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    Target, Tumblr, and Blog: hotdogexe
sourcefieldmix:

hypocritically:

sourcefieldmix:

if you see this file on your desktop, do NOT open it.Ā 

what happens if i do

hot dog

    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Target, Tumblr, and Blog: hotdogexe
sourcefieldmix:

hypocritically:

sourcefieldmix:

if you see this file on your desktop, do NOT open it.Ā 

what happens if i do

hot dog

                
            

            
            
sourcefieldmix:

hypocritically:

sourcefieldmix:

if you see this file on your desktop, do NOT open it.Ā 

what happens if i do

hot dog


            
            
        

    



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            




    Anaconda, Betty White, and Chris Evans: bundibird:

wrangletangle:

stevenrogered:
Chris Evans helps Regina King up the stairs to the stage after her Oscars win
Okay listen up, all you dudes out there! Itā€™s time for some life lessons from Chris Evans.
Wonder why women are fine with this when he does it, but they find you opening a car door or offering to carry stuff for them annoying? Well, wonder no more! It works like this:
A large number of women have had to learn how to dodge and swerve and sometimes even slap away menā€™s hands from the time they hit puberty - and sometimes before. Ladies, cis and trans both, are unfortunately experienced at being groped, poked, prodded, ā€œhelpedā€, and otherwise humiliated and threatened by men. Then also thereā€™s the condescending attitude that of course we need a manā€™s help, and we should be grateful he offered it. 
No thanks.
Chris is doing something very different here, and youā€™ll see it in similar video clips of him at other events. You can read his mental process in his body language. He starts with just clapping and congratulating. He offers nothing until there is a need, which doesnā€™t happen here until Reginaā€™s shoe gets caught on her dress. Since women have literally tripped up the stairs at this ceremony several times over the years (because the shoe and clothing requirements are ridiculous), it is reasonable at this stage to think that my-shoe-caught-on-my-dress is a problem that actually needs to be addressed. This is when Chris offers.
How he offers matters. He starts with an open hand toward her, but this is a big no-no. Open hands are a red flag. Open hands grope and grab and shove. He quickly corrects by flipping his arm over and offering his forearm instead. This makes it her choice whether to grab on or ignore him. She doesnā€™t have to contend with a potentially threatening hand while sheā€™s also contending with her dress. 
He also bends down a bit to do this. I donā€™t know if youā€™ve noticed, but Chris is kind of a tall, beefy guy. Guys like that can be a bit intimidating without meaning to be, at least when theyā€™re up close. Also, his arm is a bit too high to be useful to her if he stays at his full height. So he bends down. This is even more visible in the video from him doing this for Betty White at the 2015 Oscars, because sheā€™s shorter than Regina, I guess.
He offers his arm for exactly as long as she leans on it. When she lets go, he steps back. This is a guy who isnā€™t interested in showing off how much she needs his help. Heā€™s just interested in helping, and when heā€™s not needed, heā€™s done. He goes back to sit down. He doesnā€™t hover.
Also, Regina King knows who Chris Evans is. His behavior at work thus far has certainly made it into the rumor mill, thus factoring into whether she accepts help from him. Is he a dudebro or jerk to women at work? That doesnā€™t appear to be the case.
Women are not helpless. Compared to men, our clothes are more often obstacles to getting where we need to go safely and with our dignity intact, but conversely, weā€™ve also learned to deal with that better than most men have. Itā€™s not that we never need or want help; like all people, we do sometimes need a hand. Itā€™s just that ā€œsome kinds of help are the kinds of help we all could do without.ā€
If you are offering help to a woman, first make sure she actually appears to be struggling. Second, make yourself as unthreatening as possible and let her do any touching, not the other way around. Third, make sure she can refuse without any consequences. And fourth, back off as soon as she doesnā€™t need you anymore and let the moment go.


