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Another One, Arguing, and Dating: FIND THAT PERSON WHO'S GOING TO INTRODUCE YOU TO/THE NEXT LEVEL OD DAILY DOSE What do you think? Is this becoming history? ✲♞ ✑ Some argue that the concept of being a gentleman is archaic. Others argue that the rules of being a gentleman have not and cannot change, and if you’re not standing reflexively when a woman enters the room, then you might as well go live under a bridge. Being a modern gentleman is both of these things, but also neither. I’m sure as hell not throwing my jacket over a mud puddle. But at the same time, any man who wants to rise above and stand out (in a good way) needs to keep in mind a few things that separate a modern gentleman from, well, everyone else. Consider the following: ✑........... 🚻 -Standing when women enter-leave the room: While it’s always a good idea to stand when being introduced, standing just because of a woman’s presence will come off as weird to most women. And, admit it, it kind of is. ✧ Offering your seat at a dinner table: If your host is expecting a party of a certain number, it’s up to the host or the restaurant to ensure there are enough seats. If an unexpected female guest shows up, well that probably means the host didn’t want her there anyway. Besides, you know what’s not gentlemanly? Awkwardly hovering over a table of seated guests after you gave up your chair to an uninvited diner. ✧ Helping her with her coat: This, on its own, is a fine idea. It’s a great gesture and it’s really adorable to see, say, a married couple doing this. However, if this is early in the dating game, she may not want you touching her stuff, and in all likelihood she won’t know what you’re trying to do. As important as it is to be gallant and kind, it’s even more important to make sure your date doesn’t feel like an idiot. ✑ Helping her with her chair: Again, nothing wrong with the gesture itself. It’s just another one of those things that women aren’t accustomed to anymore. Besides, at a decent place the host or waitstaff usually assists with this. ✱ 💡 @timkarsliyev .
Another One, Arguing, and Dating: FIND THAT PERSON WHO'S GOING TO
 INTRODUCE YOU TO/THE NEXT LEVEL
 OD
 DAILY DOSE
What do you think? Is this becoming history? ✲♞ ✑ Some argue that the concept of being a gentleman is archaic. Others argue that the rules of being a gentleman have not and cannot change, and if you’re not standing reflexively when a woman enters the room, then you might as well go live under a bridge. Being a modern gentleman is both of these things, but also neither. I’m sure as hell not throwing my jacket over a mud puddle. But at the same time, any man who wants to rise above and stand out (in a good way) needs to keep in mind a few things that separate a modern gentleman from, well, everyone else. Consider the following: ✑........... 🚻 -Standing when women enter-leave the room: While it’s always a good idea to stand when being introduced, standing just because of a woman’s presence will come off as weird to most women. And, admit it, it kind of is. ✧ Offering your seat at a dinner table: If your host is expecting a party of a certain number, it’s up to the host or the restaurant to ensure there are enough seats. If an unexpected female guest shows up, well that probably means the host didn’t want her there anyway. Besides, you know what’s not gentlemanly? Awkwardly hovering over a table of seated guests after you gave up your chair to an uninvited diner. ✧ Helping her with her coat: This, on its own, is a fine idea. It’s a great gesture and it’s really adorable to see, say, a married couple doing this. However, if this is early in the dating game, she may not want you touching her stuff, and in all likelihood she won’t know what you’re trying to do. As important as it is to be gallant and kind, it’s even more important to make sure your date doesn’t feel like an idiot. ✑ Helping her with her chair: Again, nothing wrong with the gesture itself. It’s just another one of those things that women aren’t accustomed to anymore. Besides, at a decent place the host or waitstaff usually assists with this. ✱ 💡 @timkarsliyev .

What do you think? Is this becoming history? ✲♞ ✑ Some argue that the concept of being a gentleman is archaic. Others argue that the rules o...

