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Crazy, Family, and Friends: SAMSUNg SAMSUNG petalssoft: I need to get out of hereI have never made any type of post like this and it’s going to be long and annoying but I just can’t fucking take this anymore. I’m Sophie, I am a 19 year old latina girl who has been living with an abusive man double my age for the last couple of years after running away. I feel trapped here and I have no means to leave safely at all. I’m mentally ill and on disability which doesn’t leave me with any room to get away from him and he is extremely controlling even when it comes to money and what I should have to owe him for living with him. I have no family to lean on and the friends I did have, he has cut me off completely from them. He’s smashed my phone when he got paranoid leaving me with nothing and no one. He monitored my phone and my social media so I have had to make separate accounts to try and hide him from seeing what I post. Not only that but he is racist, he hates women, believes in white supremacy, thinks that all girls should only be with men and give themselves to men whether they want to or not.. it just goes on and on and never stops. He always talks about genocide, thinks women ask for too much, ect. He has actually gone to jail in the past for assault. He threatens me with violence if I don’t do the things he asks for all the time and my mental health has gone downhill since I came here. There are so many things that have happened that I can’t even talk about.I am always being taken advantage of, threatened, manipulated into sex, into giving him money, just so that I won’t be out on the streets with no where to go. This type of life is making me want to kill myself if I can’t get a change soon but I am terrified of the thought of leaving him. I want to get a restraining order so that he can’t come after me, but if I do that I will have no place to live because I can’t afford the apartment I live in if he’s not here. I need help getting out. There is no way I can afford to pay a deposit, pet fee, and first months rent on a cheaper apartment with the income and type of life I have right now. He knows about how much money I bring in a month, and with my bills and everything I have very little. I know what I need is a lot, my goal is around $500 dollars even though that won’t begin to cover it, I don’t expect much help at all. Even a couple dollars I have that I can hide from him will hopefully add up.I was at risk of being homeless when I met him because of leaving my family. I thought that because he had issues too that he was a good person at heart but I can’t take the way that he treats me anymore, it has only gotten worse. If you don’t believe me, or think I shouldn’t be asking for this kind of help or think this is all my fault just block me. I have had too many people act like I am over exaggerating or that I’m crazy. I will just block you. my paypal email is sophimazziotti@gmail.com if you can help at all and if you cant i understand I know everyone is struggling and other people need more help than I do but I would be so thankful if you would please please reblog this post for me. Thank you.
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I need to get out of hereI have never made any type of post like this and it’s going to be long and annoying but I just can’t fucking take this anymore. I’m Sophie, I am a 19 year old latina girl who has been living with an abusive man double my age for the last couple of years after running away. I feel trapped here and I have no means to leave safely at all. I’m mentally ill and on disability which doesn’t leave me with any room to get away from him and he is extremely controlling even when it comes to money and what I should have to owe him for living with him. I have no family to lean on and the friends I did have, he has cut me off completely from them. He’s smashed my phone when he got paranoid leaving me with nothing and no one. He monitored my phone and my social media so I have had to make separate accounts to try and hide him from seeing what I post. Not only that but he is racist, he hates women, believes in white supremacy, thinks that all girls should only be with men and give themselves to men whether they want to or not.. it just goes on and on and never stops. He always talks about genocide, thinks women ask for too much, ect. He has actually gone to jail in the past for assault. He threatens me with violence if I don’t do the things he asks for all the time and my mental health has gone downhill since I came here. There are so many things that have happened that I can’t even talk about.I am always being taken advantage of, threatened, manipulated into sex, into giving him money, just so that I won’t be out on the streets with no where to go. This type of life is making me want to kill myself if I can’t get a change soon but I am terrified of the thought of leaving him. I want to get a restraining order so that he can’t come after me, but if I do that I will have no place to live because I can’t afford the apartment I live in if he’s not here. I need help getting out. There is no way I can afford to pay a deposit, pet fee, and first months rent on a cheaper apartment with the income and type of life I have right now. He knows about how much money I bring in a month, and with my bills and everything I have very little. I know what I need is a lot, my goal is around $500 dollars even though that won’t begin to cover it, I don’t expect much help at all. Even a couple dollars I have that I can hide from him will hopefully add up.I was at risk of being homeless when I met him because of leaving my family. I thought that because he had issues too that he was a good person at heart but I can’t take the way that he treats me anymore, it has only gotten worse. If you don’t believe me, or think I shouldn’t be asking for this kind of help or think this is all my fault just block me. I have had too many people act like I am over exaggerating or that I’m crazy. I will just block you. my paypal email is sophimazziotti@gmail.com if you can help at all and if you cant i understand I know everyone is struggling and other people need more help than I do but I would be so thankful if you would please please reblog this post for me. Thank you.

