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Best Friend, Cheetos, and Finals: 1. LA CROIX 1. HUNTER PENCE 8. SEAN FINNEGAN 4. TIM SCHAFER 8. TACO BELL 1. HUNTER PENCE 8. TACO BELL FUNNY 4. PORTILLO'S 4. TIM SCHAFER 1ST ANNUAL BEST FRIEND TOURNAMENT 4. PORTILLO'S 4. TIM SCHAFER 5. WING WINGS 5. LORNE LANNING BRANDS SF 2. DIGIORNO 4. TIM SCHAFER 3. OREOS 3. GRIMECRAFT 3. GRIMECRAFT 6. HOT CHEETOS 6. CHASTITY 2. DIGIORNO 7. DRUCKER/ALTANO 2. DIGIORNO 2. FRAN MIRABELLA 2. DIGIORNO 7. DRUCKER/ALTANO 7. NAPA SMITH 7.DRUCKER/AL TANO 5. BARB DUNKELMAN 18. ELYSE WILLEMS 8. ELYSE WILLEMS 1. TROY BAKER WINNER 1. XAVIER WOODS 8. RAHUL KOHLI 8. ELYSE WILLEMS 8. RAHUL KOHLI 8. ELYSE WILLEMS 5. BARB DUNKELMAN 8. ELYSE WILLEMS 4, BURNIE BURNS 4. DAN RYCKERT 5. BARB DUNKELMAN 5. ADAM KOVIC 5. BARB DUNKELMAN 5.ADAM KOVIC KF 5. BARB DUNKELMAN 8. ELYSE WILLEMS 3. ALFREDO DIAZ 6. GEOFF RAMSEY 2. SHUHEI YOSHIDA 3. ANTHONY CARBON MARCH 29: PLAY-IN GAME (DRUCKER VS ALTANO) MARCH 30-APRIL 6: EPISODE POSTS& ROUND 1(16 MATCHES 2 PER DAY) APRIL 9-12: ROUND 2 [8 MATCHES-2 PER DAY] APRIL 13-15: ROUND 3 (4 MATCHES ALL WEEKEND) APRIL 17-18: ROUND 4 12 MATCHES-1 PER DAY APRIL 20: CHAMPIONSHIP 3. ANTHONY CARBONI 6. GEOFF RAMSEY 6. DAVE FENNOY 6. GEOFF RAMSEY 2. SISOO 2. SHUHEI YOSHIDA 7. TONEDEFIF 7. BRANDON JONES KİNDAFUNNY COM TWITTER.COM/KINDAFUNNYVIDS 2 WINS WITH 74% OF THE VOTE OR MORE 3 OF THE 6 HIGHEST VOTED MATCHES MORE THAN 78,000 VOTES FOR ELSE ACROSS ALL MATCHES BRANDS KF SF KFG HOT START: 3 OF 4 REGIONAL BIGGEST MATCH OF ROUND 1: THE LONELIEST NUMBER: UNDERDOGS: LOWER SEEDS FIRST ROUND MATCHUPS WERE TROY BAKER VS. RAHUL KOHLI HUNTER PENCE WAS THE ONLY W WON BY % OR MORE ON 6 OUT OF 7 MATCHES 34,967 VOTES 1 SEED TO WIN A MATCH IN THIS REGION MVP OF THE TOURNAMENT: BIGGEST WIN: SISQO: 86% OF THE A FAIR FIGHT DIGIORNO TIM SCHAFFER ONLY 69:GEOFF RAMSEY DEFEATED THE TOURNAMENT'S ONLY TEAM, DRUCKER/ ALTANO IN THE REGIONAL FINALS VOTE- ROUND 1 69% OF THE VO TE - ROUND 1 0O TOTAL VOTES BIGGEST MATCH: DIGIORNO VS BARB VOTES. MIGHTY NUMBER 8: 3 OUT CLUTCH VICTORIES: 2 MATCHES DECIDED BY 2% [TROY BAKER VS. RAHUL KOHLI AND OREO VS DIGIORNO] 72,820 OF 4 8 SEEDS BEAT 1 SEEDS IN THE FIRST ROUND
Best Friend, Cheetos, and Finals: 1. LA CROIX
 1. HUNTER PENCE
 8. SEAN FINNEGAN
 4. TIM SCHAFER
 8. TACO BELL
 1. HUNTER PENCE
 8. TACO BELL
 FUNNY
 4. PORTILLO'S
 4. TIM SCHAFER
 1ST ANNUAL BEST FRIEND TOURNAMENT
 4. PORTILLO'S
 4. TIM SCHAFER
 5. WING WINGS
 5. LORNE LANNING
 BRANDS
 SF
 2. DIGIORNO
 4. TIM SCHAFER
 3. OREOS
 3. GRIMECRAFT
 3. GRIMECRAFT
 6. HOT CHEETOS
 6. CHASTITY
 2. DIGIORNO
 7. DRUCKER/ALTANO
 2. DIGIORNO
 2. FRAN MIRABELLA
 2. DIGIORNO
 7. DRUCKER/ALTANO
 7. NAPA SMITH
 7.DRUCKER/AL
 TANO
 5. BARB DUNKELMAN 18. ELYSE WILLEMS
 8. ELYSE WILLEMS
 1. TROY BAKER
 WINNER
 1. XAVIER WOODS
 8. RAHUL KOHLI
 8. ELYSE WILLEMS
 8. RAHUL KOHLI
 8. ELYSE WILLEMS
 5. BARB DUNKELMAN
 8. ELYSE WILLEMS
 4, BURNIE BURNS
 4. DAN RYCKERT
 5. BARB DUNKELMAN
 5. ADAM KOVIC
 5. BARB DUNKELMAN
 5.ADAM KOVIC
 KF
 5. BARB DUNKELMAN
 8. ELYSE WILLEMS
 3. ALFREDO DIAZ
 6. GEOFF RAMSEY
 2. SHUHEI YOSHIDA
 3. ANTHONY CARBON
 MARCH 29: PLAY-IN GAME (DRUCKER VS ALTANO)
 MARCH 30-APRIL 6: EPISODE POSTS&
 ROUND 1(16 MATCHES 2 PER DAY)
 APRIL 9-12: ROUND 2 [8 MATCHES-2 PER DAY]
 APRIL 13-15: ROUND 3 (4 MATCHES ALL WEEKEND)
 APRIL 17-18: ROUND 4 12 MATCHES-1 PER DAY
 APRIL 20: CHAMPIONSHIP
 3. ANTHONY CARBONI
 6. GEOFF RAMSEY
 6. DAVE FENNOY
 6. GEOFF RAMSEY
 2. SISOO
 2. SHUHEI YOSHIDA
 7. TONEDEFIF
 7. BRANDON JONES
 KİNDAFUNNY COM
 TWITTER.COM/KINDAFUNNYVIDS
 2 WINS WITH 74% OF THE VOTE OR MORE
 3 OF THE 6 HIGHEST VOTED MATCHES
 MORE THAN 78,000 VOTES FOR ELSE ACROSS ALL MATCHES
 BRANDS
 KF
 SF
 KFG
 HOT START: 3 OF 4 REGIONAL BIGGEST MATCH OF ROUND 1: THE LONELIEST NUMBER: UNDERDOGS: LOWER SEEDS
 FIRST ROUND MATCHUPS WERE TROY BAKER VS. RAHUL KOHLI HUNTER PENCE WAS THE ONLY W
 WON BY % OR MORE
 ON 6 OUT OF 7 MATCHES
 34,967 VOTES
 1 SEED TO WIN A MATCH
 IN THIS REGION
 MVP OF THE TOURNAMENT: BIGGEST WIN: SISQO: 86% OF THE A FAIR FIGHT
 DIGIORNO
 TIM SCHAFFER
 ONLY 69:GEOFF RAMSEY
 DEFEATED THE TOURNAMENT'S
 ONLY TEAM, DRUCKER/
 ALTANO IN THE REGIONAL
 FINALS
 VOTE- ROUND 1
 69% OF THE VO
 TE
 - ROUND 1
 0O TOTAL VOTES
 BIGGEST MATCH: DIGIORNO VS BARB VOTES.
 MIGHTY NUMBER 8: 3 OUT
 CLUTCH VICTORIES: 2 MATCHES DECIDED BY 2% [TROY BAKER VS. RAHUL KOHLI AND OREO VS DIGIORNO]
 72,820
 OF 4 8 SEEDS BEAT 1 SEEDS IN THE FIRST ROUND
All Lives Matter, All Lives Matter, and Apparently: She didn't say every man she said men are the worst which isn't exactly untrue Like Reply 2 Yesterday at 12:16pm But if I said that about women (which I don't believe it's true), then it'd be wrong and bigoted, right? Like Reply Yesterday at 1:25pm Nah just wrong like..... Guys don't feel scared for their lives and dignities and autonomy around women the way women do around men Like Reply 1 23 hrs You aren't answering what I said. said, if called all women awful as you have done about men, you'd be calling me sexist and hateful, rightfully so. So why is it not wrong when it's about men? Like Reply 21 hrs I don't think that's a fair statement. While men don't generally have to be concerned for their physical safety, there are plenty of men abused by women. And women abused by women. And women don't have to feel afraid around every man. It's possible to have a perfectly healthy and mutually respectful relationship with men. Does our society perpetuate gender inequality? You bet. Does that make men the problem? Nope. Like Reply 2 hrs Men are still more likely to get mugged, murdered, physically assaulted so there is a legit reason for men to be careful especially in high crime areas. Like Reply 1 hr Write a reply... https:llencrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images... you dropped this ENCR ED-TBN2.GSTAT Like Reply 2 Yesterday at 1:21pm It's NOT wrong omg its honest Like Reply 1 23 hrs https:/finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/.../sexism.../ This is a clarification--the first paragraph in particular is relevant to this discussion 101 FAQ: What is "sexism"? Short definition: Sexism is both discrimination based on gender and the attitudes, stereotypes,... FINALLYFEMINISM101.WORDPRESS.COM Like Rep 1 21 hrs I blocked him l can't even see what he's saying Like Rep 1 21 hrs Fair enough Like Rep 1 21 hrs Write a reply... altercations with men will gladly pull out some receipts if you'd like. There are plenty of instances of this. Like Rep 2 Yesterday at 12:56pm yells about sexism: part 1 of many Like Rep 1 Yesterday at 2:02pm All men are sexist because all men are the oppressor No woman can be sexist because all women are oppressed. If a man is unaware that the person he is interacting with is even a woman, he is still a sexist, ifthe other person is in fact a woman. Two groups defined by their place in society, which in turn is defined by their sex. (Or is itgender, lforget.) lftomorrow the patriarchy is upended, and a matriarchy established, all of those sexist men will magically cease to be sexists, and all of those women who were by definition, incapable of being sexists, will automatically become sexists. This message NOT brought to you by an MRA, or the NRA, or M&Ms.) Like Rep 22 hrs A Hide 11 Replies Like Reply 22 hrs l actually thought this was satire when l started to read it. How about no one acts shitty and hateful toward a group of people regardless of their gender? Like Rep 1 21 hrs t is satire, unless you subscribe to the idea of sexism as being prejudice plus power. Just check out that link above about what is sexism. And yes, I believe in the idea of no one actIsl shitty and hateful toward a group of people regardless of their gender." Like Reply 21 hrs sexism. And yes, believe in the idea of no one actIs shitty and hateful toward a group of people regardless of their gender" Like Reply 22 hrs No, sexism can be against anyone. The real world doesn't go by the Tumblr definition of sexism. And even ifa woman who is being hateful and rude isn't being "sexist," so what? You're still being a shitty person regardless of what word you use to describe it. Like Rep 1 22 hrs The real world doesn't go by a lot ofdefinitions, and the real world is a different place depending upon who you ask. But this right here is good shit Sexism is both discrimination based on gender and the attitudes stereotypes, and the cultural elements that promote this discrimination. Given the historical and continued imbalance of power, where men as a class are privileged over women as a class (see male privilege), an important, but often overlooked, part of the term is that sexism is prejudice plus power Thus feminists reject the notion that women can be sexist towards men because women lack the institutional power that men have." Like Reply 1 21 hrs Edited So yeah, by that definition, women can't be sexists. They can still be assholes, but right now the problems ofthe world and the country are generally not the result of women being assholes. Yes everyone needs to be treated fairly, but when the patient is lying in the street bleeding from the head and has an unsightly foot infection, you gotta prioritize the head. Fairness, maybe even politeness sometimes, takes a back seat when people are literally dying. And those people dying are generally women right now. And those people dying are black people right now. And those people dying are children right now. And those people dying are transgendered, and fleeing war, and on and on What they are generally NOT is white and male, so sometimes our white male voices might seem to get drowned out in the clamor. It's okay. we're privileged to have a place to sit and wait our turn Like Reply 1 21 hrs Nope, women can be sexist. Feminists are desperate to change the meaning to fit heir agenda because they want to justify their hatred of males. sexism Like Reply 21 hrs Yeah, see where you're at now. The word "agenda" tipped me off. Later, bro. Like Reply 3 21 hrs What's wrong with my comment? Do they not try to justify their hatred by saying "But but but sexism is prejudge PLUS power so therefore we aren't able to hate men! Like Reply 20 hrs minists don't hate males.... Feminism is the apparently Fee crazy notion that we should be equal, when in reality, men have the upper hand ALL THE DAMN TIME. You don't have to agree, you're a white male and therefore have a substantially easier life than a female does. Enjoy being able to walk literally anywhere alone without fearing for your safety, asshole for your safety, asshole Like Rep 1 20 hrs "Men are the worst, but feminists don't hate men, we just generalize them as horrible human beings." The fact that you have to bring up that l'm white/male as your only argument means you have no substance. Notto mention that fact that men get robbed and assaulted more. Anyone could be a victim of a violent crime especially in a high crime area. Like Reply 19 hrs Write a reply... Obviously wasnt saying that all men where rapists, she exclaimed her frustration with so many men being so terrible by using a hyperbole. Its hard to recognize that so many of us are capable ofso much evil when its a lot less common for womam, but its fact. Like Rep 5 20 hrs Hide 47 Replies Yeah, women are incapable of being awful people because of their gender. Like Reply 19 hrs You do realize women rape, kill, and abuse others, right? And guess what, I'm not going to generalize women for the ones who do act that way. Like Reply 19 hrs M8. I wrote a lot less common not imossible Like Rep 19 hrs or maybe they can get away with it easier? If lsaid "White people are so much less violent than black people because there's less of them in jail for violent crime," you'd come at with me with "No! The criminal justice system just treats them better!" criminal justice system just treats them better!" Like Reply 20 hrs lf we take, for example violent rape would you tell me that woman beat then rape men as often as men beat then rape woman? Like Reply 19 hrs No, but that's one category. Not to mention, even though men do rape at a higher rate, it's still hateful to call men 'the worst." That's the only thing I'm calling her out for Notfor actually bringing up the issue of rape, but for being a hypocrite I'm not "pro rape" or some fucked up thing like that. I'm just wondering why it's okay to demonize men, but if someone were to do it to women, she'd be against it. Like Reply 19 hrs saw t more as a men as a group, men as a part of our society are the worst. We live in inequality that is fed by and that feeds off of violent acts against woman, such as violent rape. Men keep commiting attrocities against other people and making life more difficult for woman. Sure some woman do terrible things but those individuale acts have much less global implications wasnt saying is the worst, this isnt about you, its about men as a part of the world Like Rep 2 19 hrs "Men as a part of our society are the worst." Yeah, you aren't for equality. You're for demonizing men. You're blaming half of humanity for the actions of a few in that group. And you wonder why feminism has such a horrible reputation? It's because they say such repulsive things like that. Like Reply 19 hrs fee like could explain it to you but m sleepy. You said some interesting, admittedly flawed stuff, but thank you for promoting thought. will think about what you said and l hope you think about what I said with an open mind. Goodnight m8 l said with an open mind. Goodnight m8 Like Reply 18 hrs Edited You could explain it to me if you actually made sense, but you simply don't because the feminist movement is largely anti-male regardless of what the definition is. Try to twist it all you want, but there's ample evidence to support that. Like Reply 12 hrs Oooooo and there it is!! I've been waiting for u to be REALLY honest about what bugs you here and you just said it!! You're not pro-equality Imao you're anti-feminism Like Reply 3-5 hrs Feminists don't have a monopoly on equality. Despite what Tumblr has told you, it is possible to be for equality and not label yourself a feminist. Feminists are the opposite. They claim to be for equality when they're really for the hatred of men. Like Reply 4 hrs I am for equality, that's why was wondering why itwas okay for you to generalize men whereas ifsomeone did that to women, you'd flip out. Like Reply 4 hrs bud maybe you wanna analyze why you're trying so hard to derail a conversation about women's experiences Like Reply 2-4 hrs oh wait is it because you don't respect women Like Reply 1-4 hrs Calling out a feminist for their hypocrisy J l don't respect women? Makes tons of sense. didn't derail shit that's just your cop out to answering my question. Why can't she give me a concise answer to why stereotyping is only okay when a woman does it? Oh wait is it because she doesn't respect men? because she doesn't respect men? Like Reply 3 hrs Like Rep 1-3 hrs And with that you're basically telling me 'm right because if l wasn't you'd be able to have at least some kind of argument. Like Reply 3 hrs Making blanket statements about what "Feminists" believe is just as invalid as making blanket statements about what men do. And the whole anti-feminist argument is just a way to deflect the conversation away from the very real fact that men still have significant advantages in many areas in our society, simply by virtue of being men. Like Reply 2 hrs Not quite. It's a false equivalency. Feminists choose to label themselves as that and thus are subject to criticism for the bs they spew. People don'tgetto choose their gender so making stereotypes about based on gender is bigoted and hateful. I agree there are areas where it is easier to be a man, but feminism certainly isn't doing anything to fix that. Not to mention areas where women benefit from being women. Like Reply 2 hrs Like Reply 1 2 hrs l abel myself as a feminist and don't spew BS. Where does that leave your argument? Like Reply 2 hrs Uh is this one of those crazy experiments with the monkeys and the typewriters? Are you actually reading what you're saying or was it a total crazy coincidence? And if not...can you fuck off now? Thanks Like Reply 2 hrs don't worry, I have an infinite supply of pictures of Hunter Pence Like Reply 1-2 hrs Oh man wow really? I take it back keep going. This is hillarious Like Reply 1-2 hrs great for you. However many of its followers spread false and misleading statistics, create problems over trivial things, and justify man hate. I'm sure you do some of those same things even if you don't realize it. Like Reply 1 hr yeah I'm reading it. I'm not sure if you are though because I'm being pretty straight forward. If you are unable to comprehend it, that's on you. And agree that this is hilarious because no one yet had given me a clear answer and yet they keep trying. Like Reply 1 hr Like Reply 1 hr lmao you're trying so hard to dismiss me with ridiculous pictures because you sure as he can't do it in words. Like Reply 1 hr oh you posted twice Like Reply 1 hr have a bonus pence Like-Renlv 1 hr Like Reply 1 hr bonus bonus pence for your triple post Like Reply 1 hr STILL MORE MACHO THAN AMALE CLAIMING TO BE A FEMINIST Like Reply 1 hr you underestimate my pences Like Reply 1 hr You're literally posting pictures of baseball players. Could it be because have proven a valid point and there is no rational way to reply? Like Reply 1 hr What a twist Like Reply 1 hr It's been the same baseball player the whole time actually Like Reply 1 hr I'll take that as a yes. Nice job though. Like Reply 1 hr Oh you finally responded