I hadnā€™t even registered why exactly it was that he was so unthreatening in this and the Betty White assistance incidents, but youā€™re right. Itā€™s all in the way he helps. Itā€™s not that this is unthreatening behaviour ā€œbecause heā€™s Chris Evansā€ ā€“ its because his body language is genuinely unthreatening and merely helpful. 
A+ analysis ā€“ I hadnā€™t even registered the details of why and how this behaviour was 100% ok, while from another man (who probably would have gone about it differentky) it might not have been  

    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Anaconda, Betty White, and Chris Evans: bundibird:

wrangletangle:

stevenrogered:
Chris Evans helps Regina King up the stairs to the stage after her Oscars win
Okay listen up, all you dudes out there! Itā€™s time for some life lessons from Chris Evans.
Wonder why women are fine with this when he does it, but they find you opening a car door or offering to carry stuff for them annoying? Well, wonder no more! It works like this:
A large number of women have had to learn how to dodge and swerve and sometimes even slap away menā€™s hands from the time they hit puberty - and sometimes before. Ladies, cis and trans both, are unfortunately experienced at being groped, poked, prodded, ā€œhelpedā€, and otherwise humiliated and threatened by men. Then also thereā€™s the condescending attitude that of course we need a manā€™s help, and we should be grateful he offered it. 
No thanks.
Chris is doing something very different here, and youā€™ll see it in similar video clips of him at other events. You can read his mental process in his body language. He starts with just clapping and congratulating. He offers nothing until there is a need, which doesnā€™t happen here until Reginaā€™s shoe gets caught on her dress. Since women have literally tripped up the stairs at this ceremony several times over the years (because the shoe and clothing requirements are ridiculous), it is reasonable at this stage to think that my-shoe-caught-on-my-dress is a problem that actually needs to be addressed. This is when Chris offers.
How he offers matters. He starts with an open hand toward her, but this is a big no-no. Open hands are a red flag. Open hands grope and grab and shove. He quickly corrects by flipping his arm over and offering his forearm instead. This makes it her choice whether to grab on or ignore him. She doesnā€™t have to contend with a potentially threatening hand while sheā€™s also contending with her dress. 
He also bends down a bit to do this. I donā€™t know if youā€™ve noticed, but Chris is kind of a tall, beefy guy. Guys like that can be a bit intimidating without meaning to be, at least when theyā€™re up close. Also, his arm is a bit too high to be useful to her if he stays at his full height. So he bends down. This is even more visible in the video from him doing this for Betty White at the 2015 Oscars, because sheā€™s shorter than Regina, I guess.
He offers his arm for exactly as long as she leans on it. When she lets go, he steps back. This is a guy who isnā€™t interested in showing off how much she needs his help. Heā€™s just interested in helping, and when heā€™s not needed, heā€™s done. He goes back to sit down. He doesnā€™t hover.
Also, Regina King knows who Chris Evans is. His behavior at work thus far has certainly made it into the rumor mill, thus factoring into whether she accepts help from him. Is he a dudebro or jerk to women at work? That doesnā€™t appear to be the case.
Women are not helpless. Compared to men, our clothes are more often obstacles to getting where we need to go safely and with our dignity intact, but conversely, weā€™ve also learned to deal with that better than most men have. Itā€™s not that we never need or want help; like all people, we do sometimes need a hand. Itā€™s just that ā€œsome kinds of help are the kinds of help we all could do without.ā€
If you are offering help to a woman, first make sure she actually appears to be struggling. Second, make yourself as unthreatening as possible and let her do any touching, not the other way around. Third, make sure she can refuse without any consequences. And fourth, back off as soon as she doesnā€™t need you anymore and let the moment go.


I hadnā€™t even registered why exactly it was that he was so unthreatening in this and the Betty White assistance incidents, but youā€™re right. Itā€™s all in the way he helps. Itā€™s not that this is unthreatening behaviour ā€œbecause heā€™s Chris Evansā€ ā€“ its because his body language is genuinely unthreatening and merely helpful. 
A+ analysis ā€“ I hadnā€™t even registered the details of why and how this behaviour was 100% ok, while from another man (who probably would have gone about it differentky) it might not have been  

                
                

                
            

            
            
bundibird:

wrangletangle:

stevenrogered:
Chris Evans helps Regina King up the stairs to the stage after her Oscars win
Okay listen up, all...