petalssoft: I need to get out of hereI have never made any type of post like this and it’s going to be long and annoying but I just can’t ...

Ass, Cute, and Dude: RI 85% 1 1 :24 PM Danteh 23.3K Likes Tweets Tweets& replies Media Likes Carter @Carter_OW 5h This is clearly the talk of a teen that is being taken advantage of and cannot fend for herself in this DANGEROUS internet world CARTER? These are dms of her with a closeeee friend of mine so in there !!! if he tries anything i can just take screenshots and ruin his career within one tweet Feb 9 i wish i was older tbh NO LMNAO i would DIE if i got a chance to date an OwL player THATS NOT THE PLAY Feb 9 Feb 9 . what makes u so interested in OWL ppl yes Feb 9 why is that the end all be all for u dreamkazpers a cool guy tho i АНА Feb 9 Feb 9 for some reason greasy ass gamers just get me goin that's hella cool that he'd do that for u 泄 ídk i love videogames and cute boys so its a good combination Feb 9 Feb 9 i get u i get u yeah dude hes so nice?m is he a lot older than u oh like is that actually not possible or the female part Feb 9 oh b oy his age isnt confirmed. he could be 18 or he could be lke 22. inm almosttttt 15 Feb 9 not THAt nice of a person LMAO my parents have an 11 year age gap but they both met after Feb 9 . Feb 9 he hasnt attempted anything so far so we're good 45 0 86 332 San Francisco Shock-. @SF.. . 6h The grind never ends! @Shock_Architect heavy practice time in this week Watch out @LAValiant, we are conm and the rest of the squad have put some Danteh 23.3K Likes Tweets Tweets& replies Media Likes Joji @Jojizhang 5h Replying to @aimbotcalvin Her: 'I'm only 14' Me: FUEL 92 tl 10 115 imwatchingyoufailatgames @4... 4h @Danteh don't worry my dude I got you 08 18 1 125 o owlshitpostgalore: So Dante is unstanned and deleted from my life for liking tweets that dont take the DK situation seriously and patronize the victim (:
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owlshitpostgalore:

So Dante is unstanned and deleted from my life for liking tweets that dont take the DK situation seriously and patronize the victim (:

owlshitpostgalore: So Dante is unstanned and deleted from my life for liking tweets that dont take the DK situation seriously and patronize...

