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    Child Support, Community, and Fucking: Chronic Sex
 @ChronicSexChat
 Chronic Sex
 *Psst*
 Marriage equality doesn't exist
 anywhere unless disabled people can
 marry without losing their benefits
 Pass it orn
 5/21/18, 7:03 AM
actualmythicalcreature:
somecunttookmyurl:


tyse-has-unpopular-opinions:

juxtapoesition:


oistrong:
I’m all for fighting for marriage equality in the LGBT community. But we’re so focused on that no one knows about this problem.

W…wait Thats a thing????


Yep! The man I refer to as my husband? We aren’t actually married. We can’t be. 
If I married him, the government would literally expect me to care for him and be his sole source of income. He would lose all of his benefits, including SSDI. Spouses are expected to share income and that effects ALL of his benefits, even his health insurance. We simply can’t afford to be married. 
But it goes even further than that. If I were disabled, our incomes would STILL be combined, meaning BOTH of us would have our benefits cut. 
For people reviving supplemental income, their benefits can be cut anywhere from 25% of their current income all the way down to 0%
In fact, one of the stipulations of receiving income under the adult disabled child program (which provides benefits for people who were disabled before age 22) is that they LITERALLY never be married. 
I normally don’t link to blog posts as resources, but since social service resource sites like to dress this problem up and make it seem smaller than it really is, I’m gonna call it appropriate! Check it out!
https://www.advocate.com/commentary/2015/06/29/op-ed-why-no-matter-what-i-still-cant-marry-my-girlfriend
I’m upset about the situation in case you couldn’t tell. 


Disabled people in the UK do not have marriage equality.

If you so much as LIVE with a partner you lose a massive chunk of income 


Disabled Canadian chiming in - it’s the same here. I can even be kicked off disability for living with a romantic partner for longer than 6 months because then I’m considered common-law, and said partners income is deducted dollar for dollar from my benefits. Things like alimony, spousal support, and child support are also deducted dollar for dollar from my benefits - so you also get in shit for having previous relationships. If I have a roommate, they can request I PROVE that I’m not in a relationship with them by getting character references to swear it. Essentially, anyone whose unlucky enough to love me, is considered my financial caretaker. It fucking sucks. 

    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Child Support, Community, and Fucking: Chronic Sex
 @ChronicSexChat
 Chronic Sex
 *Psst*
 Marriage equality doesn't exist
 anywhere unless disabled people can
 marry without losing their benefits
 Pass it orn
 5/21/18, 7:03 AM
actualmythicalcreature:
somecunttookmyurl:


tyse-has-unpopular-opinions:

juxtapoesition:


oistrong:
I’m all for fighting for marriage equality in the LGBT community. But we’re so focused on that no one knows about this problem.

W…wait Thats a thing????


Yep! The man I refer to as my husband? We aren’t actually married. We can’t be. 
If I married him, the government would literally expect me to care for him and be his sole source of income. He would lose all of his benefits, including SSDI. Spouses are expected to share income and that effects ALL of his benefits, even his health insurance. We simply can’t afford to be married. 
But it goes even further than that. If I were disabled, our incomes would STILL be combined, meaning BOTH of us would have our benefits cut. 
For people reviving supplemental income, their benefits can be cut anywhere from 25% of their current income all the way down to 0%
In fact, one of the stipulations of receiving income under the adult disabled child program (which provides benefits for people who were disabled before age 22) is that they LITERALLY never be married. 
I normally don’t link to blog posts as resources, but since social service resource sites like to dress this problem up and make it seem smaller than it really is, I’m gonna call it appropriate! Check it out!
https://www.advocate.com/commentary/2015/06/29/op-ed-why-no-matter-what-i-still-cant-marry-my-girlfriend
I’m upset about the situation in case you couldn’t tell. 


Disabled people in the UK do not have marriage equality.

If you so much as LIVE with a partner you lose a massive chunk of income 


Disabled Canadian chiming in - it’s the same here. I can even be kicked off disability for living with a romantic partner for longer than 6 months because then I’m considered common-law, and said partners income is deducted dollar for dollar from my benefits. Things like alimony, spousal support, and child support are also deducted dollar for dollar from my benefits - so you also get in shit for having previous relationships. If I have a roommate, they can request I PROVE that I’m not in a relationship with them by getting character references to swear it. Essentially, anyone whose unlucky enough to love me, is considered my financial caretaker. It fucking sucks. 

