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Being Alone, Cheating, and Community: If you see a woman that has everything going for herself and you're not ready to add value to her life... just admire her from afar Please don't interrupt her greatness. chakabars Brothers I know your insecurities, I used to share them, I still do share some of them. I know that you not being able to provide for your family is one of them, that's why you hit the block... It's not your block though, a bank owns it. That bank takes money out of your community, it doesn't want to build it up for you. But let's talk about your relationships with women. Are they mutually beneficial, or are you just as sexist as the next man? Do you build her up or do you tear her down? Are you creating or are you destroying. Are you scared you will lose her, because you haven't stepped your game up like you promised? Do her a favour, please don't try to get her pregnant, so your child can keep her because you couldn't. Do you expect her to be a brilliant lover in bed, but have never slept with someone before you? Are you telling her what to wear, what not to wear... where to be and who to talk to? Don't project your insecurities on to her because you are cheating, but won't admit that you sleep with other women, because you are scared of what she might say. Be a man, stick up for her, be a role model to her as she is for you. Be the type of man you would want your daughter to be with. She receives enough oppression from other men and sexist systems. Don't be another oppressor, uplift her, fight for her, build with her if you are ready to, but if you aren't leave her alone and watch her grow from a distance, don't mess up her life because you aren't happy with yours. You shouldn't be a distraction, appreciate her and bless her, be her solution not her problem... chakabars
Being Alone, Cheating, and Community: If you see a woman
 that has everything
 going for herself
 and you're not ready
 to add value to her life...
 just admire her from afar
 Please don't interrupt her greatness.
 chakabars
Brothers I know your insecurities, I used to share them, I still do share some of them. I know that you not being able to provide for your family is one of them, that's why you hit the block... It's not your block though, a bank owns it. That bank takes money out of your community, it doesn't want to build it up for you. But let's talk about your relationships with women. Are they mutually beneficial, or are you just as sexist as the next man? Do you build her up or do you tear her down? Are you creating or are you destroying. Are you scared you will lose her, because you haven't stepped your game up like you promised? Do her a favour, please don't try to get her pregnant, so your child can keep her because you couldn't. Do you expect her to be a brilliant lover in bed, but have never slept with someone before you? Are you telling her what to wear, what not to wear... where to be and who to talk to? Don't project your insecurities on to her because you are cheating, but won't admit that you sleep with other women, because you are scared of what she might say. Be a man, stick up for her, be a role model to her as she is for you. Be the type of man you would want your daughter to be with. She receives enough oppression from other men and sexist systems. Don't be another oppressor, uplift her, fight for her, build with her if you are ready to, but if you aren't leave her alone and watch her grow from a distance, don't mess up her life because you aren't happy with yours. You shouldn't be a distraction, appreciate her and bless her, be her solution not her problem... chakabars

Brothers I know your insecurities, I used to share them, I still do share some of them. I know that you not being able to provide for your f...

Animals, God, and Instagram: When she is confident with her sexuality, won't be controlled, conscious & curvy @chakabal For all those thinking I am writing like this for sex... calm your mind, I had more sex with more women before I started writing on Instagram, I express like this because it's important that men, challenge other men on their misogyny, patriarchal systems and sexism. @tiarakristine You can't validate her, she wasn't put here to serve you, she lives her truth and this is why you can't handle her... but you aren't supposed to handle her, she is her own sovereign being. You are supposed to partner her and appreciate her. You want her to be good in bed but mad that she has a sex life... You want her to be submissive, you expect that she is waiting around, for you to come along and whisk her off her feet... But she doesn't need to be carried, she is a woman, carries herself and walks her truth. She is a Queen and Roman antics don't impress her, she wants you to speak to her soul. If you want to be a blessing as she is to you, give to her to give, not to receive. Don't pretend that you are going to hook her up with a job to have sex with her. Stop trying to do things for her because you feel empty, so you want to try fill her uterus, so that you can be a part of something real. You are disconnected from your sprit so how can you connect to hers. When you are shocked at what she does. When you are scared of how she carries herself. When you want to call her names and put her in your boxes... Remember this, men are judged to unbalanced standards, because men run the current set up of society, which if you hadn't noticed isn't working out right now for the planet, her people, plants & her animals. She is god & as much as you try to "grab her by the pussy" she will always exposed your fears because she is stronger than you sexually, more intelligent than you emotionally & has dealt with more than you know. The divine woman is balanced. A god as we all come through her. She is the first being you experience, she is the gateway to the human experience, she is the first life you connect with. If you aren't ready for her, go away, work on your ego & don't interrupt her magnificence. Or try to divert the path of her life to suit your insecurities. Simple chakabars
Animals, God, and Instagram: When she is confident with her sexuality,
 won't be controlled, conscious & curvy
 @chakabal
For all those thinking I am writing like this for sex... calm your mind, I had more sex with more women before I started writing on Instagram, I express like this because it's important that men, challenge other men on their misogyny, patriarchal systems and sexism. @tiarakristine You can't validate her, she wasn't put here to serve you, she lives her truth and this is why you can't handle her... but you aren't supposed to handle her, she is her own sovereign being. You are supposed to partner her and appreciate her. You want her to be good in bed but mad that she has a sex life... You want her to be submissive, you expect that she is waiting around, for you to come along and whisk her off her feet... But she doesn't need to be carried, she is a woman, carries herself and walks her truth. She is a Queen and Roman antics don't impress her, she wants you to speak to her soul. If you want to be a blessing as she is to you, give to her to give, not to receive. Don't pretend that you are going to hook her up with a job to have sex with her. Stop trying to do things for her because you feel empty, so you want to try fill her uterus, so that you can be a part of something real. You are disconnected from your sprit so how can you connect to hers. When you are shocked at what she does. When you are scared of how she carries herself. When you want to call her names and put her in your boxes... Remember this, men are judged to unbalanced standards, because men run the current set up of society, which if you hadn't noticed isn't working out right now for the planet, her people, plants & her animals. She is god & as much as you try to "grab her by the pussy" she will always exposed your fears because she is stronger than you sexually, more intelligent than you emotionally & has dealt with more than you know. The divine woman is balanced. A god as we all come through her. She is the first being you experience, she is the gateway to the human experience, she is the first life you connect with. If you aren't ready for her, go away, work on your ego & don't interrupt her magnificence. Or try to divert the path of her life to suit your insecurities. Simple chakabars

For all those thinking I am writing like this for sex... calm your mind, I had more sex with more women before I started writing on Instagra...