabrielle</strong> — Fighter Pilot, Combat-Deployed Intelligence Operator.</li>
<li><strong>Greta Van Susteren</strong> — Lawyer, one of Forbe’s 100 Most Powerful Women, Multi-Award and Honorary Degree Recipient, Professor.</li>
</ul><p>Like I said, this is just a sample… But it paints a picture of phenomenal women who possess beauty, brains, and morals.</p>
<p>While writing this, however, I ended up looking in to some different figures on diversity in Media that proved very interesting.</p>
<p>As it turns out, in terms of overall diversity, CNN and Fox are near matched in many respects, while the overtly-liberal MSNBC lagged behind in many measures, such as proportional gender representation.</p>
<p>FAIR.org also weighed in on this issue, and found that the least ethnically diverse news program was in fact The Rachel Maddow Show, where 94% of the guests were white. FAIR also found that the lowest representation for women was on CNN’s OutFront where 81% of guests were men, and the highest gender representation was on Fox’s O’Reily Factor, which FAIR reports had a 64/36 gender split, but MediaMatters said was split equally. Fox also had the highest representation of Latino persons.</p>
<p><img alt="Gender by network graph" border="0" src="http://mediamatters.org/static/images/diversity_report/diversity-gender-network-500.jpg" width="500"/></p>
<p><img alt="Ethnicity by network graph" border="0" src="http://mediamatters.org/static/images/diversity_report/diversity-ethnicity-network-500.jpg" width="500"/>(Charts from MediaMatters) </p>
<p>Oh, and for the record, yes I think there needs to be more diversity in broadcasting.</p>
<p>Do I think quality should take a backseat to meeting quotas? No. </p>
<p>I am all for having folks from all life experiences and perspectives participating in media — That’s the way it should be, really. But I am more than a little bit sick of people bashing good anchors and people because they feel morally and ideologically superior because they believe in those simple aforementioned principles.</p>
</blockquote>

<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thecrankyconservative.tumblr.com/post/96519068190/i-am-really-sick-of-hearing-the-misogynistic">th...

Domestic Violence: THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BDSM AND ABUSE ABUSE BDSM COMMUNICATION ABUSE GUILT SETUP DEBRIEF AGREEMENT PLANNING EXCUSES AFTERCARESCENE/PLAY HONEYMOON BDSM Domestic Cycle Domestic Abuse Cycle Communication Both partners still downAbuse A physical or verbal form of violence and talk about what they would both like out is committed against another persor of the scene. They discuss things that are off limits and safety measures that need to be put in place to ensure both people are safe Agreement - Both partners agree to what isGuilt - The abuser becomes worried about on and off limits for the scene play/training scene - This is the time when being caught and the potential consequences partners can take part in the scene they both discussed and agreed upon Scene/Play This is the time when both partners participate in the activities that were excuses and rationalize in any way they can previously discussed and agreed uporn Aftercare - After an intense scene, both partners can be physically, mentally and emotionally drained. Cuddling and relaxing things the victim has always wanted them to within each others arms allows both partners do. This is done to ensure the victim stays in a chance to reconnect as they come down the relationship from the scene. This is a good time to drink water and eat food to replenish any spent energy Excuses - The abuser will shift blame, make to avoid taking responsibility of their actions Honeymoon The abuser becomes the perfect partner, bringing gifts and doing all the Debrief - When both partners are ready, they Planning The abuser starts feeling a loss of can sit down and discuss what they enjoyed control and begins planning ways for them to about the scene, what did not work in the scene and how they can both do to improve upon future scenes together regain control Set-up - The abuser waits for a time when their abuse can be justified BDSM VS ABUSE PLEASE DON'T HIT ME PLEASE SPANK ME What Is BDSM? What Is Abuse? The use of bodily sensations to elicit pleasureA way to cause physical, mental and/or emotional damage or harm to another person A form of consensual power exchange where It takes away another person's power both participants are empowered Before anything happens, each participant Nobody knows when or how it will happen, must negotiate and come to an agreement ad nobody every negotiates or agrees to it happening Creates excitement to see your partner Causes most people to fear and be afraid their partner Destroys any and all forms of trust Creates, relies upon and builds trust Is designed to help fulfill the desires of both Is the cruel and violent treatment of another partners within a safe environment person Opens communication and supports an No communication, and no support environment where both parties can talk freely about their thoughts and emotions Has rules, limits and boundaries that must be Abuse breaks the law! There are no rules, respected at all times. There are even safetylimits or boundaries. It shows no respect measures in place to make sure none aretowards the victim. crossed. I LOVE SERVING YOU PLEASE HELP ME! WE ALL NEED TO WORK TOGETHER TO END ABUSE THIS IS WHY PEOPLE WHO ENJOY BDSM WORK SO HARD TO ENSURE WHAT THEY DO IS NOT ABUSIVE WHEN PERFORMED BY RESPONSIBLE CONSENTING ADULTS BDSM IS NOT ABUSE BDSMTRAININGACADEMY.COM Abuse References http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm scarlettrouillard: This is really important to me.  I just got out of an abusive relationship, and I hope that no one ever has to feel like I did.
Domestic Violence: THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
 BDSM AND ABUSE
 ABUSE
 BDSM
 COMMUNICATION
 ABUSE
 GUILT
 SETUP
 DEBRIEF
 AGREEMENT
 PLANNING
 EXCUSES
 AFTERCARESCENE/PLAY
 HONEYMOON