with words. guess you finally decided to respond like an adult. Like Reply 1 hr Oh they ve said they feel invalidated and insulted by my bullshit sexist rhetoric but they're using humor to attempt to diffuse my insensitivity and bigotry so I must have won the argument also my penis is giant "Oh they've said they feel invalidated and insulted by my bullshit sexist rhetoric but they're using humor to attempt to diffuse my insensitivity and bigotry so l must have won the argument also my penis is giant' for President 2016 Here's your answer: All men are sexist. All men perpetrate violence and micro aggressions against women. As white women, we experience less of this violence than black femmes, especially black trans women. However, all ofyou perpetrate violence to some degree against all of us Some women perpetrate this same violence. Some of us internalize it. Some of us hate men (especially men who invalidate our experiences, reduce our generations-long fight for equality to a label and ignore our voices in discussions about OUR EXPERIENCES). But none of us-hear that? None Us Are sexist. Because there are not institutions in place to insure our voices are always heard. There are not institutions in place designed to give us OUR choices about OUR bodies. There ARE institutions in place designed to systematically incarcerate women of color for non violent crimes perpetrated by the same systems of cyclical poverty and separate them from their children, creating a prison-industrial complex that profits from human suffering and institutionalized sexual abuse, followed by the sale of their children to families with more privilege There arentsystems in place to ensure l get paid the same amount for the work l do. There aren't systems in place to ensure I'm believed in a case of "he said, she said. There aren't systems in place to make me comfortable or secure or beautiful in my own body. There aren't system in place to make sure can go alone to a party ofdrunk frat boys, or walk down a street without someone catcalling me I could go on and on and On in place to make sure l can go alone to a party ofdrunk frat boys, or walk down a street without someone catcalling me could go on and on and On Literally so sick of your shit. Yes. All men participate and benefit from this system. They all profit from this system. Passively. Actively. Conscious and unconscious. The whole fucking world is designed to ensure that the momentyou get all uppity in your white-male-insecurity, we all have to listen to you whine about that one time a girl did something mean to you or called you on your bullshit or made a post about her daily struggle in a world actively trying to break her down. PS l literally have this conversation a million times a day and its not my job to explain to you how you actively benefit from your privilege. Goodnight. Bye. And I know you're gonna respond with something like "Well these are exagerated" or "Those statistics and stories are made up" or "How is it that calling all men sexist isn't sexist' or "you didntanswer my question" or eah but not all men" but m really tired of hearing it. You haventexperienced it, you can't comment. Educate yourself Like Rep 1 52 mins I'm sure "many of its followers" do all sorts of things. Just like many men do all sorts ofthings. Doesn't mean you are correct when you claim Feminists hate men. Like Reply 32 mins All men do not perpetrate violence and micro aggressions against women, either actively or passively. More men do than women. But the second you swerve into All Anyone Does Anything territory, the rest of your arguments lose credibility. Your comments about women not being able to be sexist are only correct if everyone agrees that the definition of sexist is limited to institutionalized power. Unfortunately, our language doesn't allow for Your comments about women not being able to be sexist are only correct if everyone agrees that the definition of sexist is limited to institutionalized power. Unfortunately, our language doesn't allow for that to be the only definition of the word, and there isn't an existing word limited to that definition Rage all you want. Just don't ever expect anything productive to come out of it. Like Reply 26 mins Thanks for my daily dose of cancer. How exactly was anything said sexist? Hint itwasn't, it's just another excuse to invalidate what I said because you know l rightfully called her out. Yes all men are violent against women. Every single one, right. Once again, I don't care about yourTumblr definition of sexism. Women can most certainly be sexist as can any man, but disagreeing with a feminist or calling one out is not a "micro aggression" or misogyny. Once again, do acknowledge there are certain areas women are disadvantaged, but stuff like not getting free abortions isn't controlling anyone's body, it's called personal responsibility. And yeah as you already said, a lot ofthese examples of "oppression" are bs such as the wage gap which is incredibly misleading. I'm not gonna even bother going through all of them because your feels are more important than logic All did was call out her hate and everyone scrambled to defend her instead of her owning up to being rude. This wasn't supposed to be a debate about feminism. According to your logic l could say as a man l experience oppression and you can't say I'm wrong because you haven't experienced it, couldn't I? Like Reply 7 mins All men. Perpetrate sexism. Just like ALL white people perpetrate racism. Institutions such as masculinity and whiteness depend on the active and passive subjugation of others. It's All men. Perpetrate sexism. Just like ALL white people perpetrate racism. Institutions such as masculinity and whiteness depend on the active and passive subjugation of others. It's how they function. Admitting our privilege is the first step to de- colonizaing ourselves. The literal, actual definition of sexism is institutional in nature. Similar to the definition of racism being an institutional privilege stemming from whiteness. I have white privilege, therefore l, and every white person, is racist. Someone who is a cis male accesses what we ca "male privilege", and so they are sexist. Institutions rely on violence to be maintained. And invalidating women's anger at the silencing oftheir experiences is further problematic. My rage" is an expression of frustration towards a system that tells me to be meek and mild and agreeable in every situation Like Reply Just now Edited you just got destroyed by game over man Lmao game over Like Reply 1 6 mins It's about experiences of institutionalized oppression. can't claim to have experienced racial injustice because I'm white. Similar but not the same. Like Reply 4 mins Edited Write a reply... Write a comment... I'm white. Similar but not the same Like Reply 23 hrs Edited All women also perpetrate sexism. Just because men benefit from it doesn't mean it's all their fault, or that they're the only ones participating I'm not sure what "literal, actual" definition you think youre referencing but it's not the one found in the Oxford or Mirriam Webster dictionaries. So you can assign any meaning to the word you want, but if it's not a commonly agreed upon definition then expecting any sort of meaningful dialog to exist around that word is futile Pointing out that your particular expression of your rage is limiting the conversation and alienating the very people who might otherwise be allies isntinvalidating your feelings, nor is it telling you that you need to be meek and mild and agreeable in every situation. It's exactly that sort of hyperbole which stops the discussion, instead of furthering it. Like Reply 22 hrs Edited I don't know how to respond when a woman tells me that "All women perpetrate sexism" It's like saying "All trans people perpetrate transphobia" or don't even know. It's absurd I'm not saying women dontdo terrible things. I'm not saying women aren't capable of heinous, awful crimes. I'm not saying women aren't capable of internalizing sexist views, or having hate. But l AM saying that the institution of masculinity--people who are born male-assigned and male-identify--we, as women and non-binary and gender-queer folk are not their equal. We don't have access to the same institutional protections and liberties. Maybe as a white middle-class woman the intersectionality of my identity grants me access to other privilege, but l will never be equal to a white cis male. This inequality stems from somewhere. The place that it stems from is sexism. How would you define it, if not that? This inequality stems from somewhere. The place that it stems from is sexism. How would you define it, if not that? Like Reply 22 hrs Edited Also I would encourage you to read other previous comments by other people, l'm not alone in my definition or beliefs Like Reply 22 hrs You say, But I AM saying that the institution of masculinity- people who are born male-assigned and male-identify--we, as women and non-binary and gender-queer folk are not their equa and l say not one person in this thread has really disputed that, or even attempted to And of course the place that stems from is sexism. No one has disputed that, either. Including me What people are disputing is your opinion and itis exactly that, no matter how many people share it-that sexism can only be defined as institutionalized oppression of Women, and that all men and only men are guilty of it. As a feminist, I believe men and women are equal. I believe gender differences do not and should not be the basis of determining an individual's worth. I believe that sexism is as harmful to men as it is to women, and that non-cis people get caught in the crossfire to a degree cis-gendered people canteven fathom. believe that talking at people instead of to them is generally counterproductive. l believe that change will only happen when people find common ground, and since we can only communicate through words, we should be careful ofthe ones we use and not require people to redefine them to fit our whims Like Reply 22 hrs So you're saying simply by being male, my presence is oppressive? Yeah you don't hate men at all saying that kind of shit. I never denied sexism doesn't exist. The issue is feminists think the most trivial things are sexist and use it as a buzzword to play the victim when they're being challenged like right now. The only thing I commented on So you're saying simply by being male, my presence is oppressive? Yeah you don't hate men at all saying that kind ofshit. I never denied sexism doesn't exist. The issue is feminists think the most trivial things are sexist and use it as a buzzword to play the victim when they're being challenged like right now. The only thing I commented on was the fact that she generalizes all men for being awful people not to argue about if women are systemically held back. I also love how irate feminists get when anyone mentions issues men face yet they claim to be for equality. Like Reply 21 hrs ol oh she totally owned me with her Tumblr style, buzz word filled argument, but at least she actually attempted unlike you Like Reply 21 hrs Yes and yes and yes! But men are not harmed by sexism, think, rather they are harmed by pre-conceived notions of gender (which we know to be constructed). Gender and sexism are different! Yes, men are harmed by a gendered notion that they cannot express their feelings or cry. Yes, they are harmed by the gendered notion that they should only like trucks and dinosaurs and can't enjoy fashion or cooking. Yes, and yes, and yes. But this isn't sexism! These notions of masculinity and femininity are seperate from the institutional lack of education for Women, or a lack of healthcare, or an overwhelming unequal distribution of emotional labor! Sexism is these institutions. Men are OF COURSE hurt by these gender stereotypes. But it's not sexism. In fact, Iwould argue that most of these masculinity stereotypes lead most men to violent attitudes and actions out of a neccisisty to be "Masculine" which is in many ways linked to violence committed against non-cis men. But that isn't sexism. Men can be victims, and are, but they cannot be victims of institutionalized gender inequality Like Reply 21 hrs victims, and are, but they cannot be victims of institutionalized gender inequality Like Reply 21 hrs politicalcuttlefish Tumblr feminist: Lol misandry Tumblr feminist: bathe in your male Tumblr feminist: Male suicide? CRY ME A FUCKING RIVER!! Tumblr feminist: Why do people think feminists hate men!! atumblr feminism amisandry emale tears Like Reply 19 hrs l bet you say Al Lives Matter too. Am l right? Like Reply 19 hrs l bet you say "Misandry doesn't exist, men are pigs, birth control should be free, you don't need evidence for rape accusations. Like Reply 18 hrs Nope and currently just you and yes and nope. And you do say All Lives Matter, don't you? I'm done here Goodnight. Like Reply 18 hrs What's wrong with a lives mattering? Like Reply 18 hrs What's wrong with a lives mattering? Like Reply 18 hrs http://www.theguardian.com.. ves-matter racist. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/...Nhite-bubble-of http://www.huffingtonpost.com/.../black-lives-matter-the http:/fusion.net/.../the-next-time-someone-says-all.../ All lives matter is and always was racist the weekend's campaign. THEGUARDIAN.COM BY DAVE BRY Like Reply 18 hrs Everyone being equal is now racism? guess that's not as bad as Feminists are for equality. Like Reply 18 hrs I don't think you can uncouple gender stereotypes and sexism, because they are so intertwined. Devaluing the feminine is a prerequisite for devaluing the female. Like Reply 16 hrs tota y agree! The difference is whether or not this is done at an institutional level, which in the case of cis men, it is not Like Reply 15 hrs We'll have to agree to disagree on that one. I don't see gender stereotypes or devaluing the feminine as not happening at an institutional level. Like Reply 8 hrs Edited Write a renlv Men are the worst tbh - Part 2: All men are sexist but women can't be (original in the comments)
All Lives Matter, All Lives Matter, and Apparently: She didn't say every man she said men are the worst which isn't
 exactly untrue
 Like Reply 2 Yesterday at 12:16pm
 But if I said that about women (which I don't believe it's true),
 then it'd be wrong and bigoted, right?
 Like Reply Yesterday at 1:25pm
 Nah just wrong like..... Guys don't feel scared for their
 lives and dignities and autonomy around women the way women do
 around men
 Like Reply
 1 23 hrs
 You aren't answering what I said. said, if called all
 women awful as you have done about men, you'd be calling me sexist
 and hateful, rightfully so. So why is it not wrong when it's about men?
 Like Reply 21 hrs
 I don't think that's a fair statement. While men
 don't generally have to be concerned for their physical safety, there are
 plenty of men abused by women. And women abused by women.
 And women don't have to feel afraid around every man. It's possible to
 have a perfectly healthy and mutually respectful relationship with men.
 Does our society perpetuate gender inequality? You bet. Does that
 make men the problem? Nope.
 Like Reply 2 hrs
 Men are still more likely to get mugged, murdered,
 physically assaulted so there is a legit reason for men to be careful
 especially in high crime areas.
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 It's NOT wrong omg its honest
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 https:/finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/.../sexism.../ This is a
 clarification--the first paragraph in particular is relevant to this
 discussion
 101
 FAQ: What is "sexism"?
 Short definition: Sexism is both discrimination
 based on gender and the attitudes, stereotypes,...
 FINALLYFEMINISM101.WORDPRESS.COM
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 I blocked him l can't even see what he's saying
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 Fair enough
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 altercations with men
 will gladly pull out some receipts if you'd like. There are
 plenty of instances of this.
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 2 Yesterday at 12:56pm
 yells about sexism: part 1 of many
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 1 Yesterday at 2:02pm
 All men are sexist because all men are the oppressor No woman
 can be sexist because all women are oppressed. If a man is unaware that the
 person he is interacting with is even a woman, he is still a sexist, ifthe other
 person is in fact a woman. Two groups defined by their place in society, which in
 turn is defined by their sex. (Or is itgender, lforget.) lftomorrow the patriarchy is
 upended, and a matriarchy established, all of those sexist men will magically
 cease to be sexists, and all of those women who were by definition, incapable of
 being sexists, will automatically become sexists. This message NOT brought to
 you by an MRA, or the NRA, or M&Ms.)
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 l actually thought this was satire when l started to read it.
 How about no one acts shitty and hateful toward a group of people
 regardless of their gender?
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 1 21 hrs
 t is satire, unless you subscribe to the idea of sexism as
 being prejudice plus power. Just check out that link above about what is
 sexism. And yes, I believe in the idea of no one actIsl shitty and hateful
 toward a group of people regardless of their gender."
 Like Reply 21 hrs