                
            

            
            
actualmythicalcreature:
somecunttookmyurl:


tyse-has-unpopular-opinions:

juxtapoesition:


oistrong:
I’m all for fighting for marriage equ...

            
            
        

    



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            




    Gif, Life, and Target: nicky
 @tropicocunt
 me to my dentist when I have a cavity:
 are you mad at me :
 11/21/18, 2:57 PM
mynameiskleio:

digitaldancin:

realityremedy:

ellieisnotoldyet:
I’ve been reading through the notes and I just have to say that I absolutely promise, promise, promise you that nobody in the dental surgery is there to judge you, and we’re certainly not mad at you. Cavities happen. Even to dentists. You think your dentist has a mouth full of virgin teeth? Unlikely! They’ve all visited  eachother’s surgeries to get a quickie filling (ooh, saucy) between patients. They understand that life can get in the way of oral hygiene sometimes. They understand that life’s too short not to eat chocolate. They understand that you’ve got to live. I swear to you that everyone in that room is just there to help you. Please, please, please don’t stop going to the dentist because you’re worried they’ll be mad at you. It’s really not the case. They understand. It’s fine. It’s really, really fine. Please go to the dentist. I promise you it’s ok. 

You would not believe how comforting this is. 



Also, it could be genetic, result of severe stress, or short-term / long-term illnesses. Certain medical conditions like pregnancy and chronic pain fuck with your teeth. 

And don’t get me started on the criminal state of dental coverage in the US. 

    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Gif, Life, and Target: nicky
 @tropicocunt
 me to my dentist when I have a cavity:
 are you mad at me :
 11/21/18, 2:57 PM
mynameiskleio:

digitaldancin:

realityremedy:

ellieisnotoldyet:
I’ve been reading through the notes and I just have to say that I absolutely promise, promise, promise you that nobody in the dental surgery is there to judge you, and we’re certainly not mad at you. Cavities happen. Even to dentists. You think your dentist has a mouth full of virgin teeth? Unlikely! They’ve all visited  eachother’s surgeries to get a quickie filling (ooh, saucy) between patients. They understand that life can get in the way of oral hygiene sometimes. They understand that life’s too short not to eat chocolate. They understand that you’ve got to live. I swear to you that everyone in that room is just there to help you. Please, please, please don’t stop going to the dentist because you’re worried they’ll be mad at you. It’s really not the case. They understand. It’s fine. It’s really, really fine. Please go to the dentist. I promise you it’s ok. 

You would not believe how comforting this is. 



Also, it could be genetic, result of severe stress, or short-term / long-term illnesses. Certain medical conditions like pregnancy and chronic pain fuck with your teeth. 

And don’t get me started on the criminal state of dental coverage in the US. 

                
            

            
            
mynameiskleio:

digitaldancin:

realityremedy:

ellieisnotoldyet:
I’ve been reading through the notes and I just have to say that I absolute...

            
            
        

    



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            




    Tumblr, Hunting, and Blog: wthtorke:

predatormovies:Room for one more. Get in loser,we’re going hunting

@dasspaghettimonsterSIIIIS. YOUR BOYFRIEND IS HEEEERE
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Tumblr, Hunting, and Blog: wthtorke:

predatormovies:Room for one more. Get in loser,we’re going hunting

@dasspaghettimonsterSIIIIS. YOUR BOYFRIEND IS HEEEERE
                
            

            
            
wthtorke:

predatormovies:Room for one more. Get in loser,we’re going hunting

@dasspaghettimonsterSIIIIS. YOUR BOYFRIEND IS HEEEERE

            
            
        

    



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            




    Animals, Best Friend, and Fucking: 11 Erika Heidewald Φ
 Following
 @erikaheidewald
 Are you straight and considering going to
 #Pride2017 ? Here's a brief thread of
 things you should know.
 RETWEETS LIKES
 360
 463
 11:00 AM- 10 Jun 2017
 360
 463
 9