Bad, Creepy, and Definitely: <p><a href="http://askflyleaf.tumblr.com/post/171509084194/jesteroffire-askflyleaf-libertarirynn-so" class="tumblr_blog">askflyleaf</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a href="http://jesteroffire.tumblr.com/post/171509055550/askflyleaf-libertarirynn-so-this-is-rebecca" class="tumblr_blog">jesteroffire</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a href="http://askflyleaf.tumblr.com/post/171508780609/libertarirynn-so-this-is-rebecca-black-now" class="tumblr_blog">askflyleaf</a>:</p><blockquote> <p><a href="https://libertarirynn.tumblr.com/post/171508725449/so-this-is-rebecca-black-now-like-friday" class="tumblr_blog">libertarirynn</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>So this is Rebecca Black now. Like “Friday” Rebecca Black.</p></blockquote> <p>Huh. Little baby has grown up. </p> </blockquote> <p>Amazing what maturing can do.</p></blockquote> <p>I feel bad for her. Like… I didn’t watch Friday until… Within the last year. Just seemed like it was a teenage girl doing some dumb stuff. (It was) never understood the hate. </p></blockquote> <p>I mean the original song definitely sucked but that was more the fault of that creepy guy who owns the record company that offers to make 13-year-olds famous for a couple thousand dollars. He has a bunch of other videos of similarly young girls on YouTube singing godawful songs. I think it’s essentially a scam and to be honest I get strong pedo vibes from the guy. </p><p>She was just silly 13-year-old who wanted to be a singer and got taken advantage of, she certainly didn’t deserve fucking death threats. I’m glad she seems to be doing all right for herself now.</p>
Bad, Creepy, and Definitely: <p><a href="http://askflyleaf.tumblr.com/post/171509084194/jesteroffire-askflyleaf-libertarirynn-so" class="tumblr_blog">askflyleaf</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a href="http://jesteroffire.tumblr.com/post/171509055550/askflyleaf-libertarirynn-so-this-is-rebecca" class="tumblr_blog">jesteroffire</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a href="http://askflyleaf.tumblr.com/post/171508780609/libertarirynn-so-this-is-rebecca-black-now" class="tumblr_blog">askflyleaf</a>:</p><blockquote>
<p><a href="https://libertarirynn.tumblr.com/post/171508725449/so-this-is-rebecca-black-now-like-friday" class="tumblr_blog">libertarirynn</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p>So this is Rebecca Black now. Like “Friday” Rebecca Black.</p></blockquote>

<p>Huh. Little baby has grown up. </p>
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<p>Amazing what maturing can do.</p></blockquote>

<p>I feel bad for her. Like… I didn’t watch Friday until… Within the last year. Just seemed like it was a teenage girl doing some dumb stuff. (It was) never understood the hate.  </p></blockquote>

<p>I mean the original song definitely sucked but that was more the fault of that creepy guy who owns the record company that offers to make 13-year-olds famous for a couple thousand dollars. He has a bunch of other videos of similarly young girls on YouTube singing godawful songs. I think it’s essentially a scam and to be honest I get strong pedo vibes from the guy. </p><p>She was just silly 13-year-old who wanted to be a singer and got taken advantage of, she certainly didn’t deserve fucking death threats. I’m glad she seems to be doing all right for herself now.</p>

askflyleaf: jesteroffire: askflyleaf: libertarirynn: So this is Rebecca Black now. Like “Friday” Rebecca Black. Huh. Little baby has gro...

Android, Ass, and Chill: You too young if you don't knovw what these are. GAME BOY NONINNCE Mark @2EZ_HBM l think psps failed because it was a head of its time. If they dropped the PSP in 2018 with PlayStation 4 games it would go crazy This is probably the truest post I’ve seen. The PSP was like Trunks coming from the future to warn us other hand held systems would become shitty and extinct. The psp was the most clutch gaming system ever. Once I got WiFi at my crib porn became 100000 times more accessible. I use to be in the back of church playing nba ballers, pursuit force, nfl streetz, ratchet and clank. I use to be wavy as fuck pulling out my psp and playing music. The speakers were loud as hell. I think one time I left my psp at home heard my playlist while at school.I use to have to record they music with my phone by the radio in the car. Sometimes my mom wouldn’t stop talking or she would turn down the volume towards the end of the song to start parking. Oh the simpler times. I use to have the mean ass dragon ball z screen savers on my psp. Movies on deck for when a hoe wanted to Netflix and chill. Screen was wide like I was at a movie theater too. I should’ve taken advantage of this God sent technology. I coulda got hella pussy with this shit. I’m not gonna even disrespect my psp and say it was the first android. I ain’t gonna lie them games use to durable as fuck. I put my gta in the microwave and it still worked.
Android, Ass, and Chill: You too young if you don't knovw
 what these are.
 GAME BOY NONINNCE
 Mark
 @2EZ_HBM
 l think psps failed because it was a
 head of its time. If they dropped the
 PSP in 2018 with PlayStation 4
 games it would go crazy
This is probably the truest post I’ve seen. The PSP was like Trunks coming from the future to warn us other hand held systems would become shitty and extinct. The psp was the most clutch gaming system ever. Once I got WiFi at my crib porn became 100000 times more accessible. I use to be in the back of church playing nba ballers, pursuit force, nfl streetz, ratchet and clank. I use to be wavy as fuck pulling out my psp and playing music. The speakers were loud as hell. I think one time I left my psp at home heard my playlist while at school.I use to have to record they music with my phone by the radio in the car. Sometimes my mom wouldn’t stop talking or she would turn down the volume towards the end of the song to start parking. Oh the simpler times. I use to have the mean ass dragon ball z screen savers on my psp. Movies on deck for when a hoe wanted to Netflix and chill. Screen was wide like I was at a movie theater too. I should’ve taken advantage of this God sent technology. I coulda got hella pussy with this shit. I’m not gonna even disrespect my psp and say it was the first android. I ain’t gonna lie them games use to durable as fuck. I put my gta in the microwave and it still worked.