 sexism. And yes, believe in the idea of no one actIs shitty and hateful
 toward a group of people regardless of their gender"
 Like Reply 22 hrs
 No, sexism can be against anyone. The real world doesn't
 go by the Tumblr definition of sexism. And even ifa woman who is being
 hateful and rude isn't being "sexist," so what? You're still being a shitty
 person regardless of what word you use to describe it.
 Like Rep
 1 22 hrs
 The real world doesn't go by a lot ofdefinitions, and the
 real world is a different place depending upon who you ask. But this
 right here is good shit
 Sexism is both discrimination based on gender and the attitudes
 stereotypes, and the cultural elements that promote this discrimination.
 Given the historical and continued imbalance of power, where men as a
 class are privileged over women as a class (see male privilege), an
 important, but often overlooked, part of the term is that sexism is
 prejudice plus power Thus feminists reject the notion that women can
 be sexist towards men because women lack the institutional power that
 men have."
 Like Reply 1 21 hrs Edited
 So yeah, by that definition, women can't be sexists. They
 can still be assholes, but right now the problems ofthe world and the
 country are generally not the result of women being assholes. Yes
 everyone needs to be treated fairly, but when the patient is lying in the
 street bleeding from the head and has an unsightly foot infection, you
 gotta prioritize the head. Fairness, maybe even politeness sometimes,
 takes a back seat when people are literally dying. And those people
 dying are generally women right now. And those people dying are black
 people right now. And those people dying are children right now. And
 those people dying are transgendered, and fleeing war, and on and on
 What they are generally NOT is white and male, so sometimes our white
 male voices might seem to get drowned out in the clamor. It's okay.
 we're privileged to have a place to sit and wait our turn