            
            
        

    



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            




    Bad, Community, and Funny: ..ooo Verizon
 11:48 PM
 269010.
 conversational-allstar + grump..
 grumpsepticplier
 Samantha/ 18 years old/ Loves the Game
 Grumps/NSP/Starbomb
 Not following each other
 Today at 11:43 PM
 grumpsepticplier
 Hey. I'm only asking cause l saw this in
 the tag. But do you still do game
 grumps rps?
 conversational-allstar
 no i. i dont do game grumps rps
 conversational-allstar
 i have no idea what would give you that
 mpression
 im honestly kind of baffled
 000 T-Mobile
 12:46 AM
 game grumps rp
 Follow
 -o
 Write a message
 GIF

 ..ooo Verizon
 11:48 PM
 269010.
 conversational-allstar + grump..
 000 T-Mobile
 2:46 AM
 ā‘£ 92%-
 game grumps rp
 Follow
 bother to poke holes in it..
 [cluttering noise of someone tripping in the
 dark] "DAMMIT!!"
 #windwaker #rp meme #rp prompts #rp starters
 203 notes
 conversational-allstar Follow
 game grumps open rp pm me
 if interested
 68 notes
 rxsebxd Follow
 Arin Hanson Sentence Starters
 LOZ Sequelitis Edition
 Hey, uh... hey, what are you doing over
 there?
 Write a message
 GIF

 ..ooo Verizon
 11:50 PNM
 24%)
 conversational-allstar + grump..
 Because l saw this. It is you isn't it?
 conversational-allstar
 well that sure is me
 i think that was a joke i made at some
 point
 i didnt think there was an actual game
 grumps roleplaying community
 im. sorry
 grumpsepticplier
 Well I'm sorry but to me that's not very
 funny. At least not now it isn't.
 conversational-allstar
 my bad man
 grumpsepticplier
 Yeah. It is your bad
 Say something
 GIF
genjimain:

transexualizer:

so this happened last night amd i was too tired to process how bizzare this was b ut

yeah. it is your bad.

    

        
        
        
        
        
        
        
        
    

    

        

            
            

                
                Bad, Community, and Funny: ..ooo Verizon
 11:48 PM
 269010.
 conversational-allstar + grump..
 grumpsepticplier
 Samantha/ 18 years old/ Loves the Game
 Grumps/NSP/Starbomb
 Not following each other
 Today at 11:43 PM
 grumpsepticplier
 Hey. I'm only asking cause l saw this in
 the tag. But do you still do game
 grumps rps?
 conversational-allstar
 no i. i dont do game grumps rps
 conversational-allstar
 i have no idea what would give you that
 mpression
 im honestly kind of baffled
 000 T-Mobile
 12:46 AM
 game grumps rp
 Follow
 -o
 Write a message
 GIF

 ..ooo Verizon
 11:48 PM
 269010.
 conversational-allstar + grump..
 000 T-Mobile
 2:46 AM
 ā‘£ 92%-
 game grumps rp
 Follow
 bother to poke holes in it..
 [cluttering noise of someone tripping in the
 dark] "DAMMIT!!"
 #windwaker #rp meme #rp prompts #rp starters
 203 notes
 conversational-allstar Follow
 game grumps open rp pm me
 if interested
 68 notes
 rxsebxd Follow
 Arin Hanson Sentence Starters
 LOZ Sequelitis Edition
 Hey, uh... hey, what are you doing over
 there?
 Write a message
 GIF

 ..ooo Verizon
 11:50 PNM
 24%)
 conversational-allstar + grump..
 Because l saw this. It is you isn't it?
 conversational-allstar
 well that sure is me
 i think that was a joke i made at some
 point
 i didnt think there was an actual game
 grumps roleplaying community
 im. sorry
 grumpsepticplier
 Well I'm sorry but to me that's not very
 funny. At least not now it isn't.
 conversational-allstar
 my bad man
 grumpsepticplier
 Yeah. It is your bad
 Say something
 GIF
genjimain:

transexualizer:

so this happened last night amd i was too tired to process how bizzare this was b ut

yeah. it is your bad.

                
            

            
            
genjimain:

transexualizer:

so this happened last night amd i was too tired to process how bizzare this was b ut

yeah. it is your bad.


            
            
        

    



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            



        

            
        
        

            




    Target, Tumblr, and Blog: ask-badlydrawnhomestuck:

ask-badlydrawnhomestuck:open RPĀ 
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                Target, Tumblr, and Blog: ask-badlydrawnhomestuck:

ask-badlydrawnhomestuck:open RPĀ 
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ask-badlydrawnhomestuck:

ask-badlydrawnhomestuck:open RPĀ 
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