This is probably the truest post I’ve seen. The PSP was like Trunks coming from the future to warn us other hand held systems would become s...

Love, Memes, and News: Ishmahil Blagrove had some strong words for the mainstream media outside #grenfelltower and everyone cheered "I like you fried, boiled - any which way I can have you motherfuckers" 😳 I am trying my best to put forward important information without being an asshole or causing shock and panic. ❤️ - In other news... If you are a part of any of the recovery teams at GrenfellTower then be well aware of unscrupulous unemotional beings who are thinking logically and actively infiltrating your groups to divide and rule your people for their boss. This is a very real threat in the days-weeks-months-years ahead and I have included leads to information detailing where this has happened in the past if you wish to do further research. - My main point here is to be ORGANISED, CENTRALISED and VIGILANT so as to be aware of any external or internal threats to justice and to move forward with a common aim. Also be aware of human rights lawyers who are in fact agents during civil proceedings to provide damage limitation for the government and state. - Peace, love and unity will be taken advantage of so all that 'love for all' shit becomes dangerous. Act logically not emotionally and I am wishing all the best 🙏 - Cointelpro (American in name but its operation is used by many governments enshrined in different terms) FTAC (Similar to cointelpro but they section you under the mental health act if you are a threat to "VIPs" aka government agents) GovernmentShills Misinformation
Love, Memes, and News: Ishmahil Blagrove had some strong
 words for the mainstream media
 outside
 #grenfelltower and everyone
 cheered
"I like you fried, boiled - any which way I can have you motherfuckers" 😳 I am trying my best to put forward important information without being an asshole or causing shock and panic. ❤️ - In other news... If you are a part of any of the recovery teams at GrenfellTower then be well aware of unscrupulous unemotional beings who are thinking logically and actively infiltrating your groups to divide and rule your people for their boss. This is a very real threat in the days-weeks-months-years ahead and I have included leads to information detailing where this has happened in the past if you wish to do further research. - My main point here is to be ORGANISED, CENTRALISED and VIGILANT so as to be aware of any external or internal threats to justice and to move forward with a common aim. Also be aware of human rights lawyers who are in fact agents during civil proceedings to provide damage limitation for the government and state. - Peace, love and unity will be taken advantage of so all that 'love for all' shit becomes dangerous. Act logically not emotionally and I am wishing all the best 🙏 - Cointelpro (American in name but its operation is used by many governments enshrined in different terms) FTAC (Similar to cointelpro but they section you under the mental health act if you are a threat to "VIPs" aka government agents) GovernmentShills Misinformation

"I like you fried, boiled - any which way I can have you motherfuckers" 😳 I am trying my best to put forward important information without b...