 Like Reply
 1 21 hrs
 Nope, women can be sexist. Feminists are desperate to
 change the meaning to fit heir agenda because they want to justify their
 hatred of males.
 sexism
 Like Reply 21 hrs
 Yeah, see where you're at now. The word "agenda" tipped
 me off. Later, bro.
 Like Reply
 3 21 hrs
 What's wrong with my comment? Do they not try
 to justify their hatred by saying "But but but sexism is prejudge PLUS
 power so therefore we aren't able to hate men!
 Like Reply 20 hrs
 minists don't hate males.... Feminism is the apparently
 Fee
 crazy notion that we should be equal, when in reality, men have the
 upper hand ALL THE DAMN TIME. You don't have to agree, you're a
 white male and therefore have a substantially easier life than a female
 does. Enjoy being able to walk literally anywhere alone without fearing
 for your safety, asshole

 for your safety, asshole
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 1 20 hrs
 "Men are the worst, but feminists don't hate men, we just
 generalize them as horrible human beings."
 The fact that you have to bring up that
 l'm white/male as your only
 argument means you have no substance. Notto mention that fact that
 men get robbed and assaulted more. Anyone could be a victim of a
 violent crime especially in a high crime area.
 Like Reply 19 hrs
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 Obviously
 wasnt saying that all men where rapists, she
 exclaimed her frustration with so many men being so terrible by using a
 hyperbole. Its hard to recognize that so many of us are capable ofso much evil
 when its a lot less common for womam, but its fact.
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 Yeah, women are incapable of being awful people
 because of their gender.
 Like Reply 19 hrs
 You do realize women rape, kill, and abuse others, right?
 And guess what, I'm not going to generalize women for the ones who do
 act that way.
 Like Reply 19 hrs
 M8. I wrote a lot less common not imossible
 Like Rep
 19 hrs
 or maybe they can get away with it easier? If lsaid "White
 people are so much less violent than black people because there's less
 of them in jail for violent crime," you'd come at with me with "No! The
 criminal justice system just treats them better!"