 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald-22h
 1. Pride is about LGBTQ+ people, so you must be an ally to all kinds of queer
 people. It's not ok to be an ally to gays
 but not trans ppl
 55316
 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald. 22h
 2. LGBT people are humans celebrating being themselves, we arent zoo
 animals. No gawking or touching without permission.
 다 26
 ·235
 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald. 22h
 3. If you're a straight man and you hit on a lesbian at Pride, you go straight
 to hell
 57354
 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald. 22h
 4. Pride isn't some sexual free for all with no rules. Not all LGBT people are
 even sexual. Don't touch people without their permission!
 37272
 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald. 22h
 5. Straight girls- gay men do not exist to be your gay best friend
 582
 Erika Heidewald眷. @enkaheidewald-22h
 6. Pride isnt about you, so don't try and make it about you. You're a guest
 34223
 Erika Heidewald Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 7. Pride isn't always happy. Pride comes out of struggle & sometimes people
 may be angry at our cis-heteronormative world. Be ok with that
 Erika Heidewald İİ, Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 8. You aren't there to judge, you're there to support. Let people be
 themselves, for some people it's the only time of year they really can.
 다 26
 190

 Erika Heidewald Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 9. Lesbians and bi girls are not at Pride to find straight men to have
 threesomes with and if you proposition t
 you go straight to hel
 115422
 Erika Heidewald Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 10. LGBT people are diverse in every way. Don't just be an ally of white
 male-identifying, or able-bodied LGBT people. Be intersectional
 Erika Heidewald眷. @enkaheidewald-21h
 Frida and I made a video on this topic yesterday, and there are some
 important thoughts in the comment section too
 SHOULD STRAIGHT PEOPLE GO TO PRIDE?
 Should straight people go to pride? LIKE AND
 SUBSCRIBE! @erikaandfrida on IG and Snapchat
 https://twitter.com/erikaandfrida erikaandfrida.tumblr.
 youtube.com
 다 16 86
 Erika Heidewald Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 not trying to get in a fight this year. #Pride201
 33214
 And lastly, do not fucking touch people without their permission because I'm
profeminist:

Thread source

Reblogging in anticipation of #PrideMonth2019
    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Animals, Best Friend, and Fucking: 11 Erika Heidewald Φ
 Following
 @erikaheidewald
 Are you straight and considering going to
 #Pride2017 ? Here's a brief thread of
 things you should know.
 RETWEETS LIKES
 360
 463
 11:00 AM- 10 Jun 2017
 360
 463
 9

 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald-22h
 1. Pride is about LGBTQ+ people, so you must be an ally to all kinds of queer
 people. It's not ok to be an ally to gays
 but not trans ppl
 55316
 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald. 22h
 2. LGBT people are humans celebrating being themselves, we arent zoo
 animals. No gawking or touching without permission.
 다 26
 ·235
 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald. 22h
 3. If you're a straight man and you hit on a lesbian at Pride, you go straight
 to hell
 57354
 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald. 22h
 4. Pride isn't some sexual free for all with no rules. Not all LGBT people are
 even sexual. Don't touch people without their permission!
 37272
 Erika Heidewald її, Ф @enkaheidewald. 22h
 5. Straight girls- gay men do not exist to be your gay best friend
 582
 Erika Heidewald眷. @enkaheidewald-22h
 6. Pride isnt about you, so don't try and make it about you. You're a guest
 34223
 Erika Heidewald Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 7. Pride isn't always happy. Pride comes out of struggle & sometimes people
 may be angry at our cis-heteronormative world. Be ok with that
 Erika Heidewald İİ, Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 8. You aren't there to judge, you're there to support. Let people be
 themselves, for some people it's the only time of year they really can.
 다 26
 190

 Erika Heidewald Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 9. Lesbians and bi girls are not at Pride to find straight men to have
 threesomes with and if you proposition t
 you go straight to hel
 115422
 Erika Heidewald Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 10. LGBT people are diverse in every way. Don't just be an ally of white
 male-identifying, or able-bodied LGBT people. Be intersectional
 Erika Heidewald眷. @enkaheidewald-21h
 Frida and I made a video on this topic yesterday, and there are some
 important thoughts in the comment section too
 SHOULD STRAIGHT PEOPLE GO TO PRIDE?
 Should straight people go to pride? LIKE AND
 SUBSCRIBE! @erikaandfrida on IG and Snapchat
 https://twitter.com/erikaandfrida erikaandfrida.tumblr.
 youtube.com
 다 16 86
 Erika Heidewald Ф @enkaheidewald-21h
 not trying to get in a fight this year. #Pride201
 33214
 And lastly, do not fucking touch people without their permission because I'm
profeminist:

Thread source

Reblogging in anticipation of #PrideMonth2019
                
            

            
            
profeminist:

Thread source

Reblogging in anticipation of #PrideMonth2019