Af, Bitch, and Cheetos: The unfaithful bitch" starter kit LIMEARITA Many mistakes I've made in life...but there's this one mistake that I don't think will top any mistake in my life ever. That mistake was dating a chick with nipple piercings that smokes newports. I met her in a smoke shop right by Walmart. She helped me out with picking a glass piece then we exchanged Snapchats. Talked to her a total of 3 days via Snapchat. Sent each other all types of shit I sent her my extensive meme collections and she listed out the problems she had in her life since her dad left. We bonded those three days. I tell her to slide thru my place. She was shy at first but I knew she was playing games. Told her I had a whole cabinet full of hot cheetos she couldn't resist. She suggested that we smoked first before eating them, which we did. She got High af and made moves on your boy at his most vulnerable stage. I think I got taken advantage of. Well we did the do while tom and jerry played in the back. Skipping to day two she said she wanted to stay a week with me. I was flabbergasted. I do not want the smell of newports and Victoria secrets in my house. But being the bitch i am, I told her me casa tu casa. I step into the bathroom there's tampons, birth control pills (the Walmart brand), and her makeup is in the bathtub I knew I had fucked up. I go to the kitchen and she's waiting for me with some eggs and toast. I fuck with it. I scrape the egg into my toast and her dumbass left the shells in the eggs. I was mad hungry so I swallow it and wash it down with some ice cold chocolate milk. Ay real talk chocolate milk is the best. Oh and 4 days later my dick started to burn so i confronted her about it and never heard from her again. Smh bitch if you reading this rn I just wanna tell you your punnai bomb af and come ruin my life again 😍😍😍😍😍
Af, Bitch, and Cheetos: The unfaithful bitch" starter kit
 LIMEARITA
Many mistakes I've made in life...but there's this one mistake that I don't think will top any mistake in my life ever. That mistake was dating a chick with nipple piercings that smokes newports. I met her in a smoke shop right by Walmart. She helped me out with picking a glass piece then we exchanged Snapchats. Talked to her a total of 3 days via Snapchat. Sent each other all types of shit I sent her my extensive meme collections and she listed out the problems she had in her life since her dad left. We bonded those three days. I tell her to slide thru my place. She was shy at first but I knew she was playing games. Told her I had a whole cabinet full of hot cheetos she couldn't resist. She suggested that we smoked first before eating them, which we did. She got High af and made moves on your boy at his most vulnerable stage. I think I got taken advantage of. Well we did the do while tom and jerry played in the back. Skipping to day two she said she wanted to stay a week with me. I was flabbergasted. I do not want the smell of newports and Victoria secrets in my house. But being the bitch i am, I told her me casa tu casa. I step into the bathroom there's tampons, birth control pills (the Walmart brand), and her makeup is in the bathtub I knew I had fucked up. I go to the kitchen and she's waiting for me with some eggs and toast. I fuck with it. I scrape the egg into my toast and her dumbass left the shells in the eggs. I was mad hungry so I swallow it and wash it down with some ice cold chocolate milk. Ay real talk chocolate milk is the best. Oh and 4 days later my dick started to burn so i confronted her about it and never heard from her again. Smh bitch if you reading this rn I just wanna tell you your punnai bomb af and come ruin my life again 😍😍😍😍😍

Many mistakes I've made in life...but there's this one mistake that I don't think will top any mistake in my life ever. That mistake was dat...