 criminal justice system just treats them better!"
 Like Reply 20 hrs
 lf we take, for example
 violent rape would you tell me
 that woman beat then rape men as often as men beat then rape
 woman?
 Like Reply 19 hrs
 No, but that's one category. Not to mention, even though
 men do rape at a higher rate, it's still hateful to call men 'the worst."
 That's the only thing I'm calling her out for Notfor actually bringing up
 the issue of rape, but for being a hypocrite
 I'm not "pro rape" or some
 fucked up thing like that. I'm just wondering why it's okay to demonize
 men, but if someone were to do it to women, she'd be against it.
 Like Reply 19 hrs
 saw t more as a men as a group, men as a part of our
 society are the worst. We live in inequality that is fed by and that feeds
 off of violent acts against woman, such as violent rape. Men keep
 commiting attrocities against other people and making life more difficult
 for woman. Sure some woman do terrible things but those individuale
 acts have much less global implications
 wasnt saying
 is the worst, this isnt about you, its about men as a part of the
 world
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 2
 19 hrs
 "Men as a part of our society are the worst." Yeah, you
 aren't for equality. You're for demonizing men. You're blaming half of
 humanity for the actions of a few in that group. And you wonder why
 feminism has such a horrible reputation? It's because they say such
 repulsive things like that.
 Like Reply 19 hrs
 fee
 like could explain it to you but
 m sleepy. You said
 some interesting, admittedly flawed stuff, but thank you for promoting
 thought. will think about what you said and l hope you think about what
 I said with an open mind. Goodnight m8

