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Beautiful, Energy, and Fake: How do narcissists "pick" their supply? Do they have emotional antennae that allow them to hone in on their prey? Gary Watson, BE Engineering, Vanderbilt University Answered Nov 3 5 things generally a narcissist looks for in a partner. And yes, they have emotional antennae up to detect these traits more so than you could ever believe. 1. Devotion to the concept of love - the more caring, loving you are, the better and more long lasting your energy supply appears 2. Compassionate Person - same, you'll put up with more 3. Decent Person - same, you give the narc a fake shell for the moment while they drain you 4. Has a moral compass - the narc loves this because they get to learn so much about the rest of us from this person. And, how to smear you in the end 5. Caring and empathetic - you'll overlook years of abuse, allow yourself to be triangulated, all while somehow thinking it is your fault. A side note, if you live away from family, have a close but small group of friends, maybe some of them aren't near you geographically, and you have these traits, watch out for the covert narcissist. These virtues plus their ability to isolate vou will make your energy supply irresistible to the covert narc. 45.8k Views View Upvoters Answer requested by Jennifer Heim-Ewen for those of you who are caring, empathetic, and always want to help- just be aware that there are people out there who if given the chance will use your most beautiful character traits and use it to their advantage. 
Beautiful, Energy, and Fake: How do narcissists "pick" their supply? Do they have
 emotional antennae that allow them to hone in on their
 prey?
 Gary Watson, BE Engineering, Vanderbilt University
 Answered Nov 3
 5 things generally a narcissist looks for in a partner. And yes, they have
 emotional antennae up to detect these traits more so than you could ever
 believe.
 1. Devotion to the concept of love - the more caring, loving you are, the
 better and more long lasting your energy supply appears
 2. Compassionate Person - same, you'll put up with more
 3. Decent Person - same, you give the narc a fake shell for the moment
 while they drain you
 4. Has a moral compass - the narc loves this because they get to learn so
 much about the rest of us from this person. And, how to smear you in
 the end
 5. Caring and empathetic - you'll overlook years of abuse, allow yourself to
 be triangulated, all while somehow thinking it is your fault.
 A side note, if you live away from family, have a close but small group of friends,
 maybe some of them aren't near you geographically, and you have these traits,
 watch out for the covert narcissist. These virtues plus their ability to isolate
 vou will make your energy supply irresistible to the covert narc.
 45.8k Views View Upvoters Answer requested by Jennifer Heim-Ewen
for those of you who are caring, empathetic, and always want to help- just be aware that there are people out there who if given the chance will use your most beautiful character traits and use it to their advantage. 

for those of you who are caring, empathetic, and always want to help- just be aware that there are people out there who if given the chance ...

Being Alone, Anaconda, and Creepy: Itsmotherswork @itsmotherswork If you're promoting changes to women's behaviour to "prevent" rape, you're really saying "make sure he rapes the other girl". 15 Dec <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://feministfailures.tumblr.com/post/128245622630">feministfailures</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://psiotechniqa.tumblr.com/post/128242295568">psiotechniqa</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://tkscz.tumblr.com/post/127121333541">tkscz</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/127115097134">siryouarebeingmocked</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://hellwasabor.tumblr.com/post/123039647872">hellwasabor</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://cheshireinthemiddle.tumblr.com/post/122816238917">cheshireinthemiddle</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://trekupmysleeve.tumblr.com/post/117568284272">trekupmysleeve</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://baronessvondengler.tumblr.com/post/100136517091">baronessvondengler</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rosefire.tumblr.com/post/69338603544">rosefire</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://gaywitch-practisingabortion.tumblr.com/post/41093373479">gaywitch-practisingabortion</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://situationalstudent.tumblr.com/post/41059741741">situationalstudent</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://purplespacecats.tumblr.com/post/40886883054">purplespacecats</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://professorbutterscotch.tumblr.com/post/40864590978">professorbutterscotch</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://kiskolee.tumblr.com/post/40341955049">kiskolee</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>THIS.