Ass, Bad, and Books: Alanya Kolberg 19 April at 21:27 MY CHILD IS NOT REQUIRED TO SHARE WITH YOURS As soon as we walked in the park, Carson was approached by at least 6 boys, all at once demanding that he share his transformer, Minecraft figure, and truck. He was visibly overwhelmed and clutched them to his chest as the boys reached for them. He looked at me. "You can tell them no, Carson," I said. "Just say no. You don't have to say anything else." Of course, as soon as he said no, the boys ran to tattle to me that he was not sharing. I said, "He doesn't have to share with you. He said no. If he wants to share, he will!" That got me some dirty looks from other parents. Here is the thing though: If I, an adult, walked into the park eating a sandwich, aml required to share my sandwich with strangers in the park? No! Would any well-mannered adult, a stranger, reach out to help themselves to my sandwich, and get huffy if I pulled it away? No again. <p><a href="http://matt-ruins-feminisms-shit.tumblr.com/post/159985485021/dainslefsblog-scrawnyflannelman-kasaron" class="tumblr_blog">matt-ruins-feminisms-shit</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a href="https://dainslefsblog.tumblr.com/post/159983920386/scrawnyflannelman-kasaron" class="tumblr_blog">dainslefsblog</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="https://scrawnyflannelman.tumblr.com/post/159982671121/kasaron-coca-cola-official-fierceawakening" class="tumblr_blog">scrawnyflannelman</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://kasaron.tumblr.com/post/159981254195/coca-cola-official-fierceawakening" class="tumblr_blog">kasaron</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="https://coca-cola-official.tumblr.com/post/159981165906/fierceawakening-dendritic-trees" class="tumblr_blog">coca-cola-official</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://fierceawakening.tumblr.com/post/159977672760/dendritic-trees-northstarfan-monteyjames91" class="tumblr_blog">fierceawakening</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://dendritic-trees.tumblr.com/post/159977380274" class="tumblr_blog">dendritic-trees</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://northstarfan.tumblr.com/post/159975677411/monteyjames91-bogleech-topographygo" class="tumblr_blog">northstarfan</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="https://monteyjames91.tumblr.com/post/159975415692/bogleech-topographygo-bogleech-mom-of-the" class="tumblr_blog">monteyjames91</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://bogleech.tumblr.com/post/159968948333/topographygo-bogleech-mom-of-the-year-where" class="tumblr_blog">bogleech</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://topographygo.tumblr.com/post/159968788412/bogleech-mom-of-the-year-where-was-this-attitude" class="tumblr_blog">topographygo</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://bogleech.tumblr.com/post/159968630278/mom-of-the-year-where-was-this-attitude-when-i" class="tumblr_blog">bogleech</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>MOM OF THE YEAR. WHERE WAS THIS ATTITUDE WHEN I WAS IN GRADE SCHOOL.<br/></p></blockquote> <p>This is so weird, it’s a park? Who the hell thinks that a child they don’t know is obligated to share their possessions with their kids just cuz they play in a public space?</p> </blockquote> <p>It might vary with where you live and when you were a child but when I was tiny, every adult from teachers to family to television characters hammered into me non-stop that all good people ALWAYS SHARE EVERYTHING no matter what and only bad people keep even a single thing for themselves. “Sharing is caring” was the phrase repeated ad nauseum by songs and books and cartoons aimed at us toddlers.</p> <p>I remember my own uncle just insisting I give him literally half of my dessert once to just sort of test and make sure my parents were teaching me “right” and copping a massive attitude when I said no. <br/></p> <p>My mom actually sided with me there but most other adults I knew would never have done so. They’d have just lectured this small child on how selfish it is to not let just anyone and everyone have what you have.<br/></p> </blockquote> <p>I would teach my kid this</p> <p>If you don’t know them like that and they trying to put hands on your stuff before even asking you, you have the right to tell them no and I will cosign</p> </blockquote> <p>Amen. There’s a difference between teaching a kid to be generous and training them to be taken advantage of. A little boy getting mobbed because strangers wanted something he had – and not one adult saying anything about it! – makes me think far less of the parents of those kids than Ms. Kolberg. <br/></p> </blockquote> <p>Definitely. There’s a big difference between teaching kids to share shared objects, like toys in a preschool, and their own personal things.</p> </blockquote> <p>Yep.</p> <p>I remember my friend insisting I share my hard to find action figures with her. She took one with her somewhere and lost it. (I don’t think she was quite mean enough to outright steal it.)</p> <p>Just because someone really likes something you have and says SHAAAAAAAARE doesn’t mean you should.</p> </blockquote> <p>Private property</p> </blockquote> <p>Taking notes; these are things I hadn’t considered when raising someone.</p> </blockquote> <p>This is super important. <br/>It’s DANGEROUS to teach your children that “sharing” means they get other people’s stuff. That’s not what the lesson should be.</p> </blockquote> <p>I can’t even let some of my coworkers use my shit without them ruining it, you bet your ass I’m going to teach my kid that sharing isn’t mandatory, especially with random people out in public.<br/></p> </blockquote> <p>Thank you this pisses me off and I see it all the time. A kid will be playing quietly and someone else will come and take something from then with force. Then when the fight starts parents come rushing over and the first thing the kid who stole the toy always says is “He wasn’t sharing.” No you ripped it out of his hands you little fuck. And then the kid who had something taken from him is now getting a talking to about how we need to share and the diplomatic solution is to let the other kid play with it for a while and take turns. And 9 times out of 10 the only reason the other kid wanted it in the first place was that someone else was using it. Kids are like that they only want it because someone else is enjoying it. Teaching kids to be pushovers and others that simply taking what they want is effective.</p><p>Whoever was using it first or whoever owns it has every right to keep it. Instead of teaching kids they have to share teach them to wait their fucking turn or deal with the reality that you don’t get everything you want just because you ask. Teach them that it’s nice to share, absolutely but not that it is always mandatory. </p><p>Glad this mom and others get it.</p></blockquote> <p>I was like &ldquo;so much this&rdquo; when I read this on Facebook. It&rsquo;s such a good point. &ldquo;Sharing&rdquo; does not mean you&rsquo;re entitled to other people&rsquo;s things. That&rsquo;s how you raise your kids to be liberals.</p>
Ass, Bad, and Books: Alanya Kolberg
 19 April at 21:27
 MY CHILD IS NOT REQUIRED TO SHARE WITH YOURS
 As soon as we walked in the park, Carson was approached by at
 least 6 boys, all at once demanding that he share his transformer,
 Minecraft figure, and truck. He was visibly overwhelmed and
 clutched them to his chest as the boys reached for them. He
 looked at me.