 l said with an open mind. Goodnight m8
 Like Reply 18 hrs Edited
 You could explain it to me if you actually made sense, but
 you simply don't because the feminist movement is largely anti-male
 regardless of what the definition is. Try to twist it all you want, but there's
 ample evidence to support that.
 Like Reply 12 hrs
 Oooooo and there it is!! I've been waiting for u to be
 REALLY honest about what bugs you here and you just said it!! You're
 not pro-equality Imao you're anti-feminism
 Like Reply 3-5 hrs
 Feminists don't have a monopoly on equality. Despite what
 Tumblr has told you, it is possible to be for equality and not label
 yourself a feminist. Feminists are the opposite. They claim to be for
 equality when they're really for the hatred of men.
 Like Reply 4 hrs
 I am for equality, that's why was wondering why itwas
 okay for you to generalize men whereas ifsomeone did that to women,
 you'd flip out.
 Like Reply 4 hrs
 bud maybe you wanna analyze why you're trying so
 hard to derail a conversation about women's experiences
 Like Reply
 2-4 hrs
 oh wait is it because you don't respect women
 Like Reply 1-4 hrs
 Calling out a feminist for their hypocrisy J l don't respect
 women? Makes tons of sense. didn't derail shit that's just your cop out
 to answering my question. Why can't she give me a concise answer to
 why stereotyping is only okay when a woman does it? Oh wait is it
 because she doesn't respect men?

 because she doesn't respect men?
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 1-3 hrs
 And with that you're basically telling me 'm right because if
 l wasn't you'd be able to have at least some kind of argument.
 Like Reply 3 hrs