</p> </blockquote> <p>I have never thought about it in this context</p> <p>that’s actually really, really creepy.</p> </blockquote> <p>I… fuck.</p> </blockquote> <p>Yeah, basically.</p> </blockquote> <p>I once pointed this out to my mother and she just stared at me, in stunned silence for ages. </p> </blockquote> <p><b>There will always be a girl who is less sober, less secure, with less friends walking in a darker part of town. I want her safe just as much as I want me safe.</b></p> </blockquote> <p>THE BOLDED</p> </blockquote> <p>Holy shit</p> </blockquote> <p>“if you tell a child to look both ways before crossing the street, you are basically telling the driver to hit a different kid. ”</p> <p>“if you tell your friend not to travel alone at night, you are basically telling the murderer to kill someone else. ”</p> <p>“if you tell your husband to lock the door, you are basically telling the robber to steal from another house”</p> <p>thats how you sound. </p> <p>people will always commit crimes. it is up to us to learn preventative measures and reduce the chances of that happening. </p> <p>your feminism is flawed.</p> </blockquote> <p>If we teach everyone to defend themselves, everyone to be safe, then there is no “other girl”.</p> </blockquote> <p>Class, this is what’s called a <b>perfect solution fallacy</b>; it says that an improvement is wrong because it does not lead to an ideal result. Imagine someone saying that <b>we shouldn’t have police unless they have a 100% success rate</b>, and you have the idea.</p> <p>The interesting thing about this particular argument is that the people who agree with this are often feminists, and <b>feminism itself has yet to be able to prevent all rape</b>. The most prominent efforts of late towards this end have been increasingly hysterical and knee-jerk cries of “rape culture”, up to and including <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Qv-swaYWL0">parading women around in skimpy clothing for poorly-articulated reasons</a>. Strangely enough, feminism seems loath to address the potential causes of men raping women other than boilerplate mumblings about “Patriarchy” and “male entitlement” and “objectification” and suchlike, usually backed by <b>no scientific evidence at all</b>.</p> <p>Previously: <a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/48163447999/just-smith-i-think-ive-already-reblogged-this">Another rebuttal, by just-smith</a>. And <a href="http://hillofwater.tumblr.com/post/97539974356/just-smith-i-think-ive-already-reblogged-this">another, by HillOfWater</a>.<br/></p> </blockquote> <p>I’m sorry, did all these feminist just tell women to sacrifice themselves to a rapist, rather than defend themselves, because there is a chance, not an absolute, but a chance that the same rapist can go rape another girl?</p> <p>How about this, if a women fends off a rapist, and gets a look at the rapist’s face, she calls the police and get the rapist arrested. Then there is no more rapist, that undefended girl is now safe from ever having to deal with that rapist.</p> <p>Also, this assumes the rapist won’t go after both girls anyway. Rapist don’t rape then stop, the rapist has no moral compass, they will continue to raping. There is no one and done. If one girl “sacrifices” herself for the other, it will be in vain, because the rapist will then go for the other.</p> <p>So according to feminist, all women should get raped and should never try to prevent it.<br/></p> </blockquote> <p> Indeed</p> <p>I do believe these feminists just told women to give themselves to any potential rapist they come across - less they simply pass on the rape to someone else</p> <p>Fucking hell</p> </blockquote> <p>This thread really started off as a disaster. Taking precaution = wishing your avoided fate onto another. Imagine!</p> </blockquote>
Being Alone, Anaconda, and Creepy: Itsmotherswork @itsmotherswork
 If you're promoting changes to women's behaviour to "prevent"
 rape, you're really saying "make sure he rapes the other girl".
