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Baseball, Dating, and Future: Dear future wife, it is okay to be strong and independent and be vulnerable at the same time. FB/IG:@Blackcitygirl So what if a man falls in love with what he does and gives to a woman?! How does THAT affect everyday life for you, a single woman busy dating yourself and paying your own bills, what men do is none of your business right? Wrong. You see a lot of women have become so independent that when MEN offer to GIVE and DO for them they dismiss their offers, as if all men have an ulterior motive. For instance in the work place, she'll be carrying something heavy and he'll ask "do you need help?" she'll quickly say "no I'm fine" or he'll offer to open the door and she'll say "hey I can open my own doors" what this translates to him is "STAY AWAY FROM ME" whereas in your mind you're just showing how capable you are as a woman. Add to the fact sometimes you're tired and stressed and have on your screw face 😑I'm totally guilty of this btw so a few weeks ago no word of a lie, I decided to do an experiment, every time a guy offered to help I showed him a smile and instead of snapping I said "yeah sure thanks" let me tell you ladies the results have been ASTOUNDING in one month 1. I was carrying like 5 grocery bags on my way home, wearing no make up and a baseball cap and it was raining and a guy asked if I needed help w- my bags, normally I'd roll my eyes and think "he just thirsty" but I accepted and once he'd dropped off my bags he said "I've never done this before" 2. I got into an argument in a cheap hardware store over my headphones and a random guy intervened on my behalf, normally I'd have "given him the side eye" but I smiled and said thank you and he bought me a new pair of headphones 3. After smiling and getting into a convo with an older man one lunchtime, mid way through our convo he asked "what do you wanna eat I'll get you" I was floored!!! None of the guys above asked for my number! Nope there was no cleavage bearing "wink wink" sexually suggestive behavior, this was straight me being a warm and friendly version of myself. As strong and educated as you maybe it pays to be VULNERABLE in the presence of men. You may not need help and that man may not be your future husband but being open to men giving and doing for you starts in your SINGLE SEASON. Blackcitygirl
Baseball, Dating, and Future: Dear future wife, it is okay to be
 strong and independent and be
 vulnerable at the same time.
 FB/IG:@Blackcitygirl
So what if a man falls in love with what he does and gives to a woman?! How does THAT affect everyday life for you, a single woman busy dating yourself and paying your own bills, what men do is none of your business right? Wrong. You see a lot of women have become so independent that when MEN offer to GIVE and DO for them they dismiss their offers, as if all men have an ulterior motive. For instance in the work place, she'll be carrying something heavy and he'll ask "do you need help?" she'll quickly say "no I'm fine" or he'll offer to open the door and she'll say "hey I can open my own doors" what this translates to him is "STAY AWAY FROM ME" whereas in your mind you're just showing how capable you are as a woman. Add to the fact sometimes you're tired and stressed and have on your screw face 😑I'm totally guilty of this btw so a few weeks ago no word of a lie, I decided to do an experiment, every time a guy offered to help I showed him a smile and instead of snapping I said "yeah sure thanks" let me tell you ladies the results have been ASTOUNDING in one month 1. I was carrying like 5 grocery bags on my way home, wearing no make up and a baseball cap and it was raining and a guy asked if I needed help w- my bags, normally I'd roll my eyes and think "he just thirsty" but I accepted and once he'd dropped off my bags he said "I've never done this before" 2. I got into an argument in a cheap hardware store over my headphones and a random guy intervened on my behalf, normally I'd have "given him the side eye" but I smiled and said thank you and he bought me a new pair of headphones 3. After smiling and getting into a convo with an older man one lunchtime, mid way through our convo he asked "what do you wanna eat I'll get you" I was floored!!! None of the guys above asked for my number! Nope there was no cleavage bearing "wink wink" sexually suggestive behavior, this was straight me being a warm and friendly version of myself. As strong and educated as you maybe it pays to be VULNERABLE in the presence of men. You may not need help and that man may not be your future husband but being open to men giving and doing for you starts in your SINGLE SEASON. Blackcitygirl

So what if a man falls in love with what he does and gives to a woman?! How does THAT affect everyday life for you, a single woman busy dati...

Af, Bad, and Dad: When you check to see if they've opened your message yet & it says 32 mins ago The only real way to hurt a dudes ego is to leave him on read. Sorry fellas these secrets gotta get out somehow. I was messing around with a blonde haired big tittied Dominican shortie. She was bad af, as all latinas are🌢. I was snap chatting her pics of the pancakes I had made, she was feeling me. I was flexin my cooking skills🍽. Even dropped a banana slice in that hoe. Get it all nutritious. I send her a snap of the chocolate milk I was getting ready to pour into the pancakes. Out of nowhere ya boy gets a titty pic. I did a little happy dance and ran up the stairs to my room. Positioned a long banana into my shorts and took a pic🍌. My cock looked A1. I thank the banana farmers of Honduras πŸ‡­πŸ‡³ . Sent the pic. She opens it as soon as it's delivered. She doesn't answer. My first thought is, she fell into her toilet and drowned🚣🏽. A nigga was getting impatient. It's 3 hours later and my snap is still open. I'm mad af cause ya boy was feeling his banana cockπŸ‘€. I text her later asking why she was ignoring me. She says my dick was unusually large and should go to the doctor and get it checked out for tumors. Ay fuck that banana. I tell her I'm really packing bout 5.1in of some trash dick. She tells me to slide thru. We cuddle and eat popcorn on her couch while her dad cuts his toenails next to me :) I never go back and stick to using my own dick for picsπŸ™ŒπŸΌ lesson learned
Af, Bad, and Dad: When you check to see if they've
 opened your message yet & it says 32
 mins ago
The only real way to hurt a dudes ego is to leave him on read. Sorry fellas these secrets gotta get out somehow. I was messing around with a blonde haired big tittied Dominican shortie. She was bad af, as all latinas are🌢. I was snap chatting her pics of the pancakes I had made, she was feeling me. I was flexin my cooking skills🍽. Even dropped a banana slice in that hoe. Get it all nutritious. I send her a snap of the chocolate milk I was getting ready to pour into the pancakes. Out of nowhere ya boy gets a titty pic. I did a little happy dance and ran up the stairs to my room. Positioned a long banana into my shorts and took a pic🍌. My cock looked A1. I thank the banana farmers of Honduras πŸ‡­πŸ‡³ . Sent the pic. She opens it as soon as it's delivered. She doesn't answer. My first thought is, she fell into her toilet and drowned🚣🏽. A nigga was getting impatient. It's 3 hours later and my snap is still open. I'm mad af cause ya boy was feeling his banana cockπŸ‘€. I text her later asking why she was ignoring me. She says my dick was unusually large and should go to the doctor and get it checked out for tumors. Ay fuck that banana. I tell her I'm really packing bout 5.1in of some trash dick. She tells me to slide thru. We cuddle and eat popcorn on her couch while her dad cuts his toenails next to me :) I never go back and stick to using my own dick for picsπŸ™ŒπŸΌ lesson learned

The only real way to hurt a dudes ego is to leave him on read. Sorry fellas these secrets gotta get out somehow. I was messing around with a...