 Making blanket statements about what "Feminists" believe is just
 as invalid as making blanket statements about what men do.
 And the whole anti-feminist argument is just a way to deflect the
 conversation away from the very real fact that men still have significant
 advantages in many areas in our society, simply by virtue of being men.
 Like Reply 2 hrs
 Not quite. It's a false equivalency. Feminists choose to label
 themselves as that and thus are subject to criticism for the bs they spew.
 People don'tgetto choose their gender so making stereotypes about
 based on gender is bigoted and hateful. I agree there are areas where it
 is easier to be a man, but feminism certainly isn't doing anything to fix
 that. Not to mention areas where women benefit from being women.
 Like Reply 2 hrs
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 l abel myself as a feminist and don't spew BS. Where does that
 leave your argument?
 Like Reply 2 hrs
 Uh
 is this one of those crazy
 experiments with the monkeys and the typewriters? Are you actually
 reading what you're saying or was it a total crazy coincidence? And if
 not...can you fuck off now? Thanks
 Like Reply 2 hrs
 don't worry, I have an infinite supply of pictures of Hunter
 Pence
 Like Reply
 1-2 hrs
 Oh man wow really? I take it back
 keep going.
 This is hillarious
 Like Reply
 1-2 hrs
 great for you. However many of its followers spread
 false and misleading statistics, create problems over trivial things, and
 justify man hate. I'm sure you do some of those same things even if you
 don't realize it.
 Like Reply 1 hr
 yeah I'm reading it. I'm not sure if you are
 though because I'm being pretty straight forward. If you are unable to
 comprehend it, that's on you. And agree that this is hilarious because
 no one yet had given me a clear answer and yet they keep trying.
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 lmao you're trying so hard to dismiss me with ridiculous
 pictures because you sure as he
 can't do it in words.
 Like Reply 1 hr
 oh you posted twice
 Like Reply 1 hr
 have a bonus pence
 Like-Renlv 1 hr
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 bonus bonus pence for your triple post
 Like Reply 1 hr
 STILL MORE MACHO
 THAN AMALE CLAIMING TO BE
 A FEMINIST
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 you underestimate my pences
 Like Reply 1 hr
 You're literally posting pictures of baseball players. Could it
 be because have proven a valid point and there is no rational way to
 reply?
 Like Reply 1 hr
 What a twist
 Like Reply 1 hr
 It's been the same baseball player the whole time actually
 Like Reply 1 hr
 I'll take that as a yes. Nice job though.
 Like Reply 1 hr
 Oh you finally responded with words. guess you finally
 decided to respond like an adult.
 Like Reply 1 hr
 Oh they ve said they feel invalidated and insulted by
 my bullshit sexist rhetoric but they're using humor to attempt to diffuse
 my insensitivity and bigotry so I must have won the argument also my
 penis is giant

 "Oh they've said they feel invalidated and insulted by
 my bullshit sexist rhetoric but they're using humor to attempt to diffuse
 my insensitivity and bigotry so l must have won the argument also my
 penis is giant'
 for President 2016
 Here's your answer:
 All men are sexist. All men perpetrate violence and micro aggressions
 against women. As white women, we experience less of this violence
 than black femmes, especially black trans women. However, all ofyou
 perpetrate violence to some degree against all of us
 Some women perpetrate this same violence. Some of us internalize it.
 Some of us hate men (especially men who invalidate our experiences,
 reduce our generations-long fight for equality to a label and ignore our
 voices in discussions about OUR EXPERIENCES). But none of us-hear
 that?
 None
 Us
 Are sexist. Because there are not institutions in place to insure our
 voices are always heard. There are not institutions in place designed to
 give us OUR choices about OUR bodies. There ARE institutions in
 place designed to systematically incarcerate women of color for non
 violent crimes perpetrated by the same systems of cyclical poverty and
 separate them from their children, creating a prison-industrial complex
 that profits from human suffering and institutionalized sexual abuse,
 followed by the sale of their children to families with more privilege
 There arentsystems in place to ensure l get paid the same amount for
 the work l do. There aren't systems in place to ensure
 I'm believed in a
 case of "he said, she said. There aren't systems in place to make me
 comfortable or secure or beautiful in my own body. There aren't system
 in place to make sure can go alone to a party ofdrunk frat boys, or walk
 down a street without someone catcalling me
 I could go on and on and
 On

 in place to make sure l can go alone to a party ofdrunk frat boys, or walk
 down a street without someone catcalling me
 could go on and on and
 On
 Literally so sick of your shit.
 Yes. All men participate and benefit from this system. They all profit from
 this system.
 Passively. Actively. Conscious and unconscious. The whole
 fucking world is designed to ensure that the momentyou get all uppity in
 your white-male-insecurity, we all have to listen to you whine about that
 one time a girl did something mean to you or called you on your bullshit
 or made a post about her daily struggle in a world actively trying to
 break her down.
 PS l literally have this conversation a million times a day and its not my
 job to explain to you how you actively benefit from your privilege.
 Goodnight. Bye.
 And I know you're gonna respond with something like "Well these are
 exagerated" or "Those statistics and stories are made up" or "How is it
 that calling all men sexist isn't sexist' or "you didntanswer my question"
 or eah but not all men" but m really tired of hearing it.
 You haventexperienced it, you can't comment.
 Educate yourself
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 1 52 mins
 I'm sure "many of its followers" do all sorts of things.
 Just like many men do all sorts ofthings. Doesn't mean you are correct
 when you claim Feminists hate men.
 Like Reply 32 mins
 All men do not perpetrate violence and micro
 aggressions against women, either actively or passively. More men do
 than women. But the second you swerve into All Anyone Does Anything
 territory, the rest of your arguments lose credibility.
 Your comments about women not being able to be sexist are only
 correct if everyone agrees that the definition of sexist is limited to
 institutionalized power. Unfortunately, our language doesn't allow for

 Your comments about women not being able to be sexist are only
 correct if everyone agrees that the definition of sexist is limited to
 institutionalized power. Unfortunately, our language doesn't allow for
 that to be the only definition of the word, and there isn't an existing word
 limited to that definition
 Rage all you want. Just don't ever expect anything productive to come
 out of it.
 Like Reply 26 mins
 Thanks for my daily dose of cancer. How exactly was
 anything said sexist? Hint itwasn't, it's just another excuse to invalidate
 what I said because you know l rightfully called her out. Yes all men are
 violent against women. Every single one, right.
 Once again, I don't care about yourTumblr definition of sexism. Women
 can most certainly be sexist as can any man, but disagreeing with a
 feminist or calling one out is not a "micro aggression" or misogyny. Once
 again, do acknowledge there are certain areas women are
 disadvantaged, but stuff like not getting free abortions isn't controlling
 anyone's body, it's called personal responsibility.
 And yeah as you already said, a lot ofthese examples of "oppression"
 are bs such as the wage gap which is incredibly misleading. I'm not
 gonna even bother going through all of them because your feels are
 more important than logic
 All did was call out her hate and everyone scrambled to defend her
 instead of her owning up to being rude. This wasn't supposed to be a
 debate about feminism. According to your logic l could say as a man l
 experience oppression and you can't say I'm wrong because you
 haven't experienced it, couldn't I?
 Like Reply 7 mins
 All men. Perpetrate sexism. Just like ALL white
 people perpetrate racism. Institutions such as masculinity and
 whiteness depend on the active and passive subjugation of others. It's

 All men. Perpetrate sexism. Just like ALL white
 people perpetrate racism. Institutions such as masculinity and
 whiteness depend on the active and passive subjugation of others. It's
 how they function. Admitting our privilege is the first step to de-
 colonizaing ourselves.
 The literal, actual definition of sexism is institutional in nature. Similar to
 the definition of racism being an institutional privilege stemming from
 whiteness. I have white privilege, therefore l, and every white person, is
 racist.
 Someone who is a cis male accesses what we ca
 "male privilege", and
 so they are sexist.
 Institutions rely on violence to be maintained.
 And invalidating women's anger at the silencing oftheir experiences is
 further problematic. My rage" is an expression of frustration towards a
 system that tells me to be meek and mild and agreeable in every
 situation
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 you just got destroyed by game over man
 Lmao
 game over
 Like Reply 1 6 mins
 It's about experiences of institutionalized
 oppression. can't claim to have experienced racial injustice because
 I'm white. Similar but not the same.
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 Write a reply...
 Write a comment...