 "You can tell them no, Carson," I said. "Just say no. You don't
 have to say anything else."
 Of course, as soon as he said no, the boys ran to tattle to me that
 he was not sharing. I said, "He doesn't have to share with you.
 He said no. If he wants to share, he will!"

 That got me some dirty looks from other parents. Here is the
 thing though:
 If I, an adult, walked into the park eating a sandwich, aml
 required to share my sandwich with strangers in the park? No!
 Would any well-mannered adult, a stranger, reach out to help
 themselves to my sandwich, and get huffy if I pulled it away?
 No again.
<p><a href="http://matt-ruins-feminisms-shit.tumblr.com/post/159985485021/dainslefsblog-scrawnyflannelman-kasaron" class="tumblr_blog">matt-ruins-feminisms-shit</a>:</p>

<blockquote><p><a href="https://dainslefsblog.tumblr.com/post/159983920386/scrawnyflannelman-kasaron" class="tumblr_blog">dainslefsblog</a>:</p>
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<p><a href="https://scrawnyflannelman.tumblr.com/post/159982671121/kasaron-coca-cola-official-fierceawakening" class="tumblr_blog">scrawnyflannelman</a>:</p>
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<p><a href="http://kasaron.tumblr.com/post/159981254195/coca-cola-official-fierceawakening" class="tumblr_blog">kasaron</a>:</p>