Beautiful, Confused, and God: Beautiful is he who lower his % Gaze. Beautiful is she who j2 observes her Modesty. Hayaa [Modesty She was at the station sitting politely waiting for the train, wearing her full loose Hijab. While she was sitting there, she saw a young Muslim man coming with his old mother. He was holding her kindly then he helped her to sit gently to wait for the train. He kept talking to his mom in an honorable way while she lowered her eyes, so happy that there are young Muslim like him who honor their mothers. When she raised her head, after few minutes, to see if the train came or not, she found that the same young Muslim man was looking at her smiling! She blushed and lowered her gaze.. When the train came finally, she rode it quickly. She realized that the young man rode in the same coach as her and stood in front of her with his mom. She felt his eyes were on her! Why is he looking at you like that? Isn’t he supposed to lower his gaze?! A satanic voice whispered in her ears: “Raise your head! Look at him don’t ignore him, he won’t eat you!! He is good Muslim man, didn’t you see how nice he is with his mother? Maybe he likes you and wants to marry a committed Muslim girl like you! Don’t lose this opportunity, just raise your head and take a look at him!” She was so confused, should she raise her head to look at him?! Suddenly, this Ayah from Quran came through her mind: "Tell the believing women that they should lower their gaze." [24:31] And she remembered this Hadith: "The furtive glance is one of the poisoned arrows of shaitan. Whoever forsakes it for fear of God will receive from Him, Great and Glorious is He, a faith the sweetness of which he will find within his heart. [Tabarani] Ya Allah! She was about to disobey her Lord! How could she do it? Where is her Hayaa (shyness) in front of her Lord? Where is her fear of Him? Many would say that it was just a quick glance, maybe he really wants to marry her, etc..But she knew that any blessing coming from Allah (like marriage for example) shouldn’t be obtained by His disobedience! So, she kept lowering her gaze during the whole trip. When she got off the train, she just kept walking away from it to go to her house. She didn’t look behind her or turn around, because her Hayaa stopped her.
Beautiful, Confused, and God: Beautiful is he who lower his %
 Gaze. Beautiful is she who j2
 observes her Modesty.
Hayaa [Modesty She was at the station sitting politely waiting for the train, wearing her full loose Hijab. While she was sitting there, she saw a young Muslim man coming with his old mother. He was holding her kindly then he helped her to sit gently to wait for the train. He kept talking to his mom in an honorable way while she lowered her eyes, so happy that there are young Muslim like him who honor their mothers. When she raised her head, after few minutes, to see if the train came or not, she found that the same young Muslim man was looking at her smiling! She blushed and lowered her gaze.. When the train came finally, she rode it quickly. She realized that the young man rode in the same coach as her and stood in front of her with his mom. She felt his eyes were on her! Why is he looking at you like that? Isn’t he supposed to lower his gaze?! A satanic voice whispered in her ears: “Raise your head! Look at him don’t ignore him, he won’t eat you!! He is good Muslim man, didn’t you see how nice he is with his mother? Maybe he likes you and wants to marry a committed Muslim girl like you! Don’t lose this opportunity, just raise your head and take a look at him!” She was so confused, should she raise her head to look at him?! Suddenly, this Ayah from Quran came through her mind: "Tell the believing women that they should lower their gaze." [24:31] And she remembered this Hadith: "The furtive glance is one of the poisoned arrows of shaitan. Whoever forsakes it for fear of God will receive from Him, Great and Glorious is He, a faith the sweetness of which he will find within his heart. [Tabarani] Ya Allah! She was about to disobey her Lord! How could she do it? Where is her Hayaa (shyness) in front of her Lord? Where is her fear of Him? Many would say that it was just a quick glance, maybe he really wants to marry her, etc..But she knew that any blessing coming from Allah (like marriage for example) shouldn’t be obtained by His disobedience! So, she kept lowering her gaze during the whole trip. When she got off the train, she just kept walking away from it to go to her house. She didn’t look behind her or turn around, because her Hayaa stopped her.

Hayaa [Modesty She was at the station sitting politely waiting for the train, wearing her full loose Hijab. While she was sitting there, she...