 BDSM Domestic Cycle
 Domestic Abuse Cycle
 Communication Both partners still downAbuse A physical or verbal form of violence
 and talk about what they would both like out is committed against another persor
 of the scene. They discuss things that are off
 limits and safety measures that need to be
 put in place to ensure both people are safe
 Agreement - Both partners agree to what isGuilt - The abuser becomes worried about
 on and off limits for the scene
 play/training scene - This is the time when
 being caught and the potential consequences
 partners can take part in the scene they
 both discussed and agreed upon
 Scene/Play This is the time when both
 partners participate in the activities that were excuses and rationalize in any way they can
 previously discussed and agreed uporn
 Aftercare - After an intense scene, both
 partners can be physically, mentally and
 emotionally drained. Cuddling and relaxing things the victim has always wanted them to
 within each others arms allows both partners do. This is done to ensure the victim stays in
 a chance to reconnect as they come down the relationship
 from the scene. This is a good time to drink
 water and eat food to replenish any spent
 energy
 Excuses - The abuser will shift blame, make
 to avoid taking responsibility of their actions
 Honeymoon The abuser becomes the
 perfect partner, bringing gifts and doing all the
 Debrief - When both partners are ready, they Planning The abuser starts feeling a loss of
 can sit down and discuss what they enjoyed control and begins planning ways for them to
 about the scene, what did not work in the
 scene and how they can both do to improve
 upon future scenes together
 regain control
 Set-up - The abuser waits for a time when
 their abuse can be justified

 BDSM VS ABUSE
 PLEASE DON'T HIT ME
 PLEASE SPANK ME
 What Is BDSM?
 What Is Abuse?
 The use of bodily sensations to elicit pleasureA way to cause physical, mental and/or
 emotional damage or harm to another person
 A form of consensual power exchange where It takes away another person's power
 both participants are empowered
 Before anything happens, each participant Nobody knows when or how it will happen,
 must negotiate and come to an agreement ad nobody every negotiates or agrees to it
 happening
 Creates excitement to see your partner Causes most people to fear and be afraid
 their partner
 Destroys any and all forms of trust
 Creates, relies upon and builds trust
 Is designed to help fulfill the desires of both Is the cruel and violent treatment of another
 partners within a safe environment
 person
 Opens communication and supports an No communication, and no support
 environment where both parties can talk
 freely about their thoughts and emotions

 Has rules, limits and boundaries that must be Abuse breaks the law! There are no rules,
 respected at all times. There are even safetylimits or boundaries. It shows no respect
 measures in place to make sure none aretowards the victim.
 crossed.
 I LOVE SERVING YOU
 PLEASE HELP ME!
 WE ALL NEED TO WORK TOGETHER
 TO END ABUSE
 THIS IS WHY PEOPLE WHO ENJOY BDSM
 WORK SO HARD TO ENSURE WHAT
 THEY DO IS NOT ABUSIVE
 WHEN PERFORMED BY RESPONSIBLE CONSENTING ADULTS
 BDSM IS NOT ABUSE
 BDSMTRAININGACADEMY.COM
 Abuse References
 http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm
scarlettrouillard:

This is really important to me.  I just got out of an abusive relationship, and I hope that no one ever has to feel like I did.

scarlettrouillard: This is really important to me.  I just got out of an abusive relationship, and I hope that no one ever has to feel l...

Domestic Violence: gorgeousgirlsloveglitter: ~ SELF HARM AWARENESS ~ YOU ARE NOT ALONE! REBLOG SO YOUR FOLLOWERS KNOW WHAT TO DO AND WHO TO CONTACT IN A SELF INJURY SITUATION!  -I am self harming/someone I know is self-harming? What do I do to help myself/them and how can I contact for help?    If you are someone you know is self-harming, you need to stop(or make sure that they stop), tell a responsible and trusted adult and start seeking help from a therapist. Here is a list of hotlines that you can call: *1-800-DON’T-CUT – More info on self-injury *http://www.selfinjury.com – Referrals for therapists and tips for how to stop. *1-800-273-TALK – A 24-hour crisis hotline if you’re about to self-harm or are in an emergency situation. *To Write Love On Her Arms (http://www.TWLOHA.com) - A non-profit movement dedicated to presenting hope and finding help for people struggling with depression, addiction, self-injury, and suicide. *1-800-SUICIDE – Hotline for people contemplating suicide. *1-800-334-HELP – Self Injury Foundation’s 24-hour national crisis line. *1-800-799-SAFE – Domestic violence hotline. *1-877-332-7333 – Real Help For Teens’ help line. -How do I tell if someone is self-harming?   Read this and/or this -What is self harm?   Self-injury is the act of deliberately harming your own body, such as cutting or burning yourself.
Domestic Violence: gorgeousgirlsloveglitter:

~ SELF HARM AWARENESS ~
YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
REBLOG SO YOUR FOLLOWERS KNOW WHAT TO DO AND WHO TO CONTACT IN A SELF INJURY SITUATION! 
-I am self harming/someone I know is self-harming? What do I do to help myself/them and how can I contact for help? 
  If you are someone you know is self-harming, you need to stop(or make sure that they stop), tell a responsible and trusted adult and start seeking help from a therapist. Here is a list of hotlines that you can call:
*1-800-DON’T-CUT – More info on self-injury
*http://www.selfinjury.com – Referrals for therapists and tips for how to stop.
*1-800-273-TALK – A 24-hour crisis hotline if you’re about to self-harm or are in an emergency situation.
*To Write Love On Her Arms (http://www.TWLOHA.com) - A non-profit movement dedicated to presenting hope and finding help for people struggling with depression, addiction, self-injury, and suicide.
*1-800-SUICIDE – Hotline for people contemplating suicide.
*1-800-334-HELP – Self Injury Foundation’s 24-hour national crisis line.
*1-800-799-SAFE – Domestic violence hotline.
*1-877-332-7333 – Real Help For Teens’ help line.
-How do I tell if someone is self-harming?
  Read this and/or this
-What is self harm?
  Self-injury is the act of deliberately harming your own body, such as cutting or burning yourself.

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