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<p><a href="https://coca-cola-official.tumblr.com/post/159981165906/fierceawakening-dendritic-trees" class="tumblr_blog">coca-cola-official</a>:</p>
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<p><a href="http://fierceawakening.tumblr.com/post/159977672760/dendritic-trees-northstarfan-monteyjames91" class="tumblr_blog">fierceawakening</a>:</p>
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<p><a href="http://dendritic-trees.tumblr.com/post/159977380274" class="tumblr_blog">dendritic-trees</a>:</p>
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<p><a href="http://northstarfan.tumblr.com/post/159975677411/monteyjames91-bogleech-topographygo" class="tumblr_blog">northstarfan</a>:</p>
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<p><a href="https://monteyjames91.tumblr.com/post/159975415692/bogleech-topographygo-bogleech-mom-of-the" class="tumblr_blog">monteyjames91</a>:</p>
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<p><a href="http://bogleech.tumblr.com/post/159968948333/topographygo-bogleech-mom-of-the-year-where" class="tumblr_blog">bogleech</a>:</p>
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<p><a href="http://topographygo.tumblr.com/post/159968788412/bogleech-mom-of-the-year-where-was-this-attitude" class="tumblr_blog">topographygo</a>:</p>
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<p><a href="http://bogleech.tumblr.com/post/159968630278/mom-of-the-year-where-was-this-attitude-when-i" class="tumblr_blog">bogleech</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>MOM OF THE YEAR. WHERE WAS THIS ATTITUDE WHEN I WAS IN GRADE SCHOOL.<br/></p></blockquote>
<p>This is so weird, it’s a park? Who the hell thinks that a child they don’t know is obligated to share their possessions with their kids just cuz they play in a public space?</p>
</blockquote>
<p>It might vary with where you live and when you were a child but when I was tiny, every adult from teachers to family to television characters hammered into me non-stop that all good people ALWAYS SHARE EVERYTHING no matter what and only bad people keep even a single thing for themselves. “Sharing is caring” was the phrase repeated ad nauseum by songs and books and cartoons aimed at us toddlers.</p>
<p>I remember my own uncle just insisting I give him literally half of my dessert once to just sort of test and make sure my parents were teaching me “right” and copping a massive attitude when I said no. <br/></p>
<p>My mom actually sided with me there but most other adults I knew would never have done so. They’d have just lectured this small child on how selfish it is to not let just anyone and everyone have what you have.<br/></p>
</blockquote>

<p>I would teach my kid this</p>
<p>If you don’t know them like that and they trying to put hands on your stuff before even asking you, you have the right to tell them no and I will cosign</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Amen. There’s a difference between teaching a kid to be generous and training them to be taken advantage of. A little boy getting mobbed because strangers wanted something he had – and not one adult saying anything about it! – makes me think far less of the parents of those kids than Ms. Kolberg. <br/></p>
</blockquote>
<p>Definitely. There’s a big difference between teaching kids to share shared objects, like toys in a preschool, and their own personal things.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>Yep.</p>
<p>I remember my friend insisting I share my hard to find action figures with her. She took one with her somewhere and lost it. (I don’t think she was quite mean enough to outright steal it.)</p>
<p>Just because someone really likes something you have and says SHAAAAAAAARE doesn’t mean you should.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>Private property</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Taking notes; these are things I hadn’t considered when raising someone.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>This is super important. <br/>It’s DANGEROUS to teach your children that “sharing” means they get other people’s stuff. That’s not what the lesson should be.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>I can’t even let some of my coworkers use my shit without them ruining it, you bet your ass I’m going to teach my kid that sharing isn’t mandatory, especially with random people out in public.<br/></p>
</blockquote>
<p>Thank you this pisses me off and I see it all the time. A kid will be playing quietly and someone else will come and take something from then with force. Then when the fight starts parents come rushing over and the first thing the kid who stole the toy always says is “He wasn’t sharing.” No you ripped it out of his hands you little fuck. And then the kid who had something taken from him is now getting a talking to about how we need to share and the diplomatic solution is to let the other kid play with it for a while and take turns. And 9 times out of 10 the only reason the other kid wanted it in the first place was that someone else was using it. Kids are like that they only want it because someone else is enjoying it. Teaching kids to be pushovers and others that simply taking what they want is effective.</p><p>Whoever was using it first or whoever owns it has every right to keep it. Instead of teaching kids they have to share teach them to wait their fucking turn or deal with the reality that you don’t get everything you want just because you ask. Teach them that it’s nice to share, absolutely but not that it is always mandatory. </p><p>Glad this mom and others get it.</p></blockquote>

<p>I was like &ldquo;so much this&rdquo; when I read this on Facebook. It&rsquo;s such a good point. &ldquo;Sharing&rdquo; does not mean you&rsquo;re entitled to other people&rsquo;s things. That&rsquo;s how you raise your kids to be liberals.</p>

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