 15 Dec
<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://feministfailures.tumblr.com/post/128245622630">feministfailures</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://psiotechniqa.tumblr.com/post/128242295568">psiotechniqa</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://tkscz.tumblr.com/post/127121333541">tkscz</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/127115097134">siryouarebeingmocked</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://hellwasabor.tumblr.com/post/123039647872">hellwasabor</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://cheshireinthemiddle.tumblr.com/post/122816238917">cheshireinthemiddle</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://trekupmysleeve.tumblr.com/post/117568284272">trekupmysleeve</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://baronessvondengler.tumblr.com/post/100136517091">baronessvondengler</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rosefire.tumblr.com/post/69338603544">rosefire</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://situationalstudent.tumblr.com/post/41059741741">situationalstudent</a>:</p>
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<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://purplespacecats.tumblr.com/post/40886883054">purplespacecats</a>:</p>
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<p>THIS.</p>
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<p>I have never thought about it in this context</p>
<p>that’s actually really, really creepy.</p>
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<p>I… fuck.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Yeah, basically.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>I once pointed this out to my mother and she just stared at me, in stunned silence for ages. </p>
</blockquote>
<p><b>There will always be a girl who is less sober, less secure, with less friends walking in a darker part of town. I want her safe just as much as I want me safe.</b></p>
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<p>THE BOLDED</p>
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<p>Holy shit</p>
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<p>“if you tell a child to look both ways before crossing the street, you are basically telling the driver to hit a different kid. ”</p>
<p>“if you tell your friend not to travel alone at night, you are basically telling the murderer to kill someone else. ”</p>
<p>“if you tell your husband to lock the door, you are basically telling the robber to steal from another house”</p>
<p>thats how you sound. </p>
<p>people will always commit crimes. it is up to us to learn preventative measures and reduce the chances of that happening. </p>
<p>your feminism is flawed.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>If we teach everyone to defend themselves, everyone to be safe, then there is no “other girl”.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Class, this is what’s called a <b>perfect solution fallacy</b>; it says that an improvement is wrong because it does not lead to an ideal result. Imagine someone saying that <b>we shouldn’t have police unless they have a 100% success rate</b>, and you have the idea.</p>
<p>The interesting thing about this particular argument is that the people who agree with this are often feminists, and <b>feminism itself has yet to be able to prevent all rape</b>. The most prominent efforts of late towards this end have been increasingly hysterical and knee-jerk cries of “rape culture”, up to and including <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Qv-swaYWL0">parading women around in skimpy clothing for poorly-articulated reasons</a>. Strangely enough, feminism seems loath to address the potential causes of men raping women other than boilerplate mumblings about “Patriarchy” and “male entitlement” and “objectification” and suchlike, usually backed by <b>no scientific evidence at all</b>.</p>
<p>Previously: <a href="http://siryouarebeingmocked.tumblr.com/post/48163447999/just-smith-i-think-ive-already-reblogged-this">Another rebuttal, by just-smith</a>. And <a href="http://hillofwater.tumblr.com/post/97539974356/just-smith-i-think-ive-already-reblogged-this">another, by HillOfWater</a>.<br/></p>
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<p>I’m sorry, did all these feminist just tell women to sacrifice themselves to a rapist, rather than defend themselves, because there is a chance, not an absolute, but a chance that the same rapist can go rape another girl?</p>
<p>How about this, if a women fends off a rapist, and gets a look at the rapist’s face, she calls the police and get the rapist arrested. Then there is no more rapist, that undefended girl is now safe from ever having to deal with that rapist.</p>
<p>Also, this assumes the rapist won’t go after both girls anyway. Rapist don’t rape then stop, the rapist has no moral compass, they will continue to raping. There is no one and done. If one girl “sacrifices” herself for the other, it will be in vain, because the rapist will then go for the other.</p>
<p>So according to feminist, all women should get raped and should never try to prevent it.<br/></p>
</blockquote>
<p> Indeed</p>
<p>I do believe these feminists just told women to give themselves to any potential rapist they come across - less they simply pass on the rape to someone else</p>
<p>Fucking hell</p>
</blockquote>
<p>This thread really started off as a disaster. Taking precaution = wishing your avoided fate onto another. Imagine!</p>
</blockquote>

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