 I'm white. Similar but not the same
 Like Reply 23 hrs Edited
 All women also perpetrate sexism. Just
 because men benefit from it doesn't mean it's all their fault, or that
 they're the only ones participating
 I'm not sure what "literal, actual" definition you think youre referencing
 but it's not the one found in the Oxford or Mirriam Webster dictionaries.
 So you can assign any meaning to the word you want, but if it's not a
 commonly agreed upon definition then expecting any sort of meaningful
 dialog to exist around that word is futile
 Pointing out that your particular expression of your rage is limiting the
 conversation and alienating the very people who might otherwise be
 allies isntinvalidating your feelings, nor is it telling you that you need to
 be meek and mild and agreeable in every situation. It's exactly that sort
 of hyperbole which stops the discussion, instead of furthering it.
 Like Reply 22 hrs Edited
 I don't know how to respond when a woman tells me
 that "All women perpetrate sexism"
 It's like saying "All trans people perpetrate transphobia" or don't
 even know. It's absurd
 I'm not saying women dontdo terrible things. I'm not saying women
 aren't capable of heinous, awful crimes.
 I'm not saying women aren't
 capable of internalizing sexist views, or having hate. But l AM saying
 that the institution of masculinity--people who are born male-assigned
 and male-identify--we, as women and non-binary and gender-queer folk
 are not their equal. We don't have access to the same institutional
 protections and liberties. Maybe as a white middle-class woman the
 intersectionality of my identity grants me access to other privilege, but l
 will never be equal to a white cis male.
 This inequality stems from somewhere. The place that it stems from is
 sexism. How would you define it, if not that?

 This inequality stems from somewhere. The place that it stems from is
 sexism. How would you define it, if not that?
 Like Reply 22 hrs Edited
 Also I would encourage you to read other previous
 comments by other people, l'm not alone in my definition or beliefs
 Like Reply 22 hrs
 You say, But I AM saying that the institution of masculinity-
 people who are born male-assigned and male-identify--we, as women
 and non-binary and gender-queer folk are not their equa
 and l say not
 one person in this thread has really disputed that, or even attempted to
 And of course the place that stems from is sexism. No one has disputed
 that, either. Including me
 What people are disputing is your opinion and itis exactly that, no
 matter how many people share it-that sexism can only be defined as
 institutionalized oppression of Women, and that all men and only men
 are guilty of it.
 As a feminist, I believe men and women are equal. I believe gender
 differences do not and should not be the basis of determining an
 individual's worth. I believe that sexism is as harmful to men as it is to
 women, and that non-cis people get caught in the crossfire to a degree
 cis-gendered people canteven fathom. believe that talking at people
 instead of to them is generally counterproductive. l believe that change
 will only happen when people find common ground, and since we can
 only communicate through words, we should be careful ofthe ones we
 use and not require people to redefine them to fit our whims
 Like Reply 22 hrs
 So you're saying simply by being male, my presence is
 oppressive? Yeah you don't hate men at all saying that kind of shit.
 I
 never denied sexism doesn't exist. The issue is feminists think the most
 trivial things are sexist and use it as a buzzword to play the victim when
 they're being challenged like right now. The only thing I commented on

 So you're saying simply by being male, my presence is
 oppressive? Yeah you don't hate men at all saying that kind ofshit. I
 never denied sexism doesn't exist. The issue is feminists think the most
 trivial things are sexist and use it as a buzzword to play the victim when
 they're being challenged like right now. The only thing I commented on
 was the fact that she generalizes all men for being awful people not to
 argue about if women are systemically held back. I also love how irate
 feminists get when anyone mentions issues men face yet they claim to
 be for equality.
 Like Reply 21 hrs
 ol oh she totally owned me with her Tumblr
 style, buzz word filled argument, but at least she actually attempted
 unlike you
 Like Reply 21 hrs
 Yes and yes and yes! But men are not harmed
 by sexism, think, rather they are harmed by pre-conceived notions of
 gender (which we know to be constructed). Gender and sexism are
 different! Yes, men are harmed by a gendered notion that they cannot
 express their feelings or cry. Yes, they are harmed by the gendered
 notion that they should only like trucks and dinosaurs and can't enjoy
 fashion or cooking. Yes, and yes, and yes. But this isn't sexism! These
 notions of masculinity and femininity are seperate from the institutional
 lack of education for Women, or a lack of healthcare, or an
 overwhelming unequal distribution of emotional labor! Sexism is these
 institutions. Men are OF COURSE hurt by these gender stereotypes. But
 it's not sexism. In fact, Iwould argue that most of these masculinity
 stereotypes lead most men to violent attitudes and actions out of a
 neccisisty to be "Masculine" which is in many ways linked to violence
 committed against non-cis men. But that isn't sexism. Men can be
 victims, and are, but they cannot be victims of institutionalized gender
 inequality
 Like Reply 21 hrs

 victims, and are, but they cannot be victims of institutionalized gender
 inequality
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 politicalcuttlefish
 Tumblr feminist: Lol misandry
 Tumblr feminist: bathe in your male
 Tumblr feminist: Male suicide? CRY ME
 A FUCKING RIVER!!
 Tumblr feminist: Why do people think
 feminists hate men!!
 atumblr feminism amisandry emale tears
 Like Reply 19 hrs
 l bet you say Al
 Lives Matter too. Am l right?
 Like Reply 19 hrs
 l bet you say "Misandry doesn't exist, men are pigs, birth
 control should be free, you don't need evidence for rape accusations.
 Like Reply 18 hrs
 Nope and currently just you and yes and
 nope. And you do say All Lives Matter, don't you? I'm done here
 Goodnight.
 Like Reply 18 hrs
 What's wrong with a
 lives mattering?
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 What's wrong with a
 lives mattering?
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 http://www.theguardian.com.. ves-matter racist.
 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/...Nhite-bubble-of
 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/.../black-lives-matter-the
 http:/fusion.net/.../the-next-time-someone-says-all.../
 All lives matter is and always was
 racist the weekend's campaign.
 THEGUARDIAN.COM BY DAVE BRY
 Like Reply 18 hrs
 Everyone being equal is now racism? guess that's not as
 bad as Feminists are for equality.
 Like Reply 18 hrs
 I don't think you can uncouple gender
 stereotypes and sexism, because they are so intertwined. Devaluing the
 feminine is a prerequisite for devaluing the female.
 Like Reply 16 hrs
 tota
 y agree! The difference is whether or not
 this is done at an institutional level, which in the case of cis men, it is not
 Like Reply 15 hrs
 We'll have to agree to disagree on that one. I
 don't see gender stereotypes or devaluing the feminine as not
 happening at an institutional level.
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Men are the worst tbh - Part 2: All men are sexist but women can't be (original in the comments)

Men are the worst tbh - Part 2: All men are sexist but women can